Attachments Create Suffering

Why getting attached to getting ex-girlfriends back, wanting someone who does not want you, wanting another shot with someone you previously blew it with or simply wanting things in your life to be other than they are, will create unnecessary suffering and prevent you from moving forward so you can attract someone or life circumstances that are much better for you. How to desire what you want, take simple actions to get it and then be able to let go of what ever possibility shows up afterwards so you can live an attachment free life of effortless manifestation.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss three different emails from three different viewers who are struggling with being attached to women they want, women they want back or are struggling to let go of the past so they can move on and create something even more spectacular than what they had previously. The first email is from a viewer who is struggling to not pursue his ex as she has now started to reach out to him, but then suddenly leaves him hanging in the middle of his trying to set a date with her.

The second email is from a viewer who made the mistake of getting too attached and chatting too much on a smart phone app with a girl he just started dating. She told him when she canceled their third date that, “she doesn’t feel she knows what she wants, although I really do like you and want to stay in touch, etc!” The third email is from a viewer who has a wife who he is in therapy with who got taken away in handcuffs a year ago because she got so totally out of control during a heated argument.

“Attachments to things you want, people who you want to loved by and time-frames that you want things to happen in, create suffering and prevent you from being happy in the present moment. Jobs, careers, businesses, relationships, lovers, friends, etc., that no longer serve you will dissolve and disappear from your life. Let them. The reason they dissolve is that they have served their purpose in helping you become the person you are right now. In order for you to fulfill your destiny, new people and better circumstances need a space in your life so they can fill it. Without that space, they can not manifest. Therefore, you must allow people and circumstances to effortlessly choose you and to choose to be in your life, instead of trying to hold onto the past and force what does not belong to stay. If you focus on allowing what you want to come into your life instead of trying to force things, your life will be much easier, stress free, effortless, efficient and you’ll be a much happier, healthier and content person.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne