Why you should always wait for a woman to respond to you texts, emails or phone messages before sending more, or you risk turning her off by making yourself look insecure, needy, desperate, weak and therefore, unworthy.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who had one date with a woman he really liked. He met her through an online dating site and the date seemed to go well. He says he went for the kiss at the end of their date but did not get to finish it because there were too many people around. A few days later he contacted her to invite her out for a second date. Nothing, she did not respond.
In total he sent five texts and/or phone messages. She responded to none of them. She is no longer active on the dating site for over three weeks. He writes in asking if he should send another long gushy message professing his desire for her in hopes that she responds this time since she is a nine on a scale of one to ten in his eyes. He also provides his text exchange between the two of them before she started ignoring him.
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Eric says
A bit confused as to what’s going on between me and my ex. After breaking due to a dis functional relationship we both went our own separate ways. After a year of no contact, she attempted calling me three separate occasions looking for closure when she dumped me smh!- the irony.
Which leads us to now… My ex is a very stubborn person so I gave in to act of getting in contact (receiving her calls). My ex was honest in saying that she missed me (although dating other people) / still in love with me and wanted to seriously work towards a newfound relationship. Now hearing all this I was a bit skeptical as she set one hell of an expectation out there. We began taking it slow conversing for the next 2.5-3 months.
All of a sudden she started acting a bit strange as she would always end conversations with “I love you” but be busy all of a sudden. Now I did step back ANC give her space calling her out on her misleading actions and that there was no rush for us to get back together given we are 6 hours away from each other now. She insisted we stay at the FAST pace to later on becoming “The Infamous” confused smh.
Now she gets very short tempered with me and hangs up the phone in my face when I try to honestly prevent a disagreement. Logically, it makes no sense why she broke up with me because I did not want to engage in the same activity that split us up in the first place smh.
It’s been over a week since this incident took place when she hung up the phone on me and told me not call her anymore- reason I have no idea. Since I have reached out a few times to get an understanding on just what made her upset. And I’m puzzled at how she supposedly broke up with me when we were in the reconciling stages.
As far as this woman she ignores my emails, texts, and my calls and left me no other choice but to leave the communication doors open for her and back off.
Is she seeing someone else given she lives in NYC? She does have two jobs but c’mon no woman is that busy to where she gets disappearing on you. And when I first met her she had two jobs and we spent plenty of free time together.
What is your advice? What you do? And is this a sign of lack of interest or petty gaming?