He’s Making His Ex Jealous?

Here’s how & why, quickly recovering from rejection & moving on with some new dates helps you get your ex back! The worst thing you can do after a breakup or getting rejected, is to sit around moping and thinking about the one that got away. If you’ve recently been rejected or dumped by your wife or girlfriend, getting back in the saddle and dating new women is the quickest way to get over a breakup, and also the best way to get your ex back. Why? The best thing to do is walk away completely and never look back when you have been dumped. Leave the door open by telling you’re ex to call you if they change their mind in the future, but seek to meet and date as many new women as you can find. Since human beings tend to forget the negative things that happened in the past slowly over time, and as the days weeks and months go by after a breakup, your ex may start questioning their actions that led to your breakup. They may start thinking they made a mistake. Fear of loss will cause them to come forward and chase you again, as long as their interest level has not fallen below the 51% level & if you give them the space to miss you. However, most guys tend to plead, beg and chase women into losing all respect for them, thereby, ruining any chance of getting back together in the future. The following is an e-mail from a reader. A few months ago he got dumped by his fiancée. He listened to my advice and has started meeting and dating several new women. Recently he ran into his ex shortly before his date with another woman. It would appear she has become jealous and a little upset that he has moved on, even though she is sleeping with another man. I point out some key things that may reveal she is starting to want him back. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:

Corey,

Remember me? Ex is living across the street. I moved on as both of us, you first, knew it was the right thing to do. I had not seen her or spoke to her for over a month, maybe a little longer. I had to stop into where she works. She works for one of my business partners. She was surprised to see me and I can tell you since I was going there before going out on a date, I LOOKED GOOOOOOOOOOD. (Probably beaming with confidence and excited about your date. It’s her loss for letting you go.) Made the change, head high, the whole works. (Good job! Alpha male body language.) She was nice to me and me to her. Made her laugh a bit. (Love is ALWAYS playful and fun, not serious.) While I was there I received a call from from not one, but 2 of the girls I’m dating. (That’s pretty convenient! This instantly communicates high status and that you are successful with other women.) The first was in front of her. I took the call outside but said “Hi Jenn” before going out to talk. (Great timing. When you’re in the flow everything seems to line up for you.) The 2nd I was in my partners office when Jordan called. She could hear me say, “Hi Jordan, can I call you right back?” Then my business partner asked me how my date with Tina went. (Awesome! It contributes to the mythology of you as an alpha male who is popular with the ladies.) As I was leaving I said goodbye to my Ex, and I couldn’t believe how pissed off she was. What gives with that? (You should be ready at all times with better comebacks. So what. That’s her problem. Never let anything a woman does or says get under your skin. She was upset that you are so happy and seem to have all these other women chasing you. Obviously the “just for sex” relationship she is having isn’t turning out to be all that it was cracked up to be. You looked like you have not skipped a beat in life and have moved on. Maybe she has been thinking about you more and more lately. Maybe even regretting a few things or the harsh way she dumped you for the bartender. Then she finds out you are fucking half of the town, or so she assumes. She’s not happy in her relationship, but you seem like you are doing fantastic!) She moved on with this other guy. I know you say it’s not so much what they say, but what they do. But really, I’m kind of confused. I was still nice as I left, said it was good seeing her. (She sounds like she is jealous of you moving on, maybe because she has been starting to regret her choices and questions if she is happier off without you. She may be starting to look at your past thru rose colored glasses and forget the bad things. So what should you do? Nothing. Keep dating and hooking up with new women. I’m sure some of it will get back to her. If she wants you back or wants to rekindle things, she will contact you. If she does, invite her over. Tell her to bring a nice bottle of wine and some snacks. Focus on making her laugh, sexual innuendo, playful banter and simply having a good time. No serious subjects. If she starts blabbing about the past and what happened, just tell her: “The past does not equal the future. You should kiss me passionately right now and I promise you’ll feel much better. Don’t think! Just kiss me!” Make sure she does 70%-80% of the talking by asking questions. Say, “Really? Wow. No shit? That really happened? Tell me more, etc.” 90% of the time you are charming James Bond. 10% of the time you are the naughty boy who flushes an M-80 down the toilet at school and blows up the pipes. Be direct to get what you want. You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)

Jerry

“Champions aren´t made in the gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them: a desire, a dream, a vision.” ~ Muhammad Ali