From Passionate Sex To Lack Of Interest

Why things go sideways with women you were dating and sleeping with when everything seemed great, but now they seem to have little interest in getting together with you again.

How to figure out where you’re going wrong and take corrective action so she desires you like she did in the beginning again.

Viewer’s Email:

Hi Corey,

I have a question about the very important role of “sense of humor” in
relationships. But better give a quick background first. Nearly a full
year has passed now since I found your material on Amazon, and I truly cannot
thank you enough. I’ve grown leaps and bounds in understanding how to court a
woman, seduce her, and then show her a great time in bed. It continues to be an
ongoing work in progress, but I tip my cap to you, Coach Corey… I’ve followed
all the sensational material from the seduction community for years now, but
your way is the genuine, sustainable path to James-Bond-level greatness. 

So, two months into my current relationship, I sense that I’ve hit a
considerable roadblock. All signs have pointed to very high level of
interest until the last 2 weeks… now, she is giving me the same old story that
seems to proceed any downward spiraling relationship—she is soooo busy with her
job and grad school and can only get together or talk on the phone less
frequently. Plain and simple, she is just not knocking down my door like
she did a month ago. I don’t doubt that she is busy, but I know in my heart
that if she truly found strength from me and desired my presence that she could
clearly squeeze in a few minutes and would feel energized by calling and
texting me during the work week. Instead, my phone has been silent, and it
really hurts.

Corey, you say in your book that you need to rely on humor, and I couldn’t
agree more. I’m speculating that my problem with her may be stemming from
my lifelong insecurity with my sense of humor. She made a random comment a
few nights ago that she loves Gavin DeGraw’s music, but that she has an
innocent crush on him too because he’s so funny and playful. I took this
as no arbitrary comment, but rather a significant signal that she really
desires that in a man and that she doesn’t feel like I’m delivering the humor
and good vibes that she wants. I got some other awkward comments thrown my way
that night and didn’t get a good night kiss. She has seemed physically and
spiritually distant from me since. And, when I’ve reflected on the last 2
months together, as fun as our adventures and sexual escapades have been, I
would honestly have a tough time citing moments where we have truly laughed out
loud together. 

Regardless of if the humor issue is really my problem or not right now
(though, it probably is!), it’s something I need to improve on ASAP. I
grew up in a serious, dry, even boring household, and I have always had to work
hard or get lucky at finding ways to make people laugh. In the case of dating
girls, I’m good looking and “good on paper,” as they say. I can also get by
just fine with flirty, innocent humor early on and by keeping a healthy level
of mystery. But then, I always seem to hit this point in relationships
where my confidence unravels a bit, the insecurities start to come out, and
girls just HAVE to sense this. Do you know of any concrete ways that I can work
on becoming funnier and becoming more charming? What’s worked for you over
the years? And do you think I can save this relationship and make her
REALLY passionate about me, to the point where she leaps into my arms again
with joy?

Thanks so much. If I’m ever in your neighborhood in Florida, it would be an
honor and pleasure to buy you a beer.

Bob