How to get your confidence and happiness back after a breakup, so you can recover, move on and attract an even hotter and higher quality woman.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email success story from a viewer who shares how my work helped him to get his confidence and happiness back after a breakup happened this past April. He describes how learning to think and approach life and dating in the ways I teach in my book, How To Be A 3% Man, created the perfect conditions for a woman from his past to be magically drawn back into his romantic life effortlessly.
He describes how he sometimes felt like he was ready to give up on life, but watching my videos helped get him over the hump and get excited about conquering more of what life has to offer. He describes how he is transforming into a new and better man. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
Thank you for everything. I felt as if you were with me like a best friend throughout my recovery after a break up from April until now, August 7.
(In four months, that’s a pretty good turnaround.)
Whenever I would feel down or weak and needed a pep talk, I would resort to your videos to help me.
(The videos are just my mindset, the way I look at the world, taking situations like this one and teaching people how they can apply what’s in my book, videos and articles to help them achieve their outcomes. Every day when you get up, the person you see in the mirror is the captain of your ship.
In order for you to get from where you are to where you want to be, you’ve got to take action, but in a directed and focused way that is strictly outcome based. In other words, everything you do and say is about helping you achieve your outcomes, helping you move the ball forward in life, closer to where you want to be.)
Hearing your advice gave me a law to live by and the standards to follow, whereas before I’d be very lost and often question my actions or decisions. I would also replay videos that related to me many times whenever I had a tough moment – at night before bed, in the morning after the gym, or whenever in the evening.
I’m very much into the law of attraction, I always keep in mind the law of abundance you always bring up in many of your videos, and it has become true for me. Keeping the positive mindset manifests into reality.
(It’s really a mindset, a perception. A quote I love of Wayne Dyer’s is, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” By being positive and being optimistic, by looking for evidence in your world of things shifting or starting to turn and go your way, you force your brain to find and identify things that just happened, then look for more of that. If you’re meeting the kind of women you like, what that should tell you is you’re putting out the right vibe, and the universe is bringing new people to practice on.
If you’re looking for a new job or a better job, and you’re talking to prospective employers, that’s evidence that what you want is on its way. As long as you keep grinding and taking action, it’s a matter of time before the right opportunity and you being ready for that opportunity magically meet, and what you’re looking for happens.
It’s just like working out. You keep going, even when you don’t feel like it. It’s about sustained discipline for extended periods of time. It’s a way of life. It’s a way of living. It’s a way of thinking, it’s a way of being, it’s a way of showing up that demonstrates to the world you expect to get what you want. And even though you might not have it, eventually you’re going to get there. It’s a matter of perseverance, learning from your mistakes, time and repetition. Those moments are going to come into your life no matter what you do, so you might as well take some positive action to move you towards where you want to be in the future.)
This weekend, I saw an old friend of mine I use to have a fling with back in high school. I am 23 years of age now. She and I are always on and off with hooking up whenever she visits Jersey to see family and friends. It seemed as if it was a coincidence that this happened.
(In my experience, there is no such thing as a coincidence. Everything is divinely orchestrated based upon your intentions and your soul’s path for what you’ve come into this world to experience.)
She was very much willing to visit specifically just to see me, where she would normally visit primarily for family,
(Well obviously she really digs you, because you’re fucking awesome. Of course she’d want to come hang out with some dude who’s awesome),
and secondarily contact me for a night out and obviously a hook up. She booked a room and everything.
(Girls like sex too, especially good sex, and if you know what you’re doing, they won’t forget it.)
We had a night in Atlantic City and went bar hopping, clubbing and it was a great time. We had amazing sex by the end of the night. This also was a perfect opportunity to practice my new improved self to be a stronger man with all the advice you give in your other videos with this girl I hung out with all weekend. She now wants me to visit her sometime soon, as she is also coming back to visit by the end of August, and we’re making plans now for when she comes back.
(What’s interesting is, it had always been a hookup thing in the past, and now because you’re the new and improved you, and you’re demonstrating an even better, sexier, more fun version of yourself, she’s liking you more. And if she likes you more, she wants to see you more. It’s all feminine energy – bonding, connecting and opening up to receive love.)
I cannot thank you enough. It’s been one HELL of a ride to recovery and getting my confidence and happiness back. Because of you, I’ve gained all of that back and I’m ready to conquer more of what life has to offer.
(That’s great dude, great attitude.)
It felt as if I woke up and felt that I’m finally stepping over the line where I’m transforming into a new and better man.
(You’re on your way to reaching your full potential my friend.)
When I was ready to give up, you were always there to pick me up. I’m ready to continue casually dating and improve myself even more to greater heights. Thank you so, so much Coach Corey Wayne, a guardian angel in my eyes.
(Well, we’re all angels helping each other dude. Do your part. Make yourself better, and you’ll make the world around you better. If you’re happy, positive, optimistic and expect things to work out for you, everybody you encounter is going to feel better just by being around you. They’ll feel a little more optimistic. It’ll rub off on them, because it’s a higher vibration.
It’s easier to be happy and be optimistic. It takes effort to be angry and be pissed off. Do what it takes to make a life and lifestyle that facilitates you being in a peaceful and relaxed state.)
I will continue to watch your videos as well as finishing your book “How To Be A 3% Man.”
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“The best thing you can do to alter the course of your life trajectory and destiny is to adopt a positive, empowering and compelling outcome focused plan of action, testing and refinement. Sustained discipline when committing to the process of achieving one’s goals is a necessary and unavoidable component of success. The road to success is a long and often lonely one, as most people you encounter in life won’t understand your reasoning or be able to relate to why you do what you do. You do what you do for you, because you choose to. By taking care of yourself first, you’ll eventually put yourself in a position to have excess abundance to take care of others.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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