The truth about the abundance, or lack thereof, of high quality women in society that make good dating prospects. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is on his third read of my book, “How To Be A 3% Man.” He claims that myself and many other self-help authors say that high quality women are abundant who make good dating prospects. I discuss the reality that high quality people in general, who share the same goals and values are a scarce commodity in society and why that is. I also discuss the importance and meaning of an abundance mentality when it comes to dating, making friends and your professional life so you don’t get attached to people and outcomes that are unreasonable, unrealistic or unattainable.
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A True Alpha’s State of Mind
How to master a true alpha’s state of mind, so you can date the kind of women you really want and reach your full potential. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss two different email success stories from two different viewers. The first email is from a guy who got divorced after a twenty-five year relationship that did a number on his self-confidence and self-esteem. He shares how he turned things around and what he did that made his personal life easy and effortless. The second email is from a guy who was beat down after a twelve-year toxic marriage. Now he is engaged to a smoke-show that looks like Scarlett Johansson. She also revealed after they got serious that she also likes women. They are both dating her hot girlfriend in addition to dating many other beautiful women. He’s living a life that most men can only dream about and shares how he did it.
Friend Zone: Decades of Frustration
How to master the art of attraction, so you can get out of friend zone when you’ve been stuck there for many years. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss two different emails from two different viewers who have been stuck in friend zone for over a decade. The first email is from a guy who hooked up with his female friend several years ago, but since then nothing has really progressed. They both have dated other people off and on, but they recently saw each other after she broke up with her most recent boyfriend. However, things did not progress beyond kissing, and he’s not sure what to do next. The second email is from a guy who has been stuck in friend zone for thirty years! They also live on opposite ends of the country, which makes getting together difficult.
Do Better!
I always hire and work with the best. Jon Dufresne of Kinetic Consulting.net is my firearms instructor, and his personal motto for success and constant improvement is: “Do Better!” Jon served with 3rd Battalion, 75th Ranger Regiment, deploying multiple times in various capacities. The Ranger Battalion also provided Jon with training and first hand experience in small unit tactics, airborne operations, field medicine, breaching, foreign languages, counterterrorism and small arms. Upon leaving the Army, Jon worked in executive protection and acted as a law enforcement consultant, molding his military experience into a contextual view of the threats faced outside of combat environments. Jon comes to the firearms industry with an ideal blend of military and citizen, shaping his courses to apply to Military, Law Enforcement and citizen students alike.
Focus On The Process
Why you should focus on the process of taking action and implementing your life and career success strategy to stay focused when things aren’t going well and success seems far off, if not impossible to achieve. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss the power of focus and moving towards the things you want in life when there is little to no evidence that what you are doing is going to eventually bring you the results and success you want in life. How to get through difficult times when you don’t feel motivated and life often seems hopeless.
Plagued By Fear
The best way to handle being plagued by fear that you won’t get what you want or that people you care about won’t do what you want.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who has been following my work for about three years, and it has helped him to achieve more success in life. He says that he and his family are plagued by fear regarding his sister’s life choices. She hangs out with shady people and is constantly making life choices and exhibiting irresponsible behavior that puts her in peril. He is worried about his father’s health that is suffering because he’s worried sick about his daughter’s safety and well-being. He asks what they should do to deal with their fears and his sister’s recklessness.
George Floyd
What the death of George Floyd can teach us about America, being self reliant, getting accurate news and information and what the riots teach us about the power of propaganda and misinformation distributed by the corrupt media.
She’s Back!
Why having a cocky, playful, humorous and non-serious vibe is the best way keep women attracted, coming back for more and unable to stay away from you for very long. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss four different emails from four different viewers. The first email is from a guy who recently broke up with his girlfriend of three and a half years. He says it was his diligent study of my work that enabled him to win her heart, but he didn’t follow instructions, got complacent and eventually lost her. The second email is from a woman who not only loves and agrees with my work, but she shares some epiphanies she recently had about herself and how being too masculine and not feminine enough has caused her tremendous suffering in life, and her relationships. The third email is from an eighteen-year old guy who is in constant conflict and disagreement with his twenty two year old sister. She breaks his balls and tells him that what Tony Robbins and I teach is brainwashing him and doesn’t work. He doesn’t know how to deal with her. I tell him what to do to have her purring like a kitten and finally treating him with respect. The fourth email is from a viewer who is now twenty three and started following and implementing my work when he was nineteen and had just gotten dumped by his girlfriend. He not only got her back applying what I teach, but he’s enjoyed a series of epic personal and professional successes during and after his college career applying what he learned from me.
How To Gradually Back Off After Over Pursuing
How to gradually back off after over pursuing to re-attract her, so she pursues you instead. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a guy who has read my first book, “How To Be A 3% Man,” four times. He made the mistake of over-pursuing during the lockdown by talking on the phone too much and causing a woman he just started dating to lose interest. He said they also started running out of topics to talk about on the phone. He asks how he should gradually back off from calling her every day, so she doesn’t feel like he is ignoring her. It’s a great email to discuss the mindset my book teaches so you naturally keep women attracted instead of trying to game out every move you make with them and acting like a robot. I also discuss a customer review for the audiobook from a guy who read it the recommended ten to fifteen times. He shares the epiphanies and paradigm shifts it has made in his life to explain why reading it ten to fifteen times is essential to get the best results.
The Success Secrets of Elon Musk
The success secrets of Elon Musk that enable him to make his grandest goals, dreams and desires a reality. What you can learn from his success secrets and principles that you can apply right now in your own life to start getting even better results than you may already be achieving with your current life success strategies. We trace his humble beginnings growing up in South Africa, and dreaming of one day moving to America, to chasing his dreams, becoming a billionaire and one of the most successful entrepreneurs and visionaries the world has ever seen in modern times. We examine his success mindsets, belief systems and life strategies to not only embrace pain and failure so you can learn from it and improve, but to endeavor to cause even more failures to happen. How this speeds up your learning curve and helps you to achieve your goals in a shorter period of time. Embracing failure as a gift and essential teacher.
Life Purpose: The Only Way Out Is Through
What you should do if you are struggling to find your life purpose and still have not figured what you should do. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss four different emails from four different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who sufferers from anxiety, depression, OCD and hypochondria due to growing up in a chaotic household. He asks for help to deal with stress and the fact success often feels hopeless. The second is a question from a YouTube commenter who says he doesn’t know what he loves to do, because he never stays passionate about anything for very long. The third email is from a viewer who is getting a PHD in physics and doesn’t even know why he’s in school. The fourth email is from a guy who has an opportunity for a six-figure salary in the family business, but has to stay in a small town that doesn’t excite him, or he could take a sales job for significantly less and live anywhere he wants to.
Fearful The Attraction May Not Last
What you should do if you’re dating a woman you really like, but you are fearful the attraction may not last because she seems to be losing interest in you. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss three different emails from three different viewers. The first email is from a guy who is thirty and came across my work several years ago, read my book once, but set it aside because he was focused on self-growth and business, but not dating. A woman he’s been seeing from work started becoming distant, so he started reading my book again and is slowly turning things around. However, he’s fearful the attraction may not last. The second email is from a guy whose girlfriend is taking more time to respond to him and seems to be losing interest. The third email is a success story from a guy who was making the same mistakes as the first two guys with his girlfriend of seven months, but was able to turn things around after finding my work and implementing it properly.
Steve Jobs: Be Insanely Great! (Part 2 of 2)
The success secrets of Steve Jobs. The mindset, philosophy and simple success strategies Steve Jobs, used to create insanely great companies and the life and lifestyle most people only dream of. What you can learn from it so you can reach your full potential and accomplish your grandest goals and dreams. This is part 2 of a 2 part documentary. It covers what we can learn from some of his greatest challenges, setbacks, comebacks, successes and his legacy.
Steve Jobs: Be Insanely Great! (Part 1 of 2)
The success secrets of Steve Jobs. The mindset, philosophy and simple success strategies Steve Jobs used to create insanely great companies and the life and lifestyle most people only dream of. What you can learn from it so you can reach your full potential and accomplish your grandest goals and dreams. This is part 1 of a 2 part documentary.
I Don’t Like What I Do, Professionally
What you should do if you don’t like what you do for a living, so you can do something that finally fulfills you. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a guy who says everything in his life is going great, except what he does professionally for a living. He wants to get up everyday, have a passion for his life’s work and feel fulfilled. He’s tired of doing boring corporate jobs he no longer enjoys, but still can’t figure out what he really wants to do instead. He’s looked around and doesn’t know if he should become an entrepreneur and start his own business, or find a different career to pursue. This is a common problem everyone is faced with as they go through the seasons and decades of their lives. I discuss the process and some potential paths for him, and you, to answer these questions over and over when they inevitably come up over the course of our lives.
She’ll Be Back
Why she’ll be back is the right cocky, playful attitude and vibe you need to give off when trying to re-attract women who lost attraction for you. In
this video coaching newsletter, I discuss a partial email success story from a guy who was with his wife for seventeen years and is recently separated. He admits that he has been out of the dating game for a long time but found my work after having difficulty attracting a new woman he really liked. What I liked about his email is that he is saying things I would not have said and making minor mistakes, but he is still getting the results he wants. He went
from getting blown off, jerked around and being tested pretty hard by this new woman, to her being flexible, submissive and having a complete attitude change. It’s a great illustration of how the power of non-attachment and having a playful and charming attitude creates attraction and causes women to like and chase you more.
Dating, Relationships & Social Distancing
How to handle dating and relationships during social distancing to keep the mystery, attraction and romance growing. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss four different emails from four different viewers who are in different dating and relationship situations impacted by social distancing. The four different emails deal with guys in all three of the most important pickup, dating and relationship phases, and the skills and techniques required to increase and maintain attraction. How to keep the mystery and romance growing and getting better no matter whether you’re stuck together under the same roof or forced to live apart for an unknown period of time.
Why Over Pursuing Turns Her Off
Why over pursuing a woman you want to date turns her off and causes her to lose interest, so you can avoid these common mistakes. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss three different emails from three different viewers. The first email is from a guy who has been following me for two years and listened to my audio book fifteen times. He shares a very detailed email that reveals his mindset and the mistakes he made that led to him getting blown off. The second email is from a guy who met a girl on Tinder who had a guy in the background she really liked. He got pushed away. The third email is from a guy who lost his wife of thirty years about five years ago. A woman who was a friend showed interest, but because he was in mourning, he pushed her away and said he wasn’t ready to date. Then, he finally developed feelings for her and told her how he felt on Valentine’s Day. Now she refuses to see him. He’s trying to figure out why. These are three great emails to learn from to learn the sweet spot between pursuing too much and not enough.
Salt Dating: Navigating The Sugar Daddy World
How to navigate the “Sugar Daddy” world of dating if you’re more into the hookup culture instead of looking for a relationship. In this video coaching newsletter, I once again interview Anthony “Dream” Johnson, the President of the Manosphere. He shares some of his dating and seduction experiences, tips, strategies and techniques he uses when navigating the multimillion dollar industry of “Sugar Daddy” dating. These are the “seeking arrangement” type of websites where young hot college girls go on dates with rich older men who give them money, pay their rent, college tuition, invest in their businesses, etc. I had no idea how extensive this industry was. Anthony learned how to be a “salt dater,” by being able to date and seduce these women, without giving them any money or paying any of their bills. One of the first women he met was a beautiful twenty one year old Persian Girl who pulled up to his house in a new Bentley that one of her rich older sugar daddies bought for her. He got so good at systematizing his approach on sugar daddy websites, that these women would just come over and sleep with him without going on dates. It’s a really fun and unusual interview.
Flakey Ex-Girlfriend
How to handle a flakey ex-girlfriend and other women you want to date who jerk you around. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss three different emails from three different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who came from a broken home who does well getting women on dates in the beginning, but they soon become flakey and unreliable. The latest woman he’s been seeing for about four months, but she often cancels at the last minute. The second email is from a guy who has made several dates with a woman he likes, but twice she has completely stood him up, ignores him, but then texts him a few days later acting like nothing ever happened. The third email is a success story from a guy who spent the inheritance he got from his parents raising his wife’s kids from a previous marriage of hers, only to have her cheat on him and leave him during the financial crisis when money got tight. He mostly gave up on women, after getting another woman pregnant by accident. Then he met a new woman and things got a little rocky, but then he found my work and turned things around.
I Married The Woman From Hell
How to meet the right woman by learning which types of women you should avoid from a man who says that he married the woman from hell. In this video coaching newsletter I interview Anthony “Dream” Johnson, the President of the Manosphere. He shares some of the painful lessons he learned that he first discussed in his YouTube video titled, “Marrying Medusa: How To Survive A Female Psychopath”. After four years of being together with his girlfriend, and wife of two years, in what he thought was a happy monogamous marriage, he discovered that she had been living a double life. She was serial cheating on him with other men, and also moonlighting as a hooker for extra cash. If you thought the guy from my video, “Betrayed By The Perfect Woman” had it rough, listen to what happened to Anthony. We go through red flags to look out for and the great life lessons he learned and how it made him a better man.
Re-Attraction Using The No Contact Rule
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a guy who started dating a woman who he has been a friend with for over ten years about six months ago. About a month ago she broke it off and told him she wanted to be friends only. He agreed at first, but now when she contacts him, he doesn’t know what to do or how to respond to her messages. He asks my opinion. The second email is a success story from a guy who has been following my work for about two years. He shares how easy and effortless it has been since he met his dream woman a few months ago. These are two good contrast emails that show the right way and the wrong way to properly attract women you want to date. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the bodies of their emails.
Struggling With My Purpose In Life
What you should do if you are struggling with your purpose in life, doubt you can achieve it or if you need help figuring out what your purpose is. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who says that he is struggling with his purpose in life, because even though he knows what he wants to accomplish, he is filled with irrational fears and doubts that he can actually achieve it. He says his brain is flooded with negative thoughts that tell him he is not good enough, he can’t do it, etc. I go over the fundamentals of the process of achieving your purpose once you figure out what it is, and how your purpose will evolve over time as you age and experience it.
What To Do When Your Girl Goes Psycho
What to do when your girl goes psycho, becomes angry, overly emotional or abusive, so you can calm her down and talk things out in a peaceful, healthy and loving manner. Why Love is allowing. In this video coaching newsletter I interview Ashley Ayurveda, and Dr. Dominick D’Anna, in a follow up interview to last weeks video interview that I did with them titled, “Why Younger Women Date Older Men”, to answer questions from the haters and doubters, as well as the sincerely curious, as to why they really broke up, what her parents think about her dating a man twice her age, why men should pay on dates and how to communicate in a rational, healthy, calm, peaceful and loving manner when your girl goes psycho. How to have loving breakups if you eventually decide to date other people.
The 2nd Amendment
In this documentary, we explore the history and origination of the American 2nd amendment, which guarantees the right of all American citizens to keep and bear arms. We also discuss many of the common arguments for and against the 2nd amendment, and how after the civil war some tyrannical state governments tried to prevent freed slaves from being armed.
