How To Learn The Cheat Codes To Life & Women Your Father Never Knew

How to learn the cheat codes to life & women that your father couldn’t teach you.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email success story that’s eight years in the making. He shares how 3% Man and Mastering Yourself helped him to reach his full potential and teach him things that his dad never knew. He shares how it helped him in his career and some of the bad relationships he went through that ultimately gave him experience and wisdom and helped him to meet and attract his dream woman.

My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

So I got a nice little email success story. This guy says is eight years in the making. So I think he said he started following me back in 2017 as he was basically finishing school, in school or in college. So he mentions how 3% Man helped him with the ladies, and obviously Mastering Yourself helped him with his mission, his purpose in life and becoming a self-reliant man.

So he shares what he did and said and how he applied the things he learned from me. He’s got a great job making great money working for a high end auto dealership. He tells me the name, but obviously I’m not going to mention it here. It’s in South Florida. He sells very expensive cars, let’s put it that way. Some of the most expensive cars in the world. For any of you that are going to go into sales or are in sales, the higher the ticket priced item, the bigger the commission. So always keep that in mind. You can sell like $50,000 boats, $100,000 boats, or $10 million yachts, and it’s really the same process, but you’re going to make a lot more money selling the $10 million yacht per transaction than you are a $50,000 or $100,000 boat. So keep that in mind.

You want to work smarter, not harder. That was one thing that AOC couldn’t figure out as a bartender in New York. She worked for a small little restaurant bar that didn’t have a lot of business, and I think they eventually went out of business, and she couldn’t put two-and-two together and figure out, “Why don’t I just go work at a really expensive restaurant and I’ll make a lot more money and it’ll be a much more stable experience?” But no, she decided to become a Marxist because life’s not fair. Then she became a grifter in Congress, and now I think she’s worth like $50 million or something like that. It’s amazing how they can go into Congress $174,000 a year, and within two or three years, they’re worth like $30 million. It’s like they’re clearly insider trading, but hey, when they do it, it’s OK. If you’re Martha Stewart, they throw your ass in jail, but we’ll leave that discussion for another day.

So let’s get through this success story because he hopes to share and inspire you guys.

Viewer Email:

Hello Coach,

Just want to say thank you so much for all of your help and your wisdom, and for reading this. I’ll try to keep this brief and short, and just let you know that all of your teachings has made me very successful in my career, in my personal self-esteem and in my relationships.

I live in South Florida, commuting between the Fort Lauderdale and Miami area, and work for an exotic automotive brand that I would like to keep it classified for the viewers if you ever decide to make a video of this.

So we’ll keep it classified.

I started my journey back in 2017, just finished graduating college and started working in my career. My dad wasn’t always around in my early childhood, so I never really got the teachings that you have taught in your books.

Well, you know what? I didn’t either. When I was young, like when I was in your age, when I was 18, 19, my goal was I wanted to be rich and successful. It’s not like they give you a book and say, “Here’s how you become rich and successful.” You got to study self-help. You got to learn from other people that are rich and successful. You go work for them, you interview them, you talk to them, they mentor you, whatever happens to be.

Again, this is just not these kinds of things that I teach. They just don’t share it in school, and most people are left to kind of figure it out on their own through the process of trial and error. So I’ve systematized everything that I used in my previous businesses and careers to get any job I wanted, to start any business I wanted, to turn into a multi-million dollar company and set of companies, change your purpose, change your career midstream.

One of the things I didn’t realize when I was that young is that as you get older and you get experience, you decide you don’t want to do the same thing anymore that you may have started out doing. I majored in construction management. I had my general contractor’s license and I got into real estate and mortgage industry. Then when I decided to become a full time life coach, I completely got out of that business and walked away from it. I still love renovating and doing things of that nature, but it’s not my career anymore.

So back to our email here.

So when I picked up 3% Man and Mastering Yourself, I felt this has really given me the foundation and the wisdom that I needed from my father to navigate through life and business.

I was very focused in college and didn’t really date around. so after I graduated, that’s when I decided to start dating. To be honest, I wasn’t very good at it.

Well, you know what? Everybody starts out as a novice, so I wasn’t either. We all kind of suck starting out.

I was very shy, very introverted and didn’t really like to put myself out there, especially in the Miami crowd.

Then, after picking up your book in 2017, I’ve must’ve read it over and over again for at least 17 times in the first year. I was going through a nasty break up with a toxic Latina at this time and needed to understand how to grow out of this burden. I made all kinds of common mistakes that you mention in your book, but the most common one was not having a spine and not feeling secure in myself.

Well, most guys, naturally you think, “Oh, I got to be nice to the girl because then she’ll like me. If I’m nice to her, I’ll treat her really good. I’ll treat her extra special. I’ll be extra nicer to her than anybody else, because I really like her and hope she wants to be with me,” and when you do that, you talk like that, you think like that and you give off that vibe, women want men that’ll stand up to them, put them in their place and tell them when they’re out of line. It’s just a fact of life.

If you act soft, squishy, you act like a bitch, she can walk all over you and you won’t stand up for yourself, you won’t put her in her place, she’s not going to feel safe with you as a leader, because if you don’t stand up to her, how are you going to protect her and stand up to the world, or anybody else that might be trying to bully you, your family, your kids or whatever? That’s why they don’t want to be with the nice guy. The nice guy is just too soft and squishy.

I basically studied your material and applied it in the real world and got exactly the results that I needed after learning how to correct the fault-lines of my mistakes

Let’s just say the first few girlfriends were hard-core lessons.

Well, that’s how you get experience. Experience teaches you wisdom.

They were truly bad decisions and just women who overall have very traumatic experience, took advantage of me, gaslighted me because of their narcissism and I would get emotionally crushed.

Because again, he’s just too nice. As he said, he didn’t have a spine, but what do you see on TV? That’s how men are supposed to be, right? But you do that in the real world and women will treat you like dirt.

I stayed persistent and resilient and kept on and was getting better and better results as I would redefine my wish of qualities I look for in a woman. What you had described in chapter, “Making Your Ideal Woman’s List Of Qualities” truly fascinating, because this is basically manifesting your desires to God, and it truly works.

Well I say all the time, if you think I’m full of shit, if you apply what’s in these books, which you can read for free at UnderstandingRelationships.com, just subscribe to the email newsletter, you’re going to get way better results than you would have gotten on your own. These are literally the cheat codes to life, shaped through experience, tough lessons, getting jacked around and jerked around, whether it was bad people or bad women. It’s like you got to learn those things. You got to get your bumps and bruises in the world and learn from it so you don’t keep making the same mistake.

Fast-forward to present day, I must’ve read 3% Man over 34 times (I go back to it occasionally just to remind myself and put myself on check if I notice any turbulence or to “Sharpen my knife”) as well as getting the audio-books for both the 3% Man and Mastering Yourself.

On my website, there are links to where you can get any of my books for free by doing a free trial at Audible.com. They’re also in the video description of this video. If you scroll down underneath the video description, there are links. So you can do a free trial to audible and get my books for free.

I took it very personally and basically forged it into my character and made it so that I can teach each others.

I must say there’s a lot of men out there who have no idea how to handle themselves or conduct themselves with women.

Well, that’s an understatement.

I’ve taught and advised many men who needed help and some who will go through break ups and it’s crazy how reactive they get because their egos cannot comprehend your teachings or as simply as giving women space.

Yes, us guys tend to be very egocentric. I remember before I really understood this, like no guy wants to admit that they’re not good with the ladies, they can’t keep a good girl, can’t get her to stick around or girl that initially likes him, can’t get her to fall in love and stay in love. You know, you feel like less of a man. I know that’s how I felt. I remember when I’d be reading books on the topic, I would have something wrapped around the book, because I didn’t want anybody in my office to see what the hell I was reading, because I was embarrassed.

If I could be an example to your viewers, that I watch weekly your video newsletters and mostly just listen as if it was a podcast during work and driving, I will simply tell them this:

Coach Corey Wayne is basically a lifestyle, not a gimmick or a trick or a tactic or a manipulation strategy. You must become grounded and centered in yourself and be emotionally content with yourself with and without a partner right by your side.

Yeah, you got to get to a place in life where you’re happy and you enjoy your time alone. Most importantly, you enjoy your own company, because if you don’t like your own company and you don’t like being by yourself, then you’re not going to be very good company for the ladies.

All women are truly beautiful, but it’s also vital to understand how beautiful their soul is, even with their emotional core and their ways of being. The only thing we can truly do is control ourselves.

That’s what we call controlling the controllables. You have control over your behavior, but you don’t have control over anybody else’s. If you take care of your own behavior, that will solve most of the problems you have with the ladies.

Once we control ourselves, they adapt their behavior to us whether that is a positive reaction or a negative reaction.

Once again, I didn’t mean to make this long winded, just got a lot to say, but after eight years of following you and stay loyal to your teachings, I’ve been trying to find some time to write to you to truly thank you. I’m now in a beautiful relationship with a great Christian woman that her and I are aligned spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically, and physically aligned for over nine months and we have plans to move in together and be married with kids. I couldn’t have done it without you.

Enjoy some good coffee on me. Cheers!

Bob

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