Why you should only focus on your beauty, gifts, skills and talents instead of your flaws in order to create attraction in others towards you. Why focusing on your flaws only seeks to magnify your own feelings of unworthiness and inadequacy which will cause other people to consciously and unconsciously focus on them also.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who has a physical ailment that affects his self-esteem, confidence and self-image. This negatively affects his relationship with his girlfriend and previous women he’s been involved with. As a result he has gained weight and is out of shape which contributes to his relationship problems.
The second email is from a viewer who has only been applying what I teach for a few weeks and is dating multiple women. He’s in his 40’s and has never dated more than one woman at once and is having a blast. He’s a great example of how changing a few things mentally can change your whole outlook and success in life.
“What you focus on with your mind will tend to expand in your minds eye. If you don’t like the way you look, the way you talk, the way you think or dislike yourself in general, you’ll only cause other people to notice and focus on what you don’t like about yourself. You will literally attract people who will match, mirror and agree with what you don’t like about you. However, if you focus on what you love about yourself, what your gifts, skills and talents are, other people will notice them too and you will attract others into your life who will magnify, appreciate and accept the beauty you find within yourself. Before others will notice your beauty, you have to notice it first.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne