How Life Can Be Effortless…

How becoming more successful with women spills over into other areas of your life so your life becomes effortless. As I discussed in my book, the more successful you become with women, the more successful you will become in all areas of your life. Men who display the leadership characteristics of dominant alpha males always seem to be in the right place at the right time when great opportunities are abundant. It’s like a snowball effect. In beginning the snowball is really small as it starts to roll down the hill, but by the time it gets to the bottom of the hill it’s a giant almost immovable force. As you start practicing what I teach, your little successes eventually grow into big wins for you. It’s a process and you must do the work in order to succeed. However, since repetition is the mother of skill, even your fuck-ups will help you become better. As you slowly lose your fear of doing and saying the kinds of things that deep down you’ve always wanted to do and say… women, circumstances, opportunities and other people will show up to conspire with you to help you make the life and lifestyle of your dreams a reality. The following is an e-mail from a phone coaching client of mine. I’ve been coaching him for about a year and a half now. He is a retired combat wounded Army veteran from the Iraq war. He was originally determined to go into law enforcement once he graduated from college. However, he really struggled to get hired as a police officer. It seemed like every door was getting slammed in his face. His guidance counselor suggested he change his major from criminology to business and that maybe life was trying to tell him something and that maybe, law enforcement was not the ultimate career that the universe has planned for him. When I first started working with him he couldn’t get a date to save his life. He felt he had lost his mojo. A year and a half later with my coaching and his relentless application of what I teach, he’s getting laid all the time, and employers are making special exceptions in their job offers just to make sure that he will come work for them. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:

Coach Corey,

Anyways, Dude, Corey, I got a call this week from my school asking me if I want to meet and have a ‘sit down talk” with the Secretary of the VA. He’s making a stop in my town next week and only 10 student veterans were selected to meet him. I was one of them. So of course I jumped on it and said I would be honored to meet him. So I’ve been drafting up questions and concerns I have for him. So I thought that it was pretty cool that I got selected for that when there are so many student veterans. (When you act like an alpha male and start succeeding with women, you demonstrate the body language and physiology of a leader of people simply by your presence. Opportunities and success will effortlessly flow your way and other leaders will find out about you and want to meet with you. This is the way it’s supposed to be! Get used to people seeking out your advice and input.)

On the Job front, well it looks like I’m going to get that job that I mentioned to you. It was fucking cool Corey. Remember how I had told them my conditions for the job? Well lo & behold they gave it to me with Great Pay! (They made you an offer to take the position and you responded with terms other than what they were seeking. Since you carry yourself like a leader and an alpha male, they modified the position criteria to accommodate your needs & availability. Just like the Denver Broncos NFL Football team rolled out the red carpet for Peyton Manning! It pays to be an alpha male winner!) I was thinking at first, they were going to tell me to “fuck off,” but no dude, they gave me the job with $17/hr pay. That’s pretty fucking good here in my city. Especially just for a summer gig. I was a bit amazed. To tell you the truth Corey, I just wanted the summer off from school. I was about to light my fucking books on fire this past semester LOL. So I’m pretty stoked about this job. I’m going to be driving an RV looking thing with computers and shit like that in it. I’ll be taking it to Job Fairs throughout the state. Helping people find jobs, set up resumes and things of that nature. So I’m looking forward to it. (Awesome! Good job!)

Dude Corey, it looks like things are finally starting to look good for me in multiple aspects of my life. (Success with women makes you feel more complete and confident as a man. Most men do not feel this way inside. Those that do get treated like royalty and opportunities just seem to effortlessly flow their way.) I have yet to have the feeling of complete fulfillment, but I know it’s all within due time. (The more your life evolves and changes as time goes by and you are able to spend more and more of your time doing things you want to do when you want to do it, the more content, confident, peaceful and balanced you will feel. It’s a process to make your life ideally the way you want it. Rome wasn’t built in a day.) In regards to women, I’ve developed a great sensory acuity knowing if I actually have a chance, and if I don’t. I’ve learned to not get attached to results as well. It’s a great feeling Corey, to be able to walk away from a female if you don’t get what you want… where as before I would often get pissed when I would get shot down. Now I don’t give a fuck. Dude Corey, I still get scared like a little girl sometimes when I approach a fine female, but I just tell myself she’s just another gal, and often within a few seconds/minutes I feel like the dominant one. It’s fucking great. However, I know that there is still room for improvement. I haven’t read your book in a while, however, the last time I read it, I highlighted parts/pages to serve as a reference. Especially in what I believe to be my weak aspects of where I need improvement. (Good job! I’m so proud of you! You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)

Bob

“Results, expected or chosen, but not in alignment with your inner nature, may come but at the expense of great difficulty, hard work and high maintenance. Individuals in poor alignment with their source will also have to extend considerable effort to gain and maintain their goals.” ~ J. Hamilton