In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email success story from a guy who has completely changed his dating and sex life for the better by applying what my book teaches. He shares some of the simple things he did and said to make a woman feel so safe and comfortable with him the night they first met, that after only a few drinks, she came right out and bluntly asked him, “Do you wanna come to my place for a little while?”
He discusses the importance of remaining in his masculine, and how this helped to make seducing her easy and effortless. It’s another great success story on how to let women talk you into sleeping with them, instead of talking them out of it like most guys do. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
Corey,I can’t thank you enough man. It’s absolutely incredible how you “get it.”
(I might not always be right, but I’m never wrong.)
Your book… it’s 100% a life changer. I can’t even begin to explain how I was before reading it. And after finishing it, and listening to it a few times in audiobook format, tonight was the third time I’ve had sex with a girl on the first night, plus a few more on the second or third dates.
(As I say in my book, most women will sleep with a guy by the second or third date. What prevents that from happening is either she’s structured and has a lot of rules, or he talks her out of it. Attraction is not a choice. They either like you, or they don’t. You’re either in or you’re out. The sooner you find that out, the sooner you can move on to explore another possibility, instead of getting hung up on one chick.)
And I mean, not only that, but tonight it was against all odds.
(To me, this is as predictable as the sun coming up in the east and setting in the west. You learned the fundamentals, you went out applied it diligently like a student, and of course you had predictable results.)I’m a good-looking guy, not super handsome though, and not too tall. As soon as I saw the girl, super hot, cute, feminine, I noticed her hesitation,
(Feminine energy is unsure of itself),
but I kept at it like nothing was wrong, I kept my center, my masculine, I was a rock. She wasn’t even looking at me when we started talking, but I still tried to engage her in conversation.
(She might be insecure, and as she starts to like you more and more, that could become a problem. Just because the package looks great on the outside doesn’t meant she’s not a total fucking fruit loop who won’t make your like a living hell.)
I only spoke 10% of the time,
(Just like you learn in Dale Carnegie’s book, “How To Win Friends & Influence People,” people love to talk about themselves. When you’re sincerely, authentically interested in another human being, they can sense it and they can feel it, and you encourage them to talk more and tell you about their hopes, their dreams, and things they love, things that are exciting and fun, the more they like you. By them talking to you, they talk themselves into liking you more. It’s pretty simple that way. Work smarter, not harder),
teased her a bit with her own jokes, she laughed, we ordered more drinks, she wanted to pay one round,(I like that. It shows she’s a giver. You just met, and she’s already buying you stuff),
so I let her without losing my center.
Suddenly, I heard the words “do you wanna come to my place for a little while?”
(She put in the qualifier “a little while,” because she doesn’t want to come off as being a slut, but she totally invited you to come back to her house and bump uglies with her, because you acted like a man. Every other guy is trying to buy her drinks, talk about their achievements, trying to prove themselves, throwing out their resume, but you were just hanging out, having fun and taking a sincere interest in her.)
In there, I owned her. I was in my full masculine, and she was in her feminine. We had great sex, she came three times, and she told me that, and how much she enjoyed it. She said at least four times that she was really glad to meet me tonight, and all of this with the type of girl I would have never imagined would waste a second looking at me.
(Those are just your limited beliefs you adopted and somebody told you, and it was all bullshit. But you read my book, and you did it. You didn’t talk this one out of liking you, who was already there. When you have these successes, they destroy your old way of thinking, because your old way of thinking was bullshit. What is fear? “FEAR” stands for false evidence appearing real.)
Corey, you are a life changer; everybody should read your book, or maybe not, I still want to be top 3%. Thank you so much for writing it and changing my life.(At the end of the day, there are 7 billion of us, and the more people who can live their truth, be who they are, and date the kind of people they want to date, instead of always feeling like they’ve got to settle in their personal life, the world’s going to be a happier, freer and more successful place, and more and more of the right kind of people will get together.)
And if it’s not much to ask, I would love to know you read this. I know your time is very valuable, but I would love to at least hear an acknowledgement. “You’re welcome” would be more than enough.
(Well, you’re welcome. This is your birthright. This is how your life is supposed to be, awesome like this.)
Thanks again man. You are a life changer.
(Thanks for the great email and the great success story because now you can influence all the guys you know in your life. Look at this girl. Now she has this great experience with you that now she can go tell all her girlfriends about, and they’ll go “Wow, those guys really do exist. They’re really out there. I’ve just got to be patient, and I’ll find one eventually.”)
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“Most men talk women right out of liking them. The reality is that Mother Nature has handled sexual attraction already before you meet. A woman either likes you enough to date and sleep with you, or she doesn’t. Most women often wonder out loud where the real men who actually know how to act like men and take the lead are, because they encounter them so infrequently in life. The average guy who does not know any better ruins perfectly good chances with women who already like him by trying to prove himself and focus on a relationship, instead of simply making a date to hang out, having fun on that date and then hooking up in a natural progression, in response to her becoming turned on and opening up to being seduced and taken by him sexually. See yourself as being worthy, attractive, sexy and desired by women, and act accordingly. Women will perceive you in direct proportion to how you perceive yourself.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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