To Be, Or Not To Be?

These are three e-mails I got recently from a new coaching client of mine. He’s really struggling with his inner demons and all the crap, limiting beliefs and disempowering way he is looking at the world. Every time human beings try something new, or try stepping outside of their comfort zone, all of their fears, insecurities, doubts, what they perceive is lacking from their life, etc. tend to interfere in their ability to move forward, take action and learn. We all bullshit ourselves at times. Because of everything we feel it can be very scary at times. So what keeps people from moving forward and taking the action they know they need to take? It’s fear. As I said before, human beings have two primary fears: 1) fear that we’re not enough and 2) fear that we won’t be loved. In other words, our own fear that we don’t have what it takes to succeed, and our fear that we won’t be loved and accepted by our peers, friends and family, causes us to bullshit ourselves, make excuses and not take the actions that are essential to our success…