In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email success story from a guy who is about to go on a third date with a woman he successfully pulled away from several beta males who were already talking with her when they first met. He details exactly what she said to him and the other guys, which were obvious tests of their strength, what they said that led to their rejection and what he did and said to pass her tests so she chose him.
It’s another great but simple success story with lots of detail of what was said that led to his success and the other guy’s failure, so you can learn from it and better your own dating and pickup game. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
I have to share a recent success. I was at a happy hour a couple of weeks ago. I saw three guys talking to two girls. One petite and hot, the other was decent but taller. I made eye contact with the petite one, far and away my favorite type. She returned the glance, and I made the approach. The group was involved in some lighthearted discussion, so I said hello and made eye contact with everyone, including the guys.
(It’s important to do that, because then you’re an ally.)
I made some stupid joke and the whole group laughed. The petite hottie then said the following, “I have a question for you guys.
(This is a test. She’s got four dudes there, and she has to figure out who’s the most masculine of the group.)You meet a girl at a happy hour and she’s hot. You talk and have drinks for about an hour and a half. You’re into her, and she’s into you. Then she invites you over to her place.
(So what does that tell you about her? When there’s a real connection when you first meet, even though you’ve only known each other for an hour and a half, and she invites you back to her place, she’s the type of girl that will do that. If there’s a connection and you feel the same thing, and you’re not a fruit loop, this is what happens.)
You know she wants sex. Do you go with her or not?”
I knew what the “right” answer was. She probably wanted to hear some BS like “No way!” I took the question, first and my response was pure Corey. I looked her in the eye and said, with the Corey smirk, “Duh, of course. She’s hot. We’re clicking. Definitely.” She blushed, slapped my arm and laughed.
(You gave the right answer, and she liked it, because that’s the fucking truth.)
She turned to the group and said, “See, all men are sluts!” The taller chick agreed. Of course I now had the undivided attention of both girls. With total confidence, I told the hottie to ask the other guys. Spoiler alert: They were 97%ers.
(You encouraged her to blow up your competition. It’s beautiful, and these guys have no idea it’s actually happening.)She asked this short guy what he would do given the same scenario. He, lying, I hope for his sake, said, “No, I’d have to get to know her better.” Both girls nodded approvingly his way.
(That’s why it’s next to impossible for guys talking to women to really get to understand them or be good with them, because the girls are saying “That’s the right answer!” Meanwhile, she’s touching the other guy and blushing.)
The dude was totally out of luck.
She asked the second other guy, and he said some BS like, “No, but I’d get her phone number and call her up later.”
(Another politically correct answer. Guys are taught this is how you act around women.)
The petite one sensed his weakness and pressed him,
(She tested him even harder. When women sense a weakness, a chink in your armour, they’ll exploit it),
“So, you would go out with a girl who you know would sleep with a guy on the first date.” He, totally failed her test and replied with, “Yeah on second thought I’d just say ‘no thanks.’” JESUS!!!
(Like flies, he’s swatting the other dudes away and they don’t even know what’s happening.)
Finally, the third guy got the same question. He was starting to get a clue and said, “Yeah, I’d go home with her.” Both girls pounced on him with questions like: “You hardly know her,” blah, blah, blah. Finally, he caves, second guesses himself and takes it back. OMG.
(Those three dudes are out. They’re not real men. They are intimidated by women, and women don’t fucking like that. Women like a guy that says what he means, and means what he says, even if they get pissed off and butt-hurt.)The girls then press me further with the same BS about not knowing her, etc. I stood my ground, playfully, like a classic 3%er would. Needless to say the 3 other guys melted away. The taller chick started to talk to some goofball, yay, and I sat down with the petite one.
(See how beautiful that was? Effortless. You answered a couple of questions like a man would, and the other guys are gone, just like that.)
We had a couple of drinks, I got her number, and walked her to her car. She looked AMAZING! Once at the car, I made a date with her on the spot for about 3 days later.
The date was awesome. I went in for the kiss about an hour in.
(How come you didn’t kiss her when you took her to the car, dude?)
I had a second amazing date with her last night. We are all over each other. She’s so hot and fun. Tonight is the third date.
(Hopefully it’s because she brought it up and wanted to see you again. As long as she’s driving it, you’re good.)
Anyway, without reading your book and watching the YouTube videos, I would have likely failed her tests and melted away into the walls like those other dorks at the happy hour.
Thanks again! THIS STUFF WORKS.
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“A real man stands up for himself and what he believes in. Testing and bluffing from women he wants to date do not intimidate him, or from those he encounters in his daily life. He is sure of himself and only allows those into his inner circle who share the same goals and values. He knows that by allowing those into his inner circle who are not aligned with his goals, outcomes and values will only impede his progress and take him off course. A real man has a strong inner strength and belief in himself. He is comfortable being alone, because he loves and values his time more than he values or needs the approval of others. He knows that as long as he is happy with himself and his life, he has all the approval he will ever need. As the old saying goes, it’s better to be alone than in bad company.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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