The causes of drama and trouble in most relationships and what men should focus on so they can have effortless and drama free relationships. How to end the dysfunctional cycle of making up and breaking up unnecessarily.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who cheated on his wife and then she dumped him. He begged, pleaded and chased her for a year trying to get her back, but to no avail. She became a stripper and stayed single for a year. She became a stripper to earn money to attend college, and enrolled in school. They have a child together. While he obsessed about her internally, she started dating a new man who supported her being a stripper.
Recently, she dumped her new boyfriend after a year of dating. She called him and told him about her breakup. She came over, one thing led to another and they had sex again. Textbook. He created an opportunity for sex to happen. They hung out, had fun and hooked up. She confessed that she missed what they had. As they lay naked in bed together he silently prayed it would work out. He asks me how to keep from fucking it up going forward. He wants them to be a family again with their baby who is now 4. I tell him what to focus on.
“Success is simply a matter of luck. Ask any failure.” ~ Earl