In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares two success stories of how he has been able to make his pickup game easy and effortless so women pursue him, initiate contact, put themselves into his orbit, compete for his attention with other women, and how seducing women has become effortless. He shares a recent successful seduction story of how he slept with a woman he met at a party on their first date about a week after they met. She now contacts him every time she is going to be in his town, so they can get together and hook up. He also shares the story of how two women who happened to be friends with each other, but who had boyfriends when he met them for the first time, indicated their romantic interest in him when they first met, and how they both started chasing him and competing for his attention once they recently became single. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email:
I hope all is well. I have a success story and quick question for you. Sorry this is longer, but I wanted to share how textbook some of the success experience was.
Success: I went to a party with a friend and her coworkers. (If you show up at a public event with other women, you automatically have social proof. The other women at the event will think you’re having sex with one or all of those women. That makes them more curious and interested in you, because you have an abundance mentality. They will work harder for you.) Not too long after getting there, I noticed this girl kept looking over at me and playing with her hair. (When you give off the right vibe, women will pick up on that. If you apply the things I teach, you won’t have any competition. Other guys are too lazy to apply them.) I looked at her, smiled and let her be the first to look away. (That’s right out of my book.) The old me would have walked over, but I stayed where I was and continued talking to the group. (Be the mountain. The wind goes around the mountain. You don’t see the mountain chasing after the wind. The world is full of beta males, and women are dying to find an alpha male who gets it and knows how to treat a lady. They are rare. When those men show up, women know what that looks like, because those guys have a certain body language and a certain physiology. I talk about this in my book, and also in my article and video, “Body Language That Attracts Women.”) Sure enough, she came over, asked me my name and if my friend who brought me and I were dating. (That’s pretty obvious. I’d put her interest at a 7 or an 8. That’s high attraction.) I said no, and she asked me if I was dating someone else there. After three or four minutes of banter, I told her I had to head out for another party I was going to, but I’d love to chat with her more, and I asked her for her number. (You’re busy and have lots of things going on. The more successful you are, the more money you make, the more friends you have and the more influence you have, the more options and choices you’re going to have.) I gave her my phone, she put it in and called me saying, “So I have yours too.” Then, I gave her a hug and left. (That’s perfect, textbook. Great job.)
We went out the next week and had a great time. She did 70-80% of the talking, and I was genuinely fascinated with her. (That makes it easy when you’re fascinated, enamored and really interested in who you’re on a date with.) When we were walking to the train stop, she asked me if I wanted pizza at a spot we passed along the way. I didn’t, so I said no, and we walked to the stop. I told her “that was a lot of fun,” and went for the kiss. She put her arms around me, pulled me in and started making out with me. (She makes it easy.) After a minute or so, she stopped and said, “this is why I wanted you to stop by the pizza spot, so we weren’t that couple making out in front of the subway.” I replied, “I don’t have a problem with that, but we could go somewhere more private.” She asked me what I had in mind, and the Coach Corey Wayne line came out, “Why don’t we grab a bottle of wine and go back to my place?” She said, “I’ll pass on the wine, but lets go.” Needless to say, that was an amazing night. She now hits me up when she is in town, and I don’t have to do any pursuing. (From the moment you met her, she was pursuing you. She put herself into your orbit to get your attention, and you made dates. Hang out, have fun and hook up. It’s pretty easy. That’s the way it’s supposed to be. If you have game, you won’t talk women out of it.) She just asks if I’m out and meets me or comes to my place. Tough life, right? (It’s your birthright. You are the king of your kingdom. You get to decide who gets the the privilege and the honor of being in your kingdom.)
Question: I met two girls at the pool a few months back when I was with a group of friends. I started conversation with them, and the blonde, Jessica, was easily a 9. Her friend Samantha was quite attractive as well, but after a few minutes of conversation, Samantha mentioned her boyfriend. (Always leave the door open, because maybe that boyfriend won’t be around for ever.) I said we were going to grab a drink across the street and invited them to join. I said I’d text once we’re heading over and asked Jessica her number, but then Samantha started rattling hers off. (As Doc Love said, “When kitty cats compete, you win.”) Jessica interrupted to give me hers, and ultimately they both gave me their numbers. We all hung out, they invited me to meet them at the pool a few days later, and it came out that Jessica was ‘sort of’ seeing someone as well. (Neither of them are available, but you can tell them to give you a call if it doesn’t work out with those dudes.)
Fast forward, a few months of no contact, and Samantha texted me, “What are you up to for Halloween? I hope we can catch up soon.” I thought nothing of it, since I assumed she had a boyfriend still, I know, bad assumption, and had recently seen her friend Jessica on Tinder, so I’m thinking, okay maybe this is the friend trying to get us all back together again. (That was one thing you did wrong. As I teach in my book, if a woman reaches out to you, you assume she wants to see you, and you make a date.) Samantha and I set up time to hang out next week. I then looked Samantha up on Facebook and saw she was also single. The next day, I got a notification that I matched with her friend Jessica on Tinder. (Sometimes they all show up at the same time like that. That’s why you’ve got to keep grinding and keep applying the things I teach, even when it seems like it isn’t working, because you never know when the universe is going to manifest what you’re looking for. However, you have to know what you’re doing, or you’re going to ruin your choices when they show up. If you don’t believe you deserve it, you’ll chase them away.) She messaged me saying, “Oh hey! Ha-Ha,” and then started texting me since she had my number. I’ve sent a few texts back and forth, nothing overly flirtatious, just teasing her mostly. She also resurrected our group chat with both of them and my friends from when we first met and suggested happy hour next week. I’m guessing they have talked about this by now and would love to know your advice on what to do. (Hang out, have fun and hook up. Make dates.) Do I just play it cool and see which one is coming on to me in person when they are together? (If they’re reaching out to you, assume they want to see you and you make a date. I’d say there’s a high likelihood you could even have a threesome with these girls. Great success story, good job. Have fun, and play ball!)
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“Women can sense when a man is happy within himself, is focused on his purpose and successfully making progress to achieve it, and when he has a lot of female attention and dating prospects. These guys give off an indifferent, abundance mentality, take time to respond and make decisions, and have to be selective with who they choose to spend their limited free time with. Women will work the hardest to get these guys’ attention, make seduction easy for them and will value being with them more than average men. Guys who do not possess or know how to give off this vibe have a scarcity of women in their lives, tend to act desperate, chase women away and ruin their chances with women who would have otherwise gone out with them. Successful men know they deserve what they want, can have what they want and get what they want. Unsuccessful men wish they were deserving and capable of having what they want.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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