Don’t Act Like A Wussy!

May 7, 2012 by Coach Corey Wayne

Here’s how to properly exhibit dominant male behavior, take the lead and create sexual attraction in women towards you. A big complaint many women have about men, is that most men do not know how to take control of the direction in a relationship or courtship. Women don’t want to decide where to have dinner, what to do on your date, etc. They want the man to handle the details so all they have to do is show up and be entertained. To be able to relax, let go and let the man drive the encounter to its successful conclusion in the bedroom. Women want to wonder where they stand with you. This gives them the opportunity to engage their emotions and see how they feel about you internally. As long as she can feel safe and comfortable, feel like she can come and go as she pleases and that she can simply have fun and relax, she will slowly submit and allow you to take her and ravish her passionately. Women want to be swept up in a man’s masculinity where they can let go and let the man have his way with them. If you engage a woman’s emotions in a fun and balanced way, she will want you more and more and allow you to become closer and closer to her until eventually you penetrate her physically. Your job as a man is simply to not talk her out of sleeping with you by acting awkward, inappropriate, controlling, insecure, unsure of yourself, etc. Women help you when they like you. They’ll actually help you seduce them and give you tips to help you succeed when they really like you. However, eventually their patience will run out if you keep making too many mistakes. The following is an e-mail from a reader. A girl he is dating but turning off, likes him to the point where she’s still trying to help him be successful at seducing her. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:

Hey Corey.

It’s me again! I hope you’re doing well. So since the last time I wrote to you, everything came out great until last night. We were talking about feelings again. (You never do that when you are just starting to date a woman and create attraction. It’s anti-challenge/anti-alpha behavior.) She said she had to tell me something. That I got to make her want me more, (Translation: “You’re still chasing me and making it easy for me. You’re chasing me like a woman. I want a man, not a man who acts like a woman.) but that she likes everything about me. She likes me and that she cares for me. She is a great person, but she’s also the type of girl that is hard to understand her feelings when I don’t know how to make the right move at the right time. (That is because you have not read my book yet. Just reading a few articles and watching some videos is not going to give you the knowledge you need.) She told me that I should act like I don’t care and take control. She wishes I would get mad sometimes by not giving a fuck if I hung up the phone on her. She said, “I will chase you wondering what’s happening even though I know you care, but you’re just doing what you think is right for you. But not to be an asshole.” (It is a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear and your girl just confirmed that for you. If you keep talking about your feelings, chasing her like a woman, etc., her feelings for you will not grow but drop.) She said to be more of a challenge to her. Be more harder to get. Test her, etc. So my question is, how to turn the tables around and do those things? How to take the initiative to make her chase me and when should the right time to answer her call or texts be? Man!!! This is hard! I really don’t know how to do this. (That is why you need to read my book ASAP!!! You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.) I have no idea of how to test her, be a challenge to her or when to answer her texts and calls. (If she calls/texts/emails after 7 pm, respond via text the next day.) I’m too available. Because the way she is treating me it’s like she takes me for granted and she knows the game better than I do basically. (Yes, because you made a major mistake by getting hung up on her before she has earned it thru her actions. You gave your heart away like it meant nothing. Therefore, she treats it like it means nothing.) I followed your steps in the previous videos and things went better for couple of days now, but I also wanna play the right moves. (1. read my book 2. only call or contact her when she initiates contact FIRST!!! When a woman contacts you, she wants you to be a man and invite her to do something with you. That is why she calls you in the first place! To help you TAKE THE INITIATIVE to create an opportunity for sex to happen 3. when you do hear from her, set a definite date 4. go on date, make sure she does 70-80% of the talking by being the one who asks questions 5. at the end of the date go for the kiss. Kissing leads to sex. No kissing=no sex. 6. rinse, recycle, repeat.) I know I gotta talk to other girls, but I also wanna know the advice from a professional like you. (Meet & date as many new women as you can find so you can practice and master your skills of seduction. Then you can become good at seducing women on the first date.) From my understanding, she’s telling me to act more like a man and stop being such a sentimental pussy. To mean whatever I say and take action upon the decisions that I make. (She wants you to act like a man around her and other women.) Corey, I hope you read this 🙂

Bob

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Published on May 7, 2012

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  1. I am married to a total wuss. He lives in total deference to me. Never takes any initiative in the home- trash overflowing he just crams more in. Wears shoes with holes in sole- he makes 140K a year! Completely checked out parent. I came home one night with him steaming… my daughters bf was still at our home… he lacked to balls to go in and tell an 18 y o boy it was time to say goodnight. I tell him he needs to talk to our son about being more responsible… my husband asks me when he should do it😳. We have not been intimate in almost 15 years… he’s impotent… God forbid he get help. His denial about his issues is palpable. It’s sad. Our son once called him a baby. My daughter says she does not know how I stay with him. I wonder myself.

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