Why you need to listen to your girl when she wants to chat, but not listen so long that you become her therapist or male girlfriend, so you can remain mysterious and keep her chasing you since familiarity becomes boring and predictable causing her to become cold, distant and pursue you less. How to handle the phone/skype/texting during long distance relationships or extended periods away from each other to maintain & escalate sexual tension.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 46 year old guy in the UK who is dating a beautiful 21 year old from France long distance. He’s doing great at being a mystery, but she’s constantly calling him on skype wanting to chat and vent about her life. He notices that when he ends the conversation first, it seems to make her want and chase him more as well as cause her to tell him how much she wants him sexually, but when he stays on the phone too long where he feels it gets boring and tedious, she seems to lose attraction and call him less for a few days. I explain why she behaves this way and what he needs to do to keep her falling deeper and deeper for him, without him becoming her therapist or male girlfriend by staying on the phone excessively.
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