Commitments, Vacillation & Indecisive Men

What causes some men to appear weak, vacillate back and forth between talk of commitment and not staying together, and generally be indecisive and send mixed signals to the women they are dating.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a woman who is dating a man she really loves, but he keeps vacillating back and forth between talking about and suggesting that one day they will get married, and saying he is not thinking about ever getting married. She loves everything about him, but she does not trust his masculine core at all times. It’s obvious from her email that he sometimes acts very masculine, and other times he tends to act like a feminine woman. I tell her what she can say to him to challenge him to be the masculine man he is capable of being without destroying his confidence.

The second email is an update from a viewer who I recently answered a previous email from him in which he discussed his girlfriends odd sexual fantasy to basically see him take it up the ass from another man amounting to gay sex. He did the things I suggested and has had some major ah-ha moments. Her behavior is completely different and now she has changed her fantasies of what she says she wants sexually, much to his liking. These are two great emails that illustrate the power of understanding the delicate interplay of masculine and feminine energy, and how you can use them to your advantage to get what you want sexually and romantically.

“When a man does not understand the sexual polarity relationship between masculine and feminine energy, he often will tend to vacillate back and forth between being certain or uncertain of his relationships and their future, be indecisive and send mixed signals to the women he is involved with. This will cause women to not trust his masculine core and become very frustrated, irritated and bitchy towards him. For women to feel consistently comfortable letting their men take the leadership role in relationships, men must display consistent confidence, certainty and be decisive in their decision making and life choices. When they don’t, this causes women to become fearful and move into their masculine energy which is not their natural essence. They will resent this and become angry, as anger always is driven by fear and not trusting in a favorable outcome.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne