How to handle situations where women ask you to be friends only so they can hookup with their ex boyfriend or other men. Why you should never agree to be anyone’s backup lover if things don’t work out with their primary lover.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss four emails from four different viewers who are allowing the women in their lives to put them into backup position while they cheat, friend-zone them or hook up and explore relationships with other men.
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“If you agree to be a backup lover or backup romantic option when you are expected to wait around in friends zone while the lover you really want explores things with an ex or another lover who they want more than you, you’re simply demeaning yourself and lowering your value in their eyes. You deserve someone who cherishes you and loves you as their best romantic option and not some backup plan. No one will ever do or say anything to you that you don’t invite them to do. Always stand up for yourself, what you want, what you deserve and never agree to relationship or romantic terms that are not what you are looking for. Why? You’ll only waste days, weeks, months and even years of your precious life and end up broken hearted and disappointed anyway. You don’t get what you deserve in life, only what you negotiate. Walk away and never look back when people try to offer you less than what you really want or deserve.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne