In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who met a woman on Facebook. They have started talking and later started communicating on Skype video. The only problem is that he lives in the United States and she lives in Europe. He asks what he can do to continue growing attraction to the point that they start seeing each other physically in person and it later evolves into a relationship. He says they have a spectacular connection when they talk and she seems to be really interested in him. I give him some tips on how to start and grow long distance relationships online, and later successfully transition them to in-person physical relationships. I also discuss a second email from a viewer who got dumped and blocked by his ex. He describes how after finding my work he realized where he went wrong. He also mentioned how he recently met a woman who was a total ten in his opinion, and made a date with her within five minutes of meeting.
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“When you focus on creating a great life for yourself, sometimes you will attract members of the opposite sex through Facebook, and other social or online media. In order to create and grow attraction when you are long distance away from someone, you should do Skype video dates. You should start out with one Skype video date per week. That means setting a definite date where you have a definite day and time to meet online for a Skype video date. The same rules apply as if you were meeting in person as I discuss in my book, “How To Be A 3% Man.” At some point, one of you must travel to meet the other in person. Ideally, that should happen after at least three or four multiple hour long Skype video dates have taken place over the course of several weeks. Therefore, if you go to see them, then the next time they need to come to see you. Just as when you live in the same city, as a woman’s attraction for you grows, the frequency of her reaching out to you will increase slowly over time. The reality is that at some point, someone will have to move if you are to enter into a real relationship. Time, repetition and patience are essential to enabling feelings and emotional bonding to grow slowly over time. In our digital and connected world, you never know from where or when you will meet the next great love of your life.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne