In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares how studying my work has helped him smooth out his rough edges. He talks about how being so wild and unfocused in the past had a negative impact on his personal life and how women perceived him.
Now that he is conscientious of his body language and posture, his dress and mannerisms, and is more focused and driven towards his purpose and career, he is seeing positive changes. He said he used to have medium success with women, but was not very good at causing them to want to stick around, because he was so indifferent.
I just bought your book. I have watched a lot of your videos and I find them very interesting and insightful. I have had battles of my own in how I have overcome depression. (People who are depressed are sad and not taking action. They are not living in the present moment. As soon as you start taking action, you start moving forward.) I used to have medium success with women, but wasn’t very good at keeping a woman, because I was always behaving indifferently. (Women will lose attraction for men who are not driven and who don’t have a compelling vision for their life.) Thanks to your videos, you have given me a lot of insight into how the dating world really works. I have started down my path of becoming an alpha male, and I have managed to achieve some results in the way I conduct myself around women. My posture, my dress, my career and my mannerisms have completely changed. I used to be a wild guy, and it turned tons of women off from me, but now I’m becoming more focused and driven, and I am beginning to embrace my masculinity more. (You didn’t have any direction in life and weren’t focusing on being driven, so women probably didn’t consider you relationship material.) I released the need for approval, and it’s all due to your selfless acts of time in sharing your great videos. I still feel there are areas with women I want to improve upon, so I will apply myself even more to the things I am learning in your book. (It’s a cumulative effect of everything you’re doing. It’s what you’re saying, what you’re doing when you’re interacting with women, what you’re doing with your career, the kind of food you eat, the exercise you’re doing and who you’re spending your time with.)
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“Women love men who have goals and ambition. Men who either lack goals and ambition or who simply are too timid and shy to go for what they want in life, simply do not embody what masculine energy is, and don’t understand how this creates sexual polarity and desire in feminine women. Masculine energy is all about purpose, drive, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers and achieving goals. Men who embrace their innate and natural alpha male drive and desire are the embodiment of why women find successful, high achieving men to be so sexually attractive versus average men. Successful men take action. They view imperfect action as being better than no action at all. Why? No matter what happens, they will get results they can learn from to improve, refine, enhance and adapt their approach. Unsuccessful men are in a perpetual state of dithering, procrastinating, and questioning themselves, their worthiness and their ability.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne