How to determine if you are ready to date, be in a relationship or just casually hook up and have fun with random women you meet. If you say you want a relationship, but you have yet to meet someone you really like, then you must ask yourself if you are ready, comfortable, secure and open enough in your life to allow someone into it in order to love you.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is building his business on a shoestring, waiting tables part time to make ends meet and loving it! He has interest in two women he works with in his part time job, but he rationalizes away his interest saying he is too busy to date.
From his email it looks like what’s really going on is he is afraid to invite either of them out for a drink. He has not had a girlfriend in a year and a half. He wonders if he’s really ready.
“Attracting an amazing person into your life to love you is a direct result of being ready, willing and able to be loved, as well as knowing how to interact with members of the opposite sex in ways that trigger sexual attraction. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself so people will naturally be drawn to you when you encounter them along the journey of your life. If you are happy with your life and you have come to a place where you unconditionally love and accept yourself, you’ll create the space and opportunity for the right person to show up to love you, & be loved by you.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne