In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who I did a phone session with about a year ago after his divorce. He writes in and gives an update on his progress. He shares a recent success story about how he approached a woman who he had met a few times over the past year around town, made a date on the spot and eventually seduced her at the beginning of their second date! On their first date, when she opened the door, he went for the kiss! Afterwards she told him, “Wow! That was nice!” He shares what he has learned from reading my book and watching my videos, and how this has led to a dramatic improvement in the quality of women he dates, and the quality of experiences he has with women. He gives a play-by-play and text-by-text account of what he did and said to seduce her successfully.
I just had the most amazing weekend with a girl that was better than I have ever had. (It’s all about having high quality experiences.) I followed your instructions as best I could, and so far so good. I can’t believe how easy it was to set up the first date, on the spot. We spoke for an hour face to face, we knew each other from around town for about a year, all the signs were there and it was easy to feel confident that she wanted to hang out and said yes, of course. I couldn’t believe it. When I went to pick her up for our date, she looked so great. I walked right up to her and said, “You look exactly the way I was hoping you would look.” (Feminine energy grows through praise. Masculine energy grows through challenge.) She smiled and said thanks. I went for the kiss. She said, “Wow, that was nice.” I kissed her before the date! (She liked you. When the connection is there, it can happen in seconds.) I am the fucking man!!! Dude, you are so awesome. Thanks! I just knew it was the right thing. We had an excellent time. I dropped her off with more kissing and petting, but was not ready to close the deal. I personally wanted to wait.You will get a kick out of this. About a week later, we still hadn’t found time in our busy schedules to meet up the second time. Due to our schedules, I suggested lunch, but we both didn’t want that anyway, so two days later, she told me, “I am working from home…alone…” in a text, and I jumped at an offer to bring lunch. She joked about what she normally wears as she works from home. (More hinting. Love is playful and fun.) I just knew she was ready and seemed to be saying come over and have your way with me. It was so easy to read. Anyway, when she opened the door, she jumped into my arms. I had to stop her because I had the lunch in my hand! I carried her to her bedroom, and we made love for an hour. (Good job. This is the way it’s supposed to be for everybody. You just have to know how to make these things happen. For those of who you who haven’t read my book, you need to read it 10-15 times if you want it to be this good.) Then, while shaking, we ate lunch. She has told me at least five times that she was completely surprised I did that, and she did not plan it at all. I don’t really know what to say about that, but because of you, I knew what the fuck was going to happen, and I went for what I wanted. It had been two years. The embargo has been lifted.
She texted me early this morning a nice emotional text, and then later this morning said she was done texting for a while. I have no idea why, she is busy though, and although I really feel the need to send her a good night type text, I am very confident in your suggestion to let the bread rise in the oven, so I will be waiting. (When a woman reaches out, you assume she wants to see you and you make a date. You don’t chit chat back and forth, as it will pointlessly go nowhere.) I am also flirting with another lady who is interested in me, only because I know the signs to look for. I am just distracted enough by her to keep me from over pursuing the girl I just spent the weekend with. (Hopefully you set a date with the girl who reached out to you.) My job is to just focus on having fun and setting dates, and her job is to call me a boyfriend, or whatever, and that is about all I want to do anyway. She talked and talked about relationships and asked what I wanted. I kept it as simple as possible, and kept it in today. She ate it up. I have a hundred details that were hard to believe were happening to me. I can’t tell you all of them, things like, keep the change, hand job while riding on the back of my motorcycle, cabin in the mountains while it rained all day, great music and massage oil. I wouldn’t even tell her where she was going. She fucking loved every minute. I did too. But they were all because of your book and videos.
Thanks, thanks, thanks. No one has ever, ever, ever, told me this stuff. I can’t believe it. (You gave this woman some kick-ass memories she will remember for the rest of her life. Good job!)
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