Here’s how to act like a successful dominant alpha male and why this behavior causes women to submit and want to sleep with you. When a man is focused on creating the life of his dreams and his purpose, he’s too busy working to be a success to have the time to chase or worry about women. All women are naturally attracted to men who exhibit dominant alpha male like behavior. Women spend an insane amount of time putting on makeup, picking out sexy outfits, getting their hair done, going to the tanning salon, going to the gym, getting their nails done, etc. in order to get the attention of a dominant male. Beta males fail with women because they spend their energy and time fixated on trying to get a woman’s attention instead of focusing on their purpose/career/business and making their lives the way they really want them to be. If you are focused 100% on your purpose in life and trying to succeed at it, women will notice you and try to get your attention. When Alpha males who are single and available hang out with their buddies, they’re not focused on trying to meet women or doing anything to try to make that happen. Why? Because they’re focused on having a good time with their buddies. They’re laughing and joking to blow off steam. Women who are around them or in their vicinity can spot them immediately. Women view them just like they do the captain of the football team. They scheme and plot how to go about getting his attention so she can have him all to herself.
Beta males on the other hand, go out with their buddies and are searching for women to meet. This behavior and their mindset communicates to women all around them that they are not very successful with other women, and therefore, not good catches. Women ignore and brush these men off as they hit on them, buy them drinks and try to entertain them hoping to create attraction and get laid. The alpha males do none of this. They act content and as if they are lacking nothing inside. Their outer world is a reflection of their inner world. It’s one of peace, contentment, balance, inner peace, serenity, all is well and abundance. Women have to work to get the attention of the dominant men. Therefore, they place a high value on landing/catching one of these dominant men, but have to learn to quickly reject and get rid of the unworthy beta males who chase. Beta males chase women because there is scarcity, lack and nothing happening in their dating and relationship life. When you focus on your purpose in life and goals that are emotionally compelling to you, you’ll naturally attract and meet women who compete for your attention as you go about living your life. The following is an e-mail from a reader who is not having the success he wants with women due to his beta male and approval seeking behavior. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:
I have got to say that I am reaping the benefits of the advice you always give. (Really? After reading your email, it does not sound like you have read my book yet, or have read it enough times to know the material as well as you need to in order to succeed with women. You need to read my book at least 10-15 times to the point you know the material so well you could teach a class on it. That’s the only way to prevent yourself from making unnecessary mistakes like you are making which leads to the rejection you are experiencing.) That is the sole reason I have decided to ask you of what you make of this situation.
There is a beautiful woman I chat with. She comes to my place more often at her request. The problem is when she comes, she’s always on the phone sending texts. For that reason, we don’t have the fun I need. How do I deal with that to get her attention? (You are seeking her approval, this causes a woman to have low romantic interest in you which leads to rejection because you are acting feminine and like a woman. Men who are successful with women do not chase them seeking their approval like you are doing. Successful men do not have the time to chase women. Why? They’re too busy chasing their dreams and living their purpose. They have LOTS OF OPTIONS WITH WOMEN and simply do not have the time to waste hanging out with women who have low interest. However, if a really super hot, determined and sexy woman notices and sets her sights on one of them, she will use her looks, body, sex appeal, charm, touching, preening, etc. to get him to notice her so he fills her up emotionally, spiritually, mentally… and… sexually. Seek her approval… get rejected!!!) How do I get her into my bed and have good sex? (You should read my book. I go into extensive detail on the subject in my book. You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)
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