Acting Neurotic Ruins Attraction & Respect

Mar 17, 2014 by Coach Corey Wayne

110940791How and why acting neurotic, desperate, impatient, needy, controlling or emotional will ruin attraction and cause others to lose their respect and desire for you. How to learn the proper way to show up in your relationships and overcome your fears and bad habits that have always led to you getting rejected by members of the opposite sex who you actually had a chance with until you turned them off.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer I recently started coaching. He was driving a woman away who he was dating by being controlling, neurotic, impatient, needy and focusing on locking her down to a relationship. He has been unwilling to control his emotions and his actions and instead tends to act like a five year old boy throwing a temper tantrum.

When she returned from a trip overseas recently, he got upset and continued to make a mess of things. He asks me to critique the communication between the two of them and how I think he handled things.

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“One of the quickest ways to ruin someone’s attraction towards you is to start acting desperate, neurotic, impatient, needy, controlling or emotional. This behavior is the result of a belief system and model of the world that causes a person to believe, think and act in a way that communicates that they do not feel worthy, adequate or lovable. They presuppose that they have already lost and have no chance to get what they want or have what they want want them back. This shows up as controlling, fearful and obnoxious behavior that will repulse anyone. They feel like they have to force things in life since they believe and presuppose that no one would ever want to be with them, or freely give them what they want. It can become a hopeless loop of desire and disappointment, and therefore, a self-fulfilling prophecy.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

Published on March 17, 2014

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  1. I feel this guy here my situation is same problem with us like needy neurotic people is that even we want to control these feeling we cant control them . What is better for us to emotionally and physically get distant from the person with whom we are having crush its better for both of us by this nither we will hurt our self and with deep in side regrets nor we will disturb otherone hey coach deep regard for u. I see i m in same situtation even that girl has told me she doesnt like to talk te me anymore due to my behavior she feel so attracted toward me even likes me alot i m hurting her faminine instinct as she is seeing she cant make me happy more she gave me more i wanted . When we think from brain it says dont contact her eventually when u have made that mind she contacts you what would be best strategy at that time giving cold shoulder is really bad it hurts both of person as inside regrets we shouldnt act like this and i hurt her or she hurt him . It happened with me as she frankly told me she dont feel like she want to do anything with me i step back and never texted her not even call her she was hiding trying to stay away from me i see that it all happened on facebook since we meet there and here is distance between us. later on when she contacted that time i got little work i told her hey babe i ve to go out for a while i ll text u when ill be back i texted her she saw text and didnt reply suddenly disappeared again then i called her she said she is with her friend i back off have a good time . Being direct i come to point when person doesnt want to see us and yes got mixed feeling toward her contact us run away back off being rude and saying everything frankly please stop texting me it hurts both of us would be best of just being silent and work on life is best thanks how do u see this . I m really want to thank you its not about relationship of girl now you help us with making our life better as well .

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