How 3% Man Helped Me To Weed Out A Looney Woman

An update & success story of how 3% Man helped in vetting a looney woman.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email update from a viewer who spotted looney behavior in a woman he was really starting to like. She previously mentioned how she tends to ruin nice things like they were experiencing together. She seems to have also been negatively influenced by an incompetent therapist that helped push them apart instead of bringing them closer together. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “How 3% Man Helped Me To Weed Out A Looney Woman”.

Remember, you’ve got to vet properly, and 3% Man can help you do that because there’s a lot of crazy girls out there. There’s a lot of girls out there from broken homes. Can’t be turning a hoe into a housewife. You’ve got to be selective. There’s a lot of hot and crazy girls out there.

There’s an old video, the hot and crazy Matrix on women. It’s funny, but it is really true and it’s pretty accurate. The better the family environment she was raised in, the more likely it’s going to be easy and effortless with her. The more there was chaos and the weaker the dad was, especially if he wasn’t even there it’s like rolling the dice.It’s like Russian roulette. You don’t know what you’re going to get.

So this particular email is from a viewer, and he provides an update on how a woman he wrote in previously about in a Video Newsletter from November of 2025. “If She Likes You, She’ll Make It Easy To See Her”, tells us what’s been happening.

Viewer Email:

Hi Corey,

Hope you’re doing great. Update from the guy you featured last November, “If She Likes You, She’ll Make It Easy To See Her”.

So I guess they were kind of long distance. They weren’t in the same city.

So she finally traveled to my city in December 2025. We had incredible chemistry. First date kiss, didn’t want me to go, she even declared her feelings for me on the second. We had sex on the third one. Everything was amazing. Your teachings worked like a charm. 

Duh. I say it all the time, even if you think I’m full of shit, if you apply what’s in my book, you’ll get better results than you were getting on your own. And you can read it for free at UnderstandingRelationships.com. Put your name, your email, create a password and the book will open up right in your web browser.

Plus, you can read Mastering Yourself for free. Nobody else does that. You can try before you buy, and once you see how good it works, then you can buy a paperback or a nice hardcover. Like these are a digital copy or an audiobook. So back to our regularly scheduled email here.

During the following two weeks, she pursued hard: daily calls, praised me (basically telling me I was the best man ever), and talked to her friends and family about me. But soon she began asking for certainty and future plans. When I said I preferred to take things slow, she showed some dislike and even distraught, expressing worriedness about the long-distance but she said that she thought the same.

Well you can say, “Great things take time and big things have little beginnings honey. Just like what happened in the hotel room last time. So we’ll just take it day by day. Let’s see what happens. You know, I’m really having a good time with you. I love seeing you. I love thinking about you. I love seeing your name pop up on my phone and it’s having a lot of fun. Let’s see where it goes. Obviously, you’re missing me, so we should probably get together, do something about that as quickly as possible, as quickly and as expeditiously as possible.”

I visited her city twice for a couple of days, late December and then Early January. The second time it all crumbled slowly as I got to know her.

Remember, people can hide who they are for the first 90 days.

Very high body count, all her exes were evil, emotionally unstable, not easy-going behavior, daddy issues, bad money habits.

Oh, shit. So daddy didn’t do a good job.

She tried to control little things like how I shaved my head because she “the feel reminded her of a traumatic past event”. 

Yeah. When a girl’s telling you, “Aw you need to change your hair because it reminds me of my ex, or you shouldn’t touch me there because it reminds me of my ex.” It’s like, that sucks. You know, we don’t want to hear that. It’s like, “Babe, you can’t compare me to your ex. And by the way, I’m going to touch you where I want to and how I want to because it pleases me. And don’t. It’s not fair to compare me to some other dude. I don’t be dealing with the ghosts of your relationship past.”

(Hey a heads up guys from the woman editing this; if a woman tells you don’t touch her a certain way, you should listen to her. Especially if she’s telling you it reminds her of things she DOES NOT like. Just take the hint if you do not want to become the next unliked thing on her list. HINT- Ask your woman what she likes instead of assuming she likes what you’re doing. You’re very welcome.)


Our first big friction came when a street vendor approached us; I politely said “no thank you” twice. That was too much for her. She insisted I was rude and pushed hard for me to accept her view, saying I was “too cocky” and “over-confident”.

It’s like, “Babe, I’m James Bond.” It’s like in the 1970s, there was this movie. It was like slapstick comedy called airplane. And so there’s a I think it’s Robert Stack’s character. He’s like one of the pilots. He’s walking through the airport and he’s got Hari Krishna’s coming up to him and all these people. Girl Scout cookies and all these people trying to sell him things and soliciting.

And, you know, it gets to the point where it’s just a constant steady stream. He’s dodging and bobbing and weaving and, you know, throwing people out of the way. And it’s pretty funny and it’s an exaggeration of the way things are like that in life. And so when somebody approaching me is like, that’s what I think of, babe, they’re just being obnoxious.

I was very polite and it’s like, there’s nothing cocky. But at the end of the day, “I live for myself and I answer to nobody.” Like Steve McQueen said. It’s like, I don’t want to listen to somebody’s fucking sales pitch when I’m with my cute girl. So I don’t care if you want to go hang out and listen to a sales pitch, great.

I’m going to go over here and have a cocktail and I can sit and watch and laugh my ass off. How much this guy is wasting your time and taking time away from your sexy boyfriend. But at least it’ll be amusing. That’s how you respond to that.

I stayed calm and didn’t give in. That made her angrier.

Oh, you’re in a good mood.

After resolving this argument, she said my confidence felt intimidating yet attractive and proceeded to give me the best sex I’ve ever had. Talk about roller coasters.

It’s like well you weren’t diminished by it. She tried to push you around and intimidate you and you said, hey, I’m not having it. And then she fucked your brains out. She felt your strength, and that’s why she wanted to get up on you. Ride you like a wild stallion.

Then she told me she would have to think a lot about what happened.

Well, make sure when you’re thinking about that, you’re having lots of impure thoughts about me. It makes the experience so much better.

I then traveled back to my city. A week later, just before I went on vacation, she called me and asked for more certainty using arguments like “she was a highly sought woman”. I told her I would visit her after my vacation but that I liked her and wanted to keep getting to know each other (mind you, this was little more than a month). After that, things became inconsistent: it shifted from too hot to ice cold. As soon as I returned, I told her I wanted to catch up on the phone but told me “She was too busy” to do so.

I would just say, “Hey, no problem. Hit me up when you’re freed up. I’d love to hear your voice and catch up and see what you’ve been up to. I’ve been thinking about you.”

I backed off and gave her space. We eventually talked and told me she was waiting for me to reach out but because I didn’t, she felt I didn’t care.

So when she feels worried that you don’t care because daddy didn’t give her enough I love yous and hugs, she assumes the worst and she doesn’t react too well to it. This is how it shows whether or not a woman’s father did a good job. A woman whose father did a good job is going to be bubbly and happy and be glad that he called or glad he got in touch. But a girl that came from a broken home is not going to react too well to that.

She’d discussed it with friends and her therapist and didn’t think we would work because of my “personality” but suggested staying friends. I declined and told her to let me know if she changed her mind. That was mid-January.

So if she says, “Oh, we can stay friends.” It’s like, “Yeah, I’m down to be friends with benefits. That works too. You know, tell your friends, thanks for the idea.” And it also kind of sounds like the thing. I’ve seen this a lot in my phone sessions over the years. These women get these woke therapists who don’t have any men in their lives and got daddy issues of their own.

That’s why they became therapists in the first place. And the first, like when I do phone sessions with therapists and psychologists, one of the first things they say is, do you know why I became a psychologist or therapist? I already know the answer. But I was like, “Tell me?”

Because I was so fucked up and trying to figure out myself because I came from this home or that home, or my parents were this or that. I was like; I’ve heard that once or twice before. So just keep in mind, there are incompetent therapists out there that will actually drive you guys apart instead of bringing you together.

I’ve seen it happen over and over. Especially if the girl’s woke too and she gets a woke therapist. It’s like, probably not going to salvage it. She messaged once more. Because remember, women are supposed to make your dick hard, not your life hard. If she and her woke therapist are trying to make your life hard, yeah, she’s probably not going to stick around for too long because you’ll bounce her right out.

This is what the book is designed to do. Get a girl was raised right if you want a long term relationship by her dad and he provided a calm, stable environment. You can have fun with girls like this, but wifing them up. Suboptimal. Talk to your friends who have wifed these kind of women up. See how that worked out.

She messaged once more about something trivial a couple of days after. I replied briefly and that was our last contact. She still sees and likes my stories.

Well, I would have invited her to come visit you. Because at that point she broke it off.

I omitted a lot, but what’s your take and predictions? I feel I handled it well: stayed centered, didn’t chase, and didn’t compromise my values. My take? Best sex I’ve ever had, put the Corey Bible to practice but the woman was looney.

Well, we want easy going, easy to get along with. And you can always come back with playful humor and the examples I talked about. But if this woman’s go to is always is, “It’s not going to work out. It’s bad.” Because again, that’s what she grew up with. She wasn’t raised right.

It’s like you’re just going to get tired of it because you come home and you’re like, oh, not again. I don’t want to deal with this. I need, you know, I can deal with it every once in a while. But when it’s like almost like a daily routine or every other day, it’s like, that’s fucking tiring. It wears you out.

After we were talking about the “street vendor situation” and got to a more calmer discussion, she admitted to tend to “self-sabotage”. When I asked what she meant.

Which is always a great question to ask women. “What do you mean? Why would you say that?”

She explained, “I tend to ruin nice things like this”. She went on about her needing to work on things, talk to her therapist about it, etc. I’m a very easy-going guy, so I started to get fed up with the drama pretty quickly but I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Which is the right thing to do.

To see if things worked out.

Well, at the end of the day, will she submit after you put her in her place and you call her out? If she just keeps coming back with the same shit especially after she talks to her woke idiot therapist, the chances of success are not good.

Take in consideration that all of this happened in the span of a month and a half. Met her on December 4, 2025. My last visit was on January 10, 2026.

So you had a month long hookup. That’s still fun. It’s a nice little short love story. Great sex. Best you ever had. And when you’re 90 years old and your balls are dragging on the ground, you’ll be thinking about her going, bitch was good in the sack.

And there’s a lot I didn’t tell you about. The constant need for certainty, her crying when I told her that I wanted to keep getting to know her and not wanting to hastily put on a relationship tag, a lot of drama with her family, and so on.

Yeah, that’s just really going to be hard to make it work. Maybe in 10 or 15 years, as she grows up and matures or finds a good therapist. But as long as she keeps talking to the woke idiots, not going to get any better.

As you already know, things didn’t work out. but I came to understand that the teachings I’ve applied worked as a filter that made her realize it wouldn’t work with a man like me. It’s kind of tiring, however, to really like people for what they are just to never see them again, but that’s on me.

Well, at the end of the day, it’s not your fault she’s this way. Her parents fucked her up, so. Hey, you gave it the college try. As you said, you gave her the benefit of the doubt, but she couldn’t help herself. She’s used to sabotaging good things, and so she’s consistent. She told you who she was, and she’s consistent with that. So from that perspective, her words and actions matched.

I came to understand that she probably needs a man that can control, tells you “Yes, honey” to everything and pretty much is at her service.

Yeah well she’s not going to love that guy deeply either. Eventually she’ll stop sleeping with him. Maybe cheat, probably cheat. Especially if she came from a broken home. But it’s not your problem.

Anyways, I hope this reply is not inconvenient, but I thought it would be interesting to see how these kinds of people help you out discarding themselves from your life. Stay alert, be on the lookout.

Thank you lots Corey and have a great one,

Bob

Well, thanks for sharing. And again, the book worked as designed. The book as great as it is and as powerful as it is, and it makes women as predictable as the Sun come up in the East and setting in the West is not going to fix a girl from a broken home. It’s not your job. It’s not your responsibility.

You want easy going, easy to get along with. She’s got to be nice to you. She makes your dick hard. Not your life. Pretty fucking simple. And she communicates like an adult. Is not an emotional wreck with a woke loony therapist that makes life hard.

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