Why women are very easy to seduce when you know what to look for & how to interact with them in a sexual way. Men and women both love sex. Human beings are sexual beings. The reason most men who want sex aren’t getting it, is because they simply do not know how to interact with women in a sexual way. The most important thing is that she obviously must feel an attraction for you in order for you to have a chance at seducing her. As long as you meet her minimum physical attractiveness requirement which is simply her seeing you as, “He’okay. He’s kind of cute, etc.” Then you simply have to not talk her out of sleeping with you. It’s shocking to most guys the first time this happens: when you are at a party, a social event or at a bar or nightclub and you bump into a woman and look into her eyes and can tell she wants you by the way she looks into your eyes. You look at her lips and then into her eyes and notice she’s looking at your lips too, and then you start making out after only knowing each other for about 5 seconds! It’s also really mind blowing to most men the first time they meet a woman and effortlessly hook up in bed after knowing each other for an hour or two. Society has taught us that things are not supposed to be this easy when it comes to sex and hooking up. The following is an e-mail from a reader who is surprised at how fast an 18-year-old hottie slept with him after only knowing her for a few hours. He’s a little unsure of what his next move should be. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:
I read your book and check out every article you put out everyday. You are truly an inspiration, man! Here’s the situation I’ve got going on right now. I’m 22 and this girl is 18. She came over with her friends to my house. I have a few guy roommates also. We all drank and played beer pong and stuff like that. I sat down beside her and started talking about tattoos and all kinds of stuff. I got her number by the end of the night. They came back about 5 days later. We all drank again and it ended with the bedroom olympics. It was hilarious because she was telling me how she’d never done this kind of thing and had only had sex with her ex and didn’t want me to think she was a hoe. All I could think about is how you constantly say girls will say that. Man, you know your stuff ha ha. (I might not always be right, but I’m never wrong.) So for one, I want to say thank you because if it weren’t for you and your teachings, I never would’ve hooked up with her because I wouldn’t have had the balls to even say hi. (You’re welcome. This is your birthright as a man.) So here’s where I’m at now. Since then she’s texted me saying how much she misses me and how much she loved sleeping with me and all that. (Translation: “It’s so refreshing to be with a man who knows what to do! That is why I sleep with you. I like fucking you and I want you to fuck me again real soon!!!!!!”) So I went ahead and set a date for us to go out Wednesday. (Awesome! Make sure it’s at night so it can lead to sex. Create an opportunity for sex to happen. That is what a date is.) What I’m wondering is how I should play this one? (You treat ALL women the SAME. Rinse, recycle, repeat. Why take her out and spend money? You can simply have her come over to hang out and have sex again.) The fact that she was so easy to get into bed worries me that she might be that easy for everyone, (All women are like this. They like to fuck too!!! Most men simply talk them right out of sleeping with them. 97% of men she will meet will be clueless. She slept with you because you made it easy and made her feel safe and comfortable.) and maybe have a problem being faithful to someone. (STOP THIS RELATIONSHIP TALK NONSENSE IMMEDIATELY!!! That is a woman’s department, not the man’s. Your job as a man is simply to create the next fun filled opportunity for sex to happen. She only shared herself with you because you proved yourself worthy by acting worthy and being direct. Women are sexually frustrated too because so many men are clueless!) What I’m saying is do I date her like I would any other girl that I haven’t slept with? (Keep doing what you are doing. Why would you want to change your approach when its working? Don’t complicate things or you will fuck it up and she will stop sleeping with you!!!) Or do I just keep her in the friends with benefits zone? (Just keep having her come over to hang and have sex. If you feel like going out and doing something with her, that’s ok too. You should be doing this with other women too so you can develop SWAGGER!!! That will get you laid even more and by higher quality women as your skills of seduction improve. You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.) I hope this makes sense. Thanks for all you do brother!
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“Adam Carolla used to say that when a woman likes you, the doors start opening. i.e. Every step of the courtship dance becomes easy because she’s letting you in, and all you have to do is walk through. And if those doors start shutting in your face, time to move on.” ~ YouTube viewer comment