In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares a recent success story. He has been following my work for almost two years now, and he’s read my book twelve times so far. He says he has been on countless dates, but with most of the women he went out with, he simply was not into them. A couple of weeks ago, he started dating a woman he met on Tinder. They had immediate chemistry, and he realized why all those other dates never really went anywhere. They have a lot of fun, laugh a lot and things are easy and effortless. Within five minutes of sitting down at the restaurant on their first date, she was already looking at his lips. Because he had practiced what I teach so much with other women over the past two years, he went for the kiss and got no resistance. They had crazy passionate sex five times on their second date. He talks about how he can feel her little tests coming a mile away and is able to pass them with ease. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email:
I just want to take the time to share another success story with you. At this point, I have been following your work for almost 2 years. I have read your book 12 times, and when needed, I keep on reading paragraphs over and over again until the topic I’m looking to find an answer to is clear. I have to say that your videos do help a lot to understand the details, and therefore, I’m still watching them daily. (That’s real dedication. You just try and get a little better each day. What you observe in life, you participate in, and even if you read the book a lot, the videos help you to see different patterns and approach the same kind of problem from different directions.) Even if it’s about a topic that I have already encountered, just to see if there’s a new way of looking at things, like there always is in life.
Since I have been following your work, I have been on countless dates, but with most of them, I like the woman, but wasn’t that into it. (The good thing is, you didn’t stop and talk yourself into it.) A couple of weeks ago, I started dating a girl I found on Tinder, and we just have this chemistry which helped me understand why all those other dates didn’t go anywhere. An item on my list was that I wanted a girl who I can really laugh with, and has the same dorky humor as me. On the first date, we laughed all the way through it. (It’s really nice when you meet somebody, you just click and the chemistry is easy and effortless.) Within 5 minutes of sitting down, she looked at my lips like they were a 1+1 free deal at a shoe store. Needles to say, I went for the kiss, and she didn’t hesitate at all. (It’s wonderful to go out with girls like this.)
Last Saturday, we went bowling on the second date, and she couldn’t keep her hands of me. (Remember, attraction is not a choice.) When we got back at my place, I took 2 steps forward, 1 step back. During the day, I watched all videos about this topic and again read the part about it in your book. (You’re reviewing fundamentals. This is what a guy who plays in the NFL, NBA or Major League soccer does. The best people prepare.) After only getting my hands on her shirt, she couldn’t take it anymore, and we annoyed my neighbors 5 times during the night.
This is just an email to say thanks, because I now look back on things and realize all the things that I was doing wrong. Without proper examples from parents, it’s up to yourself to get the knowledge. I’m now helping a friend of mine, directing him to your work, and give him tips as well, because I now understand the fundamentals. (It’s important to put the time in. There are no shortcuts to success. You do this if you want sustainable success that lasts a lifetime.) It has become counter intuitive. Little tests are a good way to banter with woman, and you can feel it in your gut when she tries to do it. Friends of mine are asking if we are in a relationship right now, but I know better than to worry about label stuff like that. I’m just going to focus on doing what we are doing now — having awesome dates. (What’s the formula in the book? Hang out, have fun and hook up.)
Thank you coach, I’m looking forward to your next video. (Thanks for being another great example and leader.)
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“Love is about mutual bonding, connecting, excitement, enthusiasm, chemistry, attraction, giving, receiving, allowing, affection, growing, romance, acceptance and no holding back. Most people you find attractive will not feel the same way. Most of the people who find you attractive, you simply will not feel the same way. But there’s a small number of people you will have animalistic and passionate chemistry with, and this will cause you both to feel like your meeting and being together was divinely orchestrated and meant to be. Most people will never experience this kind of explicit true love, passion and joy, because they do not do the work that is necessary on themselves to prepare and become able to successfully attract their dream lover or lovers. Since they are too impatient and settle for mediocrity, out of desperation and fear, they never circulate long enough to perfect their skills and reach their full relationship potential. Once you know what you want, you must be willing to pay the price to make it a reality.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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