In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares how my book and videos have helped him to understand what led to his wife having an emotional affair with another man. Even though they are getting divorced, he has no hard feelings towards his wife, is in a great place and is letting go of the baggage from how their relationship used to be. He no longer has such a strong emotional charge towards things. He also talks about how Network Chiropractic Care has changed his life and how he feels after only two office visits. His ex-wife to be is also about to get under care. The best part is that he’s hanging out, having fun and hooking up with his wife without any attachments to what may or may not happen in the future with their relationship.
I don’t have a question for you. This is more of a thank you letter, or rather a testimonial. First, I wish I had come across you in the early 2000’s. I did run across the David DeAngelo material, and was disgusted with the Mystery method and all that crap. After trying it, it was not what I was looking for, and came off as fake and inauthentic. It was not congruent with my lifestyle. (The fundamentals I teach are about being natural, authentic, acting like a man and going for what you want. If it’s not reciprocated, fuck it.)
Now, as I’m facing divorce, I understand what happened, and why I was the way I was. I’m halfway through reading your book a second time, as well as watching an uncountable number of videos. I feel I am getting clarity and closure, and having no hard feelings towards my wife for her emotional affair. We now hang out, have fun, and hook up, without any of the baggage of our previous relationship. (That’s how most relationships start, hang out, have fun and hook up.) It’s weird and amazing that it’s not so emotionally charged. (The best place to be is in the driver’s seat. Either way, you can take it or leave it.) I still have a ton to learn, but I’m in a great place and making huge changes to my life. I do not wallow in misery, like I did the first six weeks after finding out. (It’s a torturous thing to find out your girlfriend is having an affair. It’s a tough thing to accept.) Thank you for your perspective. It is greatly appreciated. You are a saint.
The other amazing thing was getting into NSA. Holy fuck dude. I’ve only been twice, and it’s like miracle work. My soon-to-be ex-wife, who’s extremely skeptical and logical, is going on Thursday. (It’s like what I teach in my book. If you experience it and apply it, you will see that it works. Watch my video, “From Dud To Stud In 4 Days!” to see what an NSA chiropractic adjustment looks like, and how it can transform your body language and physiology.) You are absolutely correct when you say that it’s helped you more than any of the other self-help items. Without your website, I would have never found it. It has been very serendipitous, and I am extremely grateful for what you are doing.
Keep it up, and don’t ever stop.
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“Network Chiropractic Care, which is also known as NSA, (Network Spinal Analysis), is the most life changing and life enhancing healing modality I have ever experienced. What is so amazing about it is, by making light contacts on your spine and neck, a Network Chiropractic Doctor facilitates your brain, re-connecting to all of your body’s organs, systems and structure to release all muscle tension, vertebrae miss-alignment and nerve pressure. This basically puts your body into a peaceful and relaxed state that supports optimum health, flexibility, proper frame and structure alignment, and organ and brain function. When human beings are in a peaceful and relaxed state, we naturally and instinctively make healthier food choices, exercise habits, relationship choices, career, business, financial and life choices.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne