How To Make Her Feel Drawn To You Because You’re Different

How to attract & seduce a woman so she feels drawn to you & wants to please you.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 37 year old viewer who shares what he did and said to successfully seduce a woman he met on Facebook dating. He says he followed what 3% Man teaches to the point she revealed that she had been celibate for 2 years and really wanted to please him. She said there was just something different about him. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “How To Make Her Feel Drawn To You Because You’re Different”.

So this particular email is a nice little short success story. This guy is 37 years old. And so he shares what he did and said to successfully seduce a woman that he met on Facebook dating. So he says he followed what 3% Man teaches to the T, and to the point that she revealed that she’d been celibate for two years. Do you guys really think she was celibate for two years? Maybe she was. And really wanted to please him. And she said there was just something different about him. So this is what happens when you read the book and you follow it and you learn it.

And so this guy’s read 3% Man nine times and he says he’s read Mastering Yourself twice so far. So he’s got a good foundation, and this is what happens. This is, you know, preparation meeting opportunity. As Confucius said, “success depends upon prior preparation. Without said preparation, there is sure to be failure.” And so when you prepare ahead of time and you practice, then you meet somebody that’s into you. It’s just, easy and effortless, right to the bedroom. The door is just open. And so does the promised land. The doors and the legs open right up.

Viewer Email:

Hey Coach,

I’ve been following your work for about six years now. I’ve read your 3% Man book nine times, your Mastering Yourself book twice, watched a ton of your videos, made a lot of mistakes, learned from them, and have had plenty of wins along the way, but this one was special.

So he really liked this girl.

I’m 37, stay in decent shape, run my own recruiting business, and co-parent a daughter. I met this woman on Facebook Dating. She’s a career-driven medical director. Her profile was the usual. “Not here for hookups, looking for a real relationship, don’t waste my time.”

You guys have all seen those in the dating profiles. “Not here for a hookup.” It’s the same as. “Hey, I’m not gonna sleep with you tonight.” So, in other words, what she’s really saying is, “I’m here for hookups. As long as you don’t talk me out of it.” But the problem is, most guys are just too needy and neurotic to keep it together.

So I hit her with one of your classic James Bond moves. “Do you want to give me your number, or are we gonna use smoke signals?” And boom, she gave me her number right away.

Well, she obviously liked you. Interest was high, and that was pretty good. Pretty good opener.

We set a date for Friday night, and I followed your first-date blueprint to the letter. Before we met, she started acting a little cold, so I just took the cookie away, and sure enough, she started chasing.

So I’m assuming what happened was maybe she became a little difficult. Maybe she threw some maybes at him when it came to setting a date, almost as if she wasn’t sure she wanted to meet. And then he probably said something along the lines of, “hey, if you’re not sure of your schedule or you’re not sure you can meet, why don’t we just do it some other time?” So it makes it easy for her to bail if she’s not really serious. And so when she realized that you’re basically just willing to call the date off and not even reschedule. In other words, you’re making it easy for her to dip if she doesn’t really want to be because you don’t want to waste your time with a girl that’s not serious about you anyways.

Remember her profile? “I’m not here for hookups.” So typically when a woman does that and she pulls away, especially with online dating, is there’s just so many schmucks and guys that got terrible game. And when they do that, when they pull back a little bit, most guys freak out and get upset or angry or try to be controlling, or they try to fix things and all they do is just drive her away, whereas he’s like, “hey, well, you know, if you’re not sure if you can meet.” Or, “I only got one night open. And if you’re not sure you can meet, I’d rather just make plans with somebody else. So, you know, we can just get together another time when your schedule is more flexible.”

So he was willing to not meet her at all. And if there’s interest. But she’s just testing to see if she can jerk you around a little bit and you pass. Then what happened was, as he said, sure enough, she started chasing. So he handled it appropriately and it made her like and respect him more because he was willing to go without meeting her. Whereas pretty much every guy she’s talking to on Facebook is just begging for a chance to see and speak with her and spend time with her. Whereas he’s like, I could take it or leave it. He’s totally indifferent to it one way or another. It’s great if they get together. If not, whatever, there’s another bus every 15 minutes. And for you guys that are on a budget, this is pretty cool date actually.

So, you know, I went to, um, a cool Catholic high school. And we have lots of friends. And occasionally when people are in town, we might get together and go to a game. Sometimes we’ll even go all the way to the state championships. A few years ago, some friends and I, we go there and it’s like a high school reunion in the stands. So there was lots of Gibbonites there. So they can be fun. It’s good for social life. Plus a lot of my friends, we all went there. Now their kids are going there and some of their kids went there and have already graduated. And so we’re all there as like alumni now. It’s pretty cool.

I took her out for tacos and then to a Friday-night-lights high school football game near her place. Total cost, forty bucks.

I mean, what does it cost to go to a high school? Ten bucks? It’s pretty cheap. It’s not expensive at all. Maybe it was. Oh, it wasn’t, I was thinking Taco Tuesday. Nope. It was Taco Friday and a football game.

She didn’t care one bit, she was totally in her feminine, having fun, and clearly didn’t want the night to end.

Well, if your team’s doing well, it’s fun. Plus, if you see people there that you know, you’re like the mayor, oh, hey, people come up saying hello, hugging you. Oh, we grew up together. Gives you social proof or she meets some people that you know, it’s like you’re popular with other dudes and other ladies. Gives you social proof. Nice panty dropper.

At halftime, the chemistry was on fire. I built the tension like you teach, and eventually, she invited me back to her place. Her exact words were, “I don’t want you to be too tired driving home…” Imagine that in your classic girl voice.

Well, there you go.

Let’s just say the Indoor Olympics were gold-medal worthy. Here’s the kicker. Yesterday, a week later, she told me she’d been abstinent for two years, but that “something just felt different. I couldn’t help myself. I just wanted to please you so badly.”

Because it’s probably been a long time since she met a dude that acted like a man, especially being on Facebook. She’s got lots of opportunities, but most of the guys don’t measure up. And he knew how to handle himself because again, he read the book nine times. And if you haven’t read it, it’s free to read the Members Area on the Website UnderstandingRelationships.com, just subscribe to the Email Newsletter. And same thing with Mastering Yourself. You can read that there along with my First Quotes Book all free. Just put your name, your email address, create a password and poof it’ll open right up.

I’m not writing this to brag, but to encourage the guys who are still learning. When you really internalize the principles, when you live them, it stops feeling like a strategy and just becomes who you are. Women feel that. They respond to it.

Thanks, Coach. Your material has truly changed how I show up, not just in dating, but in life.

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