How 3% Man Taught Me To Attract Women Instead Of Repulsing Them

How to attract women effortlessly instead of repulsing them.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who shares a success story 4 years in the making. He says he used to be a needy little beta boy who sought validation from women. He never got past friend zone and trying to prove his worthiness. Now he has his purpose and mission in order and hasn’t lost a woman since. He lets women prove their worthiness & trustworthiness before agreeing to be their boyfriend. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “How 3% Man Taught Me To Attract Women Instead Of Repulsing Them”.

So I’ve got an email success story. This is four years in the making. And so this guy admits, he says he used to be a needy little beta boy who sought attention and validation from the ladies. So he said he saw too many Disney movies. He thought, “I’ll be friends first. They’ll see what a great guy I am, and then they’ll want to date and live happily ever after with me, just like they do in the movies.”

But obviously he never got anywhere. And in his frustration, he finally came across my videos and book, started applying it, got his first girlfriend and he didn’t even have a purpose and a mission when he started out. And now his life is totally in order. And he’s just basically done a total life transformation on his personal and professional life. In other words, he took what I say in 3% Man seriously.

He was a good student. He read the book and he’s doing well. And if you’re new and you haven’t read either one of them yet, they’re free to read in the Member’s Area of my Website, at UnderstandingRelationships.com. When you get there, put your name, your email address, create a password, and as soon as you hit enter, 3% will open up right in your web browser.

There’s little tabs in there. You can click for 3%. You can also check out my first book of quotes, which is also in the Members Area. And again, it’s for all free members get access so you can try before you buy. So let’s go through and see what this guy has done successfully applying this stuff to his life.

So just keep in mind, these videos are meant to like fine tune how to implement what’s in the books, in your life or to adapting it to your specific situation. So you’ve got to think like you’re taking a class. This are the course books, these two, Mastering Yourself and 3% Man.

And the Video Newsletters are in the live streams and the Q and A’s we do with the girls are basically where we answer your questions. So think of it as like a PhD level class that gives you the cheat codes to life, your personal life, and your professional life.

And I say it all the time, even if you think I’m totally full of crap, if you apply what’s in the books, you’re going to get way better results than you were getting previously. Proof is in the pudding, just like this particular guy.

Viewer Email:

Dear Coach Wayne,

I have to say you changed my dating life completely. I’m forever grateful that I stumbled upon your video in 2022 when I was stuck in the friend zone with a woman for 2 years with a woman who didn’t even want me.

Yeah, we kind of all been there. When I was younger, I did the same stupid things. You just think, “oh, eventually I’m going to get my chance.” But a man who values and loves and respects himself. If a girl’s not interested or not available, he’s just gonna be like, “Well, hey, if it doesn’t work out, you’ve got my number, hit me up.”

And then he moves on because he’s looking for somebody that’s single and ready to mingle. He’s not trying to change somebody’s mind. He’s not trying to rip off another dude’s girl. He just goes where he’s celebrated, where there’s enthusiasm for him. A girl that’s okay with you just being friends.

Well, oftentimes her attitude will completely change when you start dating her sister or her best friend or some other girl in the friend group. The point being is that you go where, in other words, there’s a quote in the beginning of 3% Man. It’s from Adam Corolla. He says, “When a woman likes you, the doors start opening and all you’ve got to do is walk through. But if the doors start closing in your face, well, then you walk away.”

That’s basically how it is, because love is allowing after all. Attraction is not a choice. Women already know within 2 or 3 seconds if they would date and sleep with you when they meet you. So you might as well get to the point as quickly as possible.

Instead of dithering and hesitating and sitting around for two years like this guy did. And like I did stupid things like that too when I was younger. Hoping you’re going to change your mind or the hoping you’re going to get the opportunity. High volume man is just going to go where the opportunity is.

I was clueless with women and got nowhere. I used to get mad and upset with women all the time. I was a needy little beta boy who wanted validation, I had no purpose, no game and wanted a woman. I was no way near the man I needed to be to even think about a woman. From watching Disney movies in the early 2000s I saw this behavior from men. I figured that’s the type of man I needed to be.

Well, whatever you observe, you participate in. So if you’re consuming a bunch of Disney fantasies, well, you’re going to think that’s a real world in real life. And you’ve got to remember the soundtrack and the emotions that these movies elicit. It emotionally anchors you to those dysfunctional, unattractive behaviors and you don’t even realize it. You’re basically getting brainwashed by watching this stuff, which more often than not, is the dork from high school that never could get laid. And he writes a fantasy of the way he wishes or wants the world to be, and yet continues ignoring reality.

You be her best friend for years then she turns around sees what a good man you are. Far from the truth. The first video I watched was “Women want a man who is a challenge”, I had no clue what that meant. Why would a woman want a challenge?

Well, they want a guy they can win over with their beauty and their sex appeal. They like a guy more if they have to work for it. We’re all like that. We’re all kind of wired like that. Anything that comes easy, we tend to take it for granted. Anything we have to work for, we tend to really appreciate and value it. And especially so when it comes to how women feel towards men.

Because what matters most is how they feel about you. Not what a good dude you are or what a nice gay male girlfriend you’ve been patiently waiting for two years to get your shot. They care about how a guy stimulates their emotions. The man they can’t control, they can’t get their way with the man that does his own thing.

As Steve McQueen, the late, great Steve McQueen said, “I live for myself and I answer to nobody.” That doesn’t mean you’re a selfish prick, but it does mean you’re a fucking man and this is your world, and you’re going to live it your way. And anybody who supports that, they’re welcome to hang out and be part of your party of life. And if not, then go on down the road.

So I watched it and you blew my mind. When it came to women I was everything except a challenge. I knew nothing about women at all. For months I watched your videos to get put on game. It wasn’t until I read your book I learned the game. Hint those that just watch his videos only.

In other words, he’s saying you’ve got to read the book. You don’t just go sit in class and think you’re gonna absorb the information. You got to read the textbook and understand it. That way when we’re discussing things in class, like class is kind of in session right now, you can understand how to apply what’s in the book to a specific real world situation. Obviously, in this case, we’re discussing a success story.

I mean, what I teach is not an overnight fix. It takes a lot of work and a lot of time and a lot of discipline to change your ways. It took this guy four years to get from where he was to where he is now. And anybody telling you, you just flip a switch and your life becomes amazing overnight. It doesn’t work that way. It takes time, it takes repetition and it takes discipline.

I read your book one once and I thought I was good enough to start dating.

So this guy tried it. He’s like, I don’t need to read this book 10 to 15 times. That’s ridiculous. Who reads books 10 to 15 times? People that read a book 10 to 15 times, or people that want to master it and get to know it so well, they can teach a class on it because quite frankly, that’s how well you have to have a grasp of the subject.

Because remember, we’re bombarded constantly. All you got to do is turn the TV on or go sit in a movie. And whether you realize it or not, you’re being brainwashed by dysfunctional archetypes that are opposed to reality. Like in this case, in the movies, this was the way to act with the ladies and they throw themselves at your feet.

You do that in real life? Well, you can rotate the tires in their car. You can change their car battery, you can unclog their toilet after Chad Thunder Cock clogs it up the night before. You might get a hug or a peck on the cheek and be told what a great guy you are, but you’ll never get anywhere close to being intimate with that girl,

Bad idea. I went back to my old habits and lost another woman who was interested. This time instead of blaming women.

Like the red pill guys do.

I took accountability on myself.

Well, you’re the master of your fate. You are the captain of your soul. You’re the driver of the fun bus you’re supposed to lead. And if something’s not going well in your kingdom, well, it’s either your thoughts or your actions or your lack thereof that’s causing it. So you’ve got to figure out what you need to change in order to fix it. Because as soon as you start pointing the finger and blaming other people, you are absolutely powerless to shape and change your destiny. And you’ll just be one of those fucking pussies crying on the internet, bitching about single moms and other nonsense.

Insanity- doing the exact same thing over and over again expecting things to change. I went back you your book and I saw my number one mistake. Not being centered in my masculinity and being too available.

In other words, he was a people pleaser. He’s willing to jump through his butt because again, this is what they teach you in movies and TV shows. Be extra nice and compliant and do things for the girl and she’ll think what a great guy you are. But in reality, if you do that in real life. She sees you as a butler, the gay male girlfriend or the guy, the Harry Honda, as the ladies like to call him. The guy that drops what he’s doing, grabs his toolbox, hops in his little Honda car, and drives over to rescue her or fix her toilet or whatever it is that she needs done. And then she scurries him out of the house once it’s done, because Chad Thunder Cock is coming over there to beat up her pelvis.

I stopped dating for a year and built my purpose and life as a man first.

In other words, he got to a happy place, figured out what his mission and his purpose was focused on that. Because that’s what attracts women to us, is we know what we want. We’re going after it. We’re making things happen in the world. In other words, as Steve Jobs would say, making a huge dent in the universe. In other words, leaving your imprint on the world, as he said, “the world that we see around us was made by people that are no smarter than you and I, and we can change it.”

That’s spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally and financially. Then I decided to renter the dating scene in 2023.

So he was a new dude with a new attitude.

That’s when I learned my cards and start playing them right I got my first girlfriend. After that I haven’t fumbled a woman since.

So you see, he didn’t just start out perfect and take me serious when I said read it 10 to 15 times, he read it once. He’s like, Corey, coach, you don’t understand, bro, I’ve got this. And then what happened? He didn’t. He got his ass handed to him, lost another girl. He was like, damn. So he went back to the book, realized the mistakes he was making, and then he took it seriously. He took reading it multiple times seriously, because that’s what it takes.

If you want to master this stuff and know it backwards and forwards and undo all that negative programming we’ve all had shoved down our throats since we were born. Then you’ve got to take the time to read the book 10 to 15 times. There’s so many little subtle nuances in the book that just going through it a couple of times, you’re just going to completely miss it.

I recently came off of my deployment looking to enter the dating scene again.

I assume he’s in the military, so it must be his purpose.

I’m now 26 years old dating a very attractive woman who is proving to me that she’s worthy. Not how I used to be proving myself unto women.

Well, at the end of the day, that’s what women want to do anyways. Why do you think they get their nails done and their hair done and they try ten different dresses on and 15 pairs of shoes. The reason why they do that is to attract and keep a man. They know instinctively that it’s their beauty and their sex appeal and their fun loving nature that pulls us off of our purpose and enchants us so we penetrate them emotionally and mentally, spiritually and physically with our strength.

Once you read the book more than five times, hint hint, it’s simple to me. I’m just a man on a mission who is out here serving the world with my gift that god gave me but I do it in a very attractive way that draws in Women. I give that salute to you Corey. If you are tired of suffering with women and don’t want blue balls. Gentlemen read the book.

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