Another 3% Man Success Story

Another 3% Man success story of a man meeting a seducing a woman he met randomly.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who shares a recent success story of a woman he met on the street. He shares what he did and said to create a date on the spot and to seduce her on that date despite her saying it wasn’t going to happen as they were headed to her hotel room.

My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

This particular email is from a viewer who shares a recent success story of a woman he just randomly bumped into on the street. He gauged her interest. She seemed interested. He made an actual date on the spot, and then he went on the date. Then, as they were heading back to her hotel room, she’s like, “I don’t think we’re having sex,” and he just kind of smirked. Of course, they had the indoor Olympics and she said a lot of nice things afterwards.

So he’s from Argentina, she’s from Brazil, and he has some questions because it looks like obviously they’re going to be a little long-distance there.

So let’s go through his email.

Viewer Email:

Dear Coach Corey Wayne,

I hope this message finds you well.

Boy, have I been waiting to write this email! Quick context: I’ve read your work so much that I can now listen to your podcasts and predict exactly what you’re going to say before you speak (I do this every week to practice and stay sharp). It’s been a long journey, but I never gave up. When I felt like doing so, I always came back to your work because the success stories always kept the fire burning inside me. I told myself, “If that Bob could do it, this Bob can.”

True.

Long story short, it all started with a random street encounter using the most undervalued sentence in history: “Hi. What’s your name? Well Jessica, it’s nice to meet you.” I made a date on the spot for the following day. Fast forward two days, and this beautiful, interesting Brazilian woman was telling me in the elevator on the way to her hotel room: “Just so you know, we aren’t going to have sex tonight. I’m just not quite ready for that yet. I barely know you.”

Translation that means, “We’re going to have sex tonight, as long as you don’t talk me out of it.”

I replied nonchalantly, “Hey, your house, your rules. It’s fine by me. No worries.” Inside, however, I thought: “You’ve just given your hand away and you don’t even know it. It’s the indoor Olympics tonight!”

Needless to say, she was panting and asking me to get a condom a short while later. Being a 3% Man can almost feel too easy and predictable sometimes.

Well, that’s the whole point, is you want to get to the point that you know the book so well you could teach a class on it, and if you practice it enough, then you’re going to see just how easy to understand and predictable women are that you can literally set your watch to it. Women are as predictable as the sun coming up in the east and setting in the west. If you know what to look for and you understand how they operate and what motivates them, obviously, the book tells you that.

If you’re new and you haven’t read it and you’re like, “What does that fucking guy know? If you read what’s in my book and you apply it, you’ll get better results than you’re getting. If you’re skeptical, you can read it for free on my website, just go to UnderstandingRelationships.com. You’ll see the email sign-up box in the upper right hand corner if you’re on a desktop. If you’re on a mobile device, it’ll be the first thing that you see. Put your name, your email, create a password. As soon as you hit enter, the book will open up right in your web browser. You can read it right there so you have no reason not to learn this stuff. I even let you read the book for free. You get to try before you buy. Once you see how well it works, then you can go buy an audio-book, a Kindle paperback, hardcover.

So back to our email.

After she “came like a waterfall,” she started laughing non-stop like a child. When I asked what was funny, she replied, “I can’t believe what just happened. This has never happened to me before. I just met you two days ago! This is all too crazy. No one ever did this.”

So from her perspective, she got the experience like a romance novel or what you see in a movie, randomly bumping into a stranger on the street, there was chemistry and attraction. A day later there’s a date, and then that evening they’re hanging out, having fun and hooking up together, and she didn’t expect it because most guys don’t have any game.

Now, is that the only person she’s ever said that to? Maybe, maybe not, but they clearly don’t say it very often to most guys because the average guy just doesn’t get it. So if you apply what’s in the book, you can get to the Promised Land a lot quicker. Like obviously, I guess in this case, he was on vacation. So it’s not like you’re going to take your number and call her three, four days later, a week later or whatever it happens to be. It’s like you’re making a date on the spot because you’re going to be going back home.

I didn’t reply out loud, but I am writing this email to tell you my instant thought: “… A 3% Man just happened to you, baby.” I kid you not, Coach, I’m afraid of going to sleep thinking I could wake up tomorrow and this was only a dream.

Well, this is reality. The book gives you the cheat codes to life. Pretty simple.

To all my fellow Bobs out there who haven’t had their success story yet: DO NOT give up. Know that I’ve been on the other side of this email so many times you cannot even imagine, feeling like giving up each and every time.

That’s why you just got to keep moving forward. Like Andy Andrews said, “You have to persist without exception.” Persist without exception.

Stick to our 3% fundamentals, practice, and keep going. Your perfect Jessica is waiting for you on the next corner. Believe. God bless you and your journey, Coach. The world is a better place with you in it.

Well, I appreciate the kind words.

Quick question while we are at it: She is moving back to live in Brazil after her travels, and I am moving back to Argentina to work on my company.

OK, so I don’t know where they actually were then. They were traveling together. Both of them live in South America. I don’t know if they were in the States, in Europe or wherever.

Should I invite her to visit me?

Absolutely! When you get back, if you’re still on vacation, I mean, it looks like he’s already gone back, but when you get back home, I would reach out to her and tell her you’d love to see her. Then for the first one, I would go visit her in her country. Brazil’s beautiful. Brazilians do do it better in some ways. It’s a fun place to visit. It’s like supermodel, beautiful woman just on every fucking corner. They’re everywhere. They’re walking all over the place. Never seen anything like it. Plus, there’s hills and mountains and they’re walking in high heels in their jeans up and down those mountains and the hills all day, every day. They have beautiful bodies, beautiful figures, beautiful legs. So I think it’s a great place.

I would definitely do like a FaceTime video chat and say, “I want to see you,” and if she’s back at her country, go see her. If she still hasn’t moved back, maybe you invite her to see you or you maybe go meet up with her, but ideally, if you’re going to do long-distance, obviously the guy should go visit first to make her feel safe. I mean, you already spent some time together, but in this case, I would still go visit her in Brazil because if you haven’t been there, it’s beautiful. Women are beautiful. It’s just a great place.

So I would do it the first time, and then the next time she comes to see you. Then once you kind of get in a groove, then like one month you travel, the next month she travels. Ideally, you want to see each other at least once a month, and with you alternating. That means over the course of a year, you travel six times and she travels six times.

Or wait for her to invite me?

Nope. You’re the man. You’re the leader. You’re supposed to make things happen.

How do I handle this situation long-distance? Or should I do nothing? Appreciate your wisdom here, Coach.

Best Regards,

The Argentinian Bob

So in between the times you guys see each other, I would do at least one video date per week, which is an actual date. Obviously, you can’t be together in person all the time, so you’re going to do it on your computer or your phone and have some wine, some shots, I think it’s how you say that, or some kind of cocktail, have dinner together, just like it would be a regular date. That way you keep the bond alive. Then in the meantime, she’ll be texting you and stuff in between, but once a week I would do a video date with her.

Like I said, once a month you should travel to see her, the next month she should travel to see you, but starting it off, you should go visit her first. That’s the best way to do it. Worked great for me when I was dating internationally and every client that followed that, it works pretty good, but eventually somebody’s gonna have to move if you guys are going to be together long-term. So that’s something to consider as well. This is a great, nice little success story.

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