The real reason why you fear potential lovers forgetting about you and finding someone else, and what you can do to overcome your fear and let go of your unhealthy attachment to them, so you can attract and seduce them successfully, or attract someone better.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers who are falling under the illusion of action. Their fear is driving them to do and say things that are sabotaging their success with the women they are involved with. The first email is from a viewer who has been on and off with a woman for the past year and a half. He has successfully re-attracted her recently and they hooked up, but when he texted her a few days later to set up the next date, she has not responded yet. He wonders what it means and why after they just had sex, she would do this. The second email is from a viewer who is a bad-ass retired paratrooper from the UK. However, he’s tough as nails in combat situations and works in very dangerous places where death is literally around every corner, but when it comes to his ex-girlfriend that he is trying to re-attract, he wilts like a little flower. I tell him exactly what he needs to do in order to be successful, even though his ex-girlfriend is involved with another guy who she keeps making up and breaking up with.
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“When we fear that we are not good enough, not attractive enough, not smart enough, not rich enough, not educated enough or not talented enough, we often will develop unhealthy attachments to people, circumstances and things. We literally do not believe or feel that we deserve to have someone want us as much as we want them, or that we can not have the things in life that we want, because we have developed a limiting belief that we tell ourselves to justify our dysfunctional behavior and model of the world. Subconsciously we develop unhealthy belief systems that justify whatever it is that we feel we are lacking in life. Then, when we encounter people and circumstances that are a match and justify that false and limiting belief, we hold onto them trying to force things because they are aligned with our belief system. The only way to overcome unhealthy attachments is to let go of them and dare others and circumstances to let us go. If they let us go, then guess what? It was not meant to be. The right people and circumstances will effortlessly fill the spaces that you have created in your life for them. The wrong ones will be full of effort, frustration and difficulty and never stick around long term. Things that dissolve in your life dissolve because they are not aligned with your destiny.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne