Good afternoon Corey,
As I told you before on Twitter, I wanted to send you a direct message because I have an issue that is burning my fingers. In November 2007, I went into a relationship with a very nice girl. Five months later, she ended the relationship citing “she no longer had feelings for me.” We both moved on with our lives, and everyone minded his/her business. However, we started talking again, and it started to look as though things would work out. The following is now the problem: sometimes she acts as if she really wants me, loves me and wants to be with me, BUT at other times she will ignore me and act differently, which causes confusion on my part. So what I wanted from you Corey, is to know how I can best handle the situation. I really love the girl and would love to get her back. If it proves to be impossible, then I will have to move on. Please advise.
Here’s my response to Tom’s email:
Thanks for your question. Let’s start with the basics first. Have you read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man?” That will give you the foundation of understanding of how a woman’s mind works and how to properly treat and handle your interactions with her so she pursues you more, instead of being flaky. What is basically going on in your relationship is, you are having difficulty reading your girl and sensing when it’s appropriate to pursue, and when you should back off. When a woman’s interest level goes down, (usually because the man is doing things wrong and things that turn her off), she becomes flaky, hot and cold, distant, busy, etc. When her interest level goes up, (when he’s doing most everything right), she wants to see and touch him more, she will call him more, be more available and flexible, etc. I do know this. If you keep doing what you have been doing, she will break up with you again, so you need to fix what you are doing wrong ASAP.
From my heart to yours,
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