How to get instant dates and kisses from pretty girls who are total strangers.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares a success story of how he met a random girl on a train in New York City and started kissing her within five minutes of meeting her.
He says things all changed for him when he first began internalizing the material taught in my book, How To Be A 3% Man, which shattered the boundaries of what he previously thought was possible. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.
I was talking with a few people online and we were sharing our stories of success we’ve had by following the principles in How To Be A 3% Man. This is the story I shared with them:
I remember a moment when I first began internalizing the material and experiencing it work first-hand. It shattered the boundaries of what I thought was possible and as a result, changed my identity.
I was on a phone session with a guy the other night and he was asking me, because he was he was in a fearful place and he was wondering, “When do you get to the other side? When do you get to the other side of doubting all these things about yourself to where you feel good and you feel certain?”
What I was explaining to him is that if you’ve got your previous life that’s filled up with memories and things that didn’t go your way or didn’t work out, and then you start applying what’s in “How To Be A 3% Man,” – which oftentimes is the opposite of what you’ve thought and done in the past – and then you start seeing things really work for you, (like you’re going to see in a second with this particular guy), these are those kinds of moments that kind of rewrite your identity – your personal story that you tell yourself of what’s possible and what’s not possible for you.
And really, you’re only limited by your imagination and the actions that you take or fail to take. But in this case, this guy took the actions when he recognized signs that we’re there. Because you’ll see, attraction is not a choice. This woman clearly was interested in him, put herself into his orbit, and he took advantage of the opportunity that the universe dropped right next to him, so he could practice what he learned in “How To Be A 3% Man” and have a great memory.
This story here, these are the kinds of things when you get older and you’re thinking back on your life, they make you smile because you went for what you wanted. You saw an opportunity, and you took advantage of it. You seized the day.
About two years ago, I was visiting family on the East Coast of the United States. I had just spent the day walking around New York City and was taking the train back to my hotel in New Jersey. I stepped onto the train, walked up to the upper level, and took a seat. There weren’t many people in that particular train cart. Suddenly, this very attractive, professionally dressed woman enters the train and begins walking down the aisle searching for a seat. Out of all the open seats she could have taken, she decided to sit down right next to me.
Women who are interested, who are ready, willing, able and open, will sit down next to you if they feel safe and comfortable with your presence – if you’re giving off that vibe that you’re approachable, that you’re happy, that you’re having a good time. In other words, you’re giving off good vibes, so she feels safe. And obviously in this case, she’s definitely attracted to him.
This is typically the lengths that most women are willing to go to let a guy know they’re interested or to make it easy for him, because women help you when they like you. And this could have just as easily have taken place in a gym where you’re working out on a piece of equipment. I’m pretty sure anybody that’s been to the gym before knows that in some gyms, they have equipment face each other. You’ll be working out on a piece of equipment, and then a girl comes and sits on a piece of equipment in front of you, and so you’re literally facing each other. That’s a pretty obvious sign of interest, because you can’t help but look at each other and stare at each other when that happens. So, when these things happen, you want to take advantage of them.
That was my first indicator that she liked me.
Obviously, when she sat down, because there’s lots of other open seats, but she chose to sit right next to him.
I start a brief conversation with her, telling her it’s my first time exploring around New York, ask her questions about what she does in the city, where she’s from, etc.
Just basic, get to know you questions, taking a sincere, authentic interest in the other person. We all love to talk about ourselves, and so he’s asking her.
She was being very receptive to me, and we were both enjoying the conversation. I build rapport with her and then just flat out tell her I think she’s attractive, and I would love to take her on a date someday if I’m in the City again. She says she would love that. I get her phone number. I then give her a coy smile and ask, “Are you a good kisser?” She instantly blushes, and replies, “I think so…?”
Most women I’ve asked that to, they always say, “Well, yeah, of course.” And then typically when they say that, the response is “Prove it.”
I smile and say, “Why don’t you come over here and show me?”
You can just kind of imagine, like when you’re kids, a little boy and a little girl and you’re daring each other to do things. It’s kind of like the same, but now, obviously, they’re all grown up. It’s kind of that same playful mentality. Because love is playful and fun. He’s daring her to kiss this handsome stranger that she’s met, who she obviously liked, because she sat down next to him.
She blushes even harder while looking all around her.
What are people going to think?
“There are people everywhere!”, she exclaims. I don’t say anything.
Ye who speaks first, loses – remember that. I talk about that in the book. So, you just sit there and you smirk at her. Let her squirm a little, and you keep your same stoic James Bond smirk, because you know she’s going to kiss you.
I just keep smiling and wait while she hashes the idea out in her mind. About 15 seconds pass.
Now, how many guys watching this would be able to sit there with a smirk on their face for 15 seconds as she’s squirming? These are amusing, beautiful things that happen in life.
She then looks me in the eyes, gives me a smile, and says, “I can’t believe I’m doing this!”, and gently leans into me and kisses me on the lips. We literally just met 5 minutes prior. Afterward, she even asked me, “Where did you learn how to do this?!”
[Holds up How To Be A 3% Man], I wonder.
She even exclaimed, “It feels just like in a movie!”
You’ve probably heard me say, women want to be in a love story, and this this sounds like something out of a movie. It’s fate. But how many times does this happen to most people and they fumble the football and have no idea what to do? The point being, he recognized she was into him because she sat next to him. So, he starts a conversation, which it’s easy to engage her in conversation because she sat next to him. She likes him, she’s helping him. She’s subtly signaling to him, “Hey, I’m open to you.” And he says, “Hey, I think you should kiss me.” And then she says, “Hmm, Okay,” and she kisses him.
This is how easy it can be. And this is why it’s so much better to spend your time inviting women to join you who already like you, who are already into you. So, if you do the work on yourself ahead of time by taking care of yourself, getting in shape – remember it’s like 74-75% of all Americans are overweight or obese, and if you’re relatively fit and in decent shape, you’ve just eliminated 75% of your competition – and if you learn what’s in “How To Be A 3% Man” and you apply it, these are the kinds of things you get to enjoy in life.
So, if you’ve got a question or a challenge and you like to get my help, go and UnderstandingRelationships.com, click the Products tab at the top of your screen and book a coaching session with yours truly.
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