Be Patient With Your Progress

Why practicing patience when seeking to improve your success with women is essential to your long term success. In order to improve your success in any area of your life, you must practice the things I teach over and over. It’s a matter of spending a little bit of time every single day doing something to help you improve your life and practicing infinite patience with yourself. It could be reading a self-help book, watching a video, doing some research, etc. Most people who do not achieve their goals or dreams and who live lives that are less than what they are capable of living, become impatient or overwhelmed with fear when they contemplate the amount of time or effort they think they will have to expend in order to master what they are a novice at so they can succeed long-term. Therefore, they often will do nothing to help themselves and constantly look for excuses or reasons to justify not taking any action that will change their lives for the better. Then their life doesn’t change, and they continue to complain and blame others for their mediocre lives. It’s a vicious cycle that causes them to feel like they are running around in circles and not getting anywhere. The following is an e-mail from a reader who has recently found out about my work, but who has yet to read my book. Therefore, it is obvious from his latest email he is frustrated with his lack of progress which is due to the fact that he still has not modified his approach since he first wrote me several weeks ago. He’s bullshitting himself into not taking any action to learn what he needs to so his life can start changing for the better. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:

Corey,

I would like to thank you for taking the time to make a video response to my email. I really appreciate it, it means a lot. In the video you talk about me purchasing your book, which I will. Being a man about it, growing a pair of balls is what you mentioned. Yes Corey, so you are talking about changing my attitude with females right? (“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer.) Here is where my ambition comes in, I have planned to start a short Photography course in my local college. I plan to start Photography, so that I can run my own business once I have learned enough. It is a long term goal of mine at this present moment. I don’t know how you will take this as I say it, but interacting with the opposite sex, I very rarely interact with them in person. I usually stick to chat rooms and keep to the Internet. Is this my problem? Maybe in the Photography course I may meet a girl, but I am not introverted or anything. I can look people in the eye and hold eye contact. (You need to get your ass to the mall so you can practice and improve your social skills.)

It’s all madness man. Just recently the other day, I took a girl out. This girl I spoke to on a chat room. So we went out the next day. I had told her I enjoy seeing museums so we went there, We also sat down in Pizza Express, had a meal together and finished the day with watching the Avengers movie. (Movies are terrible for first dates! How can you get to know a girl and interact with her if you’re both watching a movie? You can’t.) The whole day went fine. We are still in contact although she is seeing someone. Why the fuck do girls do this? (She was looking to upgrade possibly. What’s the best comeback when a woman says she has a boyfriend? “I don’t care about him. He can keep you busy when you’re not with me.”) She is a very genuine person, she isn’t messing with my head or anything, but I just asked her on text does she think I am ugly, she says no, I am not. She just does not find me attractive in that way. (Dude, that’s pathetically weak as a man to say such a thing. NEVER ASK A WOMAN THAT BULLSHIT QUESTION AGAIN… EVER!!!) She has a lot of guys on her university course where she studies, and knows good looking guys, she just doesn’t feel the attraction. (Translation: “Because you act like a little girl instead of a man, I can only see you as a friend because you are seeking my approval which is very unmanly behavior.” Men who understand attraction and other Alpha males would never act this way.)

I think I will just keep her as a friend. Well, I have arranged to take her out again once she is back from Portugal with her friends. (Fuck that shit! Don’t waste your time or money on women you have no chance with or who are very clear they only want to be your friend! You should walk away from this girl completely. Don’t call her any more. Let her call you. Then, if she does, maybe you have a chance.) She is on a four day trip, as it is examination period for her. So it won’t happen between me and this girl, we can just limit the relationship to friendship. I feel as though I am going around in circles Corey. (That is because you are trying to ignore my advice so you can keep believing your bullshit story so you don’t have to do anything to help yourself. You must participate in your own rescue. You need to read my book. You then need to start meeting and dating lots of women so you can learn to master the 3 methods of seduction. Repetition is the mother of skill. If you don’t practice, you won’t get any better.) You told me I am not mature in dealing with women. My question to you is this, how and why am I not mature in that aspect? (You simply do not know how to interact with women in a mature adult manner because no one has ever taught you. You act and think more like a woman thinks because you have watched too many movies and tv shows that have emotionally anchored you to false feminized and dysfunctional archetypes.) I have pushed a lot of girls away from me just because of my attitude and I am still learning how to keep myself composed and try my best not to always be the person who is needy. (“Try not! Either do, or do not! There is no try!” ~ Master Yoda. Trying is for pussies, be a man and just do it!) I always used to think it is normal, like all guys have to just go go go after any girl, and every girl, but it is very damaging and I have learned through my own experiences. In fact, the one girl I thought was the one for me, is now not even in my life. I pushed myself too far that now I regret it, but it is all behind me now. I am at a different stage. All I want is the right girl in my life. I mean I have the ambition in terms of my business plans, but there’s always that thing at the back of my head that says… Faisal, you are still a virgin man! (You need to read my book before sending me any more questions. You need the baseline knowledge if you want to start changing your life. You must be patient and go at your own pace. You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)

Hope to hear from you,

Faisal

“Patience is stronger than force.” ~ Edward Counsel, Maxims