Am I Fighting A Losing Battle?

Aug 18, 2014 by Coach Corey Wayne

86513817How to determine if your woman is good relationship material, if she will ever change or if you are simply fighting a losing battle hoping a drama filled relationship can become a healthy loving effortless relationship.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who has been dating a woman for five years. For the last two years they have not been exclusive or had the boyfriend/girlfriend label. They act like a couple and have all the benefits of being a couple, without the labels. This bothers him. His woman has dumped him numerous times and constantly throws things in his face that he did wrong in the past. This confuses him as he thought those issues were resolved long ago. He feels like she does not appreciate all the things he has done right in the past. He wonders if he is fighting a losing battle or if things can be turned around. She has most recently told him it is over for good. Despite his best efforts to fix things, he is getting nowhere.

The second email is from a viewer who has become infatuated with a married woman who comes to his workplace. He said at first he did not realize she was flirting and seemed to be interested in him. He recently ran into her while she was with her family after not seeing her for a while. They both ignored each other. The next day she stopped by his work and never mentioned the encounter. She then said she was going to visit him again in a few days, but she never showed up and he has not seen her since. He asks what this means.

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“When it comes to lovers, it is not your job to fix someone. You are not responsible for their wounds, shortcomings, flaws, faults, failures or their inability to love openly, freely and communicate like an adult. They were like this before you met them, and will continue to be this way when they are no longer in your life. People who are addicted to drama, expect drama or believe arguments and drama are normal in relationships, will tend to attract and stay in relationships with people who are incapable of healthy loving effortless relationships. Once you learn to love and accept yourself unconditionally and resolve to communicate lovingly, freely and openly, you will no longer tolerate friends or lovers who constantly ruin your peace and happiness with their never ending drama, problems, immaturity or hostile argumentative nature. Some people are simply toxic and emotionally conditioned to expect and seek out strife. They are incapable of living any other way because ease, delight, effortlessness, serenity and peace, simply do not feel comfortable, natural or bearable to them.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

Published on August 18, 2014

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  1. As I am listening to this vid, I am sitting in a Starbucks watching all the pick up mistakes. It is so funny.

    There is a Starbucks employee, a very cute blond in her twenties in the back of the counter and this guy about the same age who is the customer. You can tell the blond is very interested in this guy because she has spent nearly an hour talking with him and even chasing him down the counter. The guy is just screwing around like a ditz wasting time in front of the counter playing with his cup as she waits on the customers. Then as soon as she has a minute she comes back to talk to him. This is so painful to watch.

    Clearly, within the first few minutes he should have closed the deal and asked her to meet him someplace and he should have left. You can see she is kind of frustrated. Finally, this guy just left after nearly an hour of screwing around without accomplishing anything. As I said this is hyper painful too watch because nothing is going to happen as this guy drools all over this girl..

    Not to be outdone, by the 20 year olds there is another man and a woman I see often in their mid to late sixties. The woman always comes around to read her book and about 30 minutes later the man comes around in this high powered BMW. He orders his drink then goes to see the woman and just systematically screws it all up. He has been doing this for weeks now. He goes up to her table then seems to absolutely exhaust her with his bullshit talk and then he leaves.

    My take away from this is that the 20 year old and the 60 year old are both not only getting nowhere but have totally screwed it all up by not closing on the deal. It is sooo obvious both women are interested in these guys.

    I have started noticing this dynamic everywhere where men have absolutely no idea what they are doing but are wasting time and being total bores to these women. It is soooo painful to watch. The women are truing to be interested but you can see they are getting bored and have no idea what the next step is because the guys are not initiating them. These are all heartaches in the making.

    Too funny.

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