How to improve your pickup and seduction game, so you can effortlessly seduce women you randomly meet on vacation or in your daily life.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares a wonderful little love story of how he randomly met a gorgeous woman while on vacation in the Turks and Caicos Islands. He was on his trip for a total of ten days. Two days before he was supposed to go home, he met a woman who took his breath away and who obviously liked him as well. He describes how he could tell she liked him and what he did and said to seduce her successfully when they met. He shares how my book and videos have helped him tweak his game, fill in his knowledge gap and enable him to effortlessly seduce random women the universe has brought into his life. He says she was the first woman he was ever with in his life whom he felt he was making love to. Prior to her, his sex life had mostly not been very fulfilling, because he had never experienced what it was like to be with a woman who knocked his socks off. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email:
Good day to you Coach,
I found you through YouTube by random suggested videos, and I’m super-happy that I did. It’s not actually that random, because several months back, I’d been searching online for dating help. I’ve wasted my money on a couple PUA’s. I did find one person though, called David Wygant, who really helped me start to understand women and relationships(I think David Wygant is pretty good, and I even added him to my YouTube channel as someone I recommend people check out. He is great at teaching how to speak to women in public); the only downside to his work was, it wasn’t cheap. I liked what you said on your YouTube videos, and I took the risk and bought your Kindle book in August 2015. I got sick of reading it through digital media, so I bought the paperback book in September 2015. (You are what I call a serious student, and that’s why you have a great success story.) By December 2015, I’ve read the book five times and started making my own audio version of the book. I’m still working on it, so I can listen to it at work, on the road, etc. I’m obviously going to read it again and again. I’ve bought and read other books you’ve recommended, and I’ve also practiced talking to strangers, going to NSA Chiropractic, (You can check out information on Network Chiropractic Care at WiseWorldSeminars.com and locate a practitioner in your city or country), hanging around with people who only bring me up, not shying away from eye contact, walking proudly, being friendly, not being a nice guy and flirting with beautiful girls, but never going anywhere, because I wanted to take it slow. (At the end of the day, this is about your journey. This is about you. The idea is to climb to success at your own pace.)
It was December 2015 when I went on a vacation to Turks and Caicos Islands for 10 days. It’s such an amazing place. I met and talked to many great people there. I only had two days left before I had to go back to reality, and as you like to say, there are no such things as coincidences. (I have found in my life, nothing happens by accident in the universe. Everything happens for a reason, and if you can’t find the reason, you aren’t looking hard enough.) I was sail boating every day, but for the previous three days, the waves were too rough to sail, so I instead, I went to do other activities. There, I met Jessica, who worked there as an instructor and performer. You tell us to look for the signals women give. The first innocent signal that I noticed from her was this. I signed up for the activity as “Bob” and I was the only Asian there. Jessica acted confused asking other instructors and people who signed up, “Where is Bob?” There is another worker there who has the same name as I do. As she came across me, our eyes met, and I grinned at her saying, “I’m Bob.” She apologized about how there is another Bob, but this was an excuse for her to speak to me. (Remember, when women like you they put themselves into your orbit.) We made small talk, making fun of each other. When everyone was doing the activity, our eyes met again from a distance, and she waved at me and said, “Hello Bob!” I gave her a sly smile and said, “Hello.” I met other girls and elderlies there, and I was talking to them too, near her. As I was leaving, she said, “Bye Bob!”
The next and last day/night of my vacation, I went back to do the activity. I couldn’t do certain moves, so she came up to me and asked if I wanted to see a demonstration and practice on the side. I said sure. She showed me the move, as I was checking her out. She is so fit, feminine, has long brown hair, and a nice small butt. During the practice, she kept touching me to ‘help me’ from falling. I was dead sure she was interested. I looked at her and asked, “When are you free today?” Her eyes lit up. She said she was free at a certain time and had to go back to work then, but would be free again for the rest of the night. (Notice how she made her schedule wide open. Women help you when they like you, and she definitely liked you.) I told her, “Great, I’ll see you at 7:00 pm at the pool.” She asked if she could change the time to 7:30 pm, and I agreed to that.
She came exactly on time, because she had to do a performance, and she had skimpy clothes on. As she was approaching, I looked at her from head to toe and gave a sly smile. I went for a hug and breathed through my nose and told her she smelled great. She complimented on my manly hug. We sat on a bed/couch, and I asked about her, her family, school, etc. She did about 80% of the talking. (Women typically say about 8,000 words in a day and men say about 2,000, so you ask the kind of questions she would enjoy answering.) She had to go, because she had to perform on stage. I went there to watch her and came back to the exact spot by the pool. She came back looking relieved. She thought I was dancing at the party. The party was close to the pool. I could tell she was being distant, because she had sweated. As I was talking and touching her at just the right moment, I reduced the gap between us. As I predicted, she was self-conscious about how she sweated, and told me, “I’m sweaty. You’ll smell me if you come too close.” I ignored her, gave a sly smile and put my nose close to her and sniffed. I told her, “I don’t smell anything but the same great smell I smelled when I hugged you; maybe your sweat is like pheromones, because your smell is intoxicating.”
We talked more, laughed more, and got closer. Her eyes were as bright as a thousand burning suns. (It’s amazing when a woman is looking into your eyes, her pupils are dilating and she wants to devour you.) She was smiling and shying at things I said. It was then I looked at her eyes and then her lips, eyes, lips, eyes, lips, eyes. She smiled brightly and asked, “What is it?” Then I went in for the kiss. She kissed me back, and we passionately kissed with tongues. (When a woman looks at your lips, and you kiss her, you’re not going to get rejected. Just look for those little, subtle tells of the other person’s true intentions.) She suggested we go to a more secluded place, (When a woman says that, you’re going to get laid as long as you don’t fuck it up or talk her out of it), and I brought her to the beach. We kissed even more and talked. I kissed her all over her body, avoiding direct touch to her vagina and tits. I know you tell us to take two steps forward, one step back. I made a comment saying, “It’s getting really hot and heavy here.” She asked, “What do you want to do?” (That tells you she’s submissive and she’s comfortable with you being the leader.) I said, “We can have sex here on the beach…” as it was really dark, “…or in my room, or in your room, OR we can just not have sex and kiss and talk here.” Then, I kissed her again. (Women don’t want to be responsible for the sex. It should be the man’s fault.) After a few minutes of kissing and caressing, she said, “let’s go to your room, but only if you have protection and if it’s dark.” I said, “of course,” with a sly smile. (You didn’t try to force anything and she continued to get more turned on, because of your take it or leave it attitude.) NOTHING was rushed to this point and onward. I already thought about the logistics of sex and asked my brother to leave the room beforehand, and it was 2 am at this point, so he was a true wingman, and I had condoms. (I did an article and video called, “The Logisitics Of Sex,” and you definitely paid attention.) We had passionate sex, and I felt it was my first time truly making love, not just humping. (Watch my article and video, “How Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms.” If you are prepared, you can last.) Thank goodness I practiced how to last longer in bed. We both came at the same time. It was so funny, before she came, she was clawing into me, breathing heavy, moaning. When she came, her hands, eye lids, lips, and entire body was shaking. (Dude, you lit her up.)
She said a lot of “It’s my first time someone…”
…said I was so feminine.
…undressed me so slowly.
…redressed me after sex.
…was so forward.
…said I smelled good.
…kissed so passionately.
…pounded me so hard. (That’s great for your confidence and ego.)
I think what she meant was lasting long, as I only pounded hard on the last couple of minutes. She also complimented me a lot on my posture, silliness, accent, smell, as I didn’t use any deodorant/cologne, forwardness, hugs, kisses, and skin. I purposely didn’t use any liquid courage that day. Lastly, because of distance, I told her honestly that I don’t do long distance relationship and told her I want both of us to be happy. I suggested we date other people, and whenever our paths cross again when we’re single, we can date. Her real home is in New York and mine is in Massachusetts.
There is more to this, but I’ll stop there. I did make some mistakes now that I think about it, but I’ll learn from it. Thank you so much for the knowledge. On to the next reading and girls! (What a great fucking love story. This is the kind of story most guys dream of being able to tell. It’s all about living full out in your career and life.)
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