How to know if you are just being lied to, used and manipulated for the personal gain of another and what you can do to end the vicious cycle of allowing others to take advantage of and use you.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a woman who has allowed herself to be manipulated and used by a shallow man for five years. He lives with his girlfriend of four years who he claims he does not have sex with. She only sees him when he contacts her via email. She goes to his place, gives him oral sex and then is told to leave because he is busy. She writes that she feels like he is her last chance to get a husband. They only have sex about once every other month.
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“Devious people who lie and manipulate others are weak people who pray upon the naiveté of people with a low self esteem and low self worth. The user and the used both are weak and attract one another. The user does not believe they can get anyone to love the real them. They therefore pray upon those with no hope, a low self-esteem or low self worth because they can only get what they want by lying to and deceiving the weak with a phony image of what they want to hear. Many politicians do this with their constituents who have no hope by making them believe it’s someone else’s fault for their lack of success or abundance. Since people don’t want to take personal responsibility for their own lives and success, they give their power away to those who pray upon their own weaknesses and fears. You must participate in your own rescue by standing up for yourself, deciding what you want, resolving to take action to obtain and manifest what you want, as well as rejecting false prophets who peddle bullshit which is never backed up by any real action or deeds.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne