How to avoid losing yourself in a relationship. Why most people slowly stop living their lives, taking care of their bodies, hanging out with their friends, focusing on their purpose, dreams and give up their hobbies, interests and passions in the mistaken belief that it will be good for the family or children.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who got dumped by his wife unexpectedly. After finding out about my work he realized he had become lazy, complacent, had gained weight and simply stopped being the man his wife fell in love with. He started hooking up and having sex with his wife again, but when he started acting needy and weak she blew him off for another dude.
He asks how he should interact with her since they also have two small children and he wants to re-attract her. The guy she is dating is making all kinds of mistakes, acting needy and stalkerish, so it’s simply a matter of time before she blows him off. He’s already lost 95 pounds now that he is refocused on his purpose and taking care of himself.
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“Excellence is not a singular act but a habit. You are what you do repeatedly.” ~ Aristotle