How to remain objective when dating so you don’t get caught up in self-created fantasies and delude yourself into thinking that things are more than they are, that others care about you more than they really do or end up projecting your own irrational attraction onto another and ignoring their true level of romantic attraction. How to ensure you don’t get emotionally hung up on members of the opposite sex who don’t reciprocate interest or as much interest as you have.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss three different emails. One is from a woman and the other two are from men. All three of them have allowed their scarcity mindset to negatively affect their ability to see things as they really are in their dating lives. They have formed attachments to people they are involved with that are causing them to take actions or fail to take actions that are keeping them stuck in the past which hinders them from manifesting what they really want.
“There is a societal myth that there is only one perfect person for you and if you lose that person or screw it up, you’ll never find someone better or as good as the one you lost. This is romantic nonsense perpetuated by ignorant people who have no real success and who don’t know how to attract many options with members of the opposite sex. The truth is we live in an infinitely abundant universe with unlimited romantic, career, business and life possibilities. How do I know? Simply look at nature. There is life everywhere you can see. There is also microscopic life that is hidden from your eyes you can’t. You truly can create anything you really want in life. Once you decide what you want and start taking action, the universe will slowly bring you people, places and events so you can create your dreams; as long as you don’t get attached to anyone or anything, and push them away with needy and unworthy behavior. Getting attached stops your progress and prevents you from seeing all of your infinite options. The truth is, the right people will show up and stick around SLOWLY OVER TIME. The wrong ones will come and go; let them. The key is to not get attached to anyone, time frames or any outcome to enable the universe to bring you exactly want you want and need.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne