How To Meet Women On The Street & Seduce Them Effortlessly

How to approach & meet women on the street & seduce them effortlessly.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email success story from viewer who provides an update to his last email. He’s a photographer & uses his career as a James Bond like way to meet women. He was traveling and met a woman on the street who he later made a date with. He details what he did in his limited time and how he seduced her on their 2^nd date and overcame her last minute resistance to seduction.

My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “How To Meet Women On The Street & Seduce Them Effortlessly”.

Well, this viewer writes in. He provides an update. I answered an email of his a while back titled, “I Told Her To Calm Down. Then Our Date Went Sideways”. So that last email he sent months ago did not end like he wanted it to. However, he’s continued applying the fundamentals in the book. And if you’re new and you haven’t read it yet, you can read it for free at UnderstandingRelationships.com. When you get to my Website, just put your first name, your email address, and create a password in the email sign up box and it’ll open up right in your web browser.

Think of this as like a class, and this is the textbook that gives you the cheat codes to women. And this is Mastering Yourself is the textbook to giving you a cheat code to life, to business, to negotiation, career. So you get the cheat codes to your personal and your professional life. So because when I’m doing these emails, I’m assuming that you’re already reading the books and you’re being a good student, you’re learning the information and the emails help you fine tune applying what’s in the books to your life through real world examples with guys like this that are applying it.

He obviously went down in flames the last time, but obviously we never give up. We just keep trying to get a little better each and every day. So what’s interesting kind of gives him a little bit of a James Bond type of way to meet women is that he’s a photographer. And so when he’s out and about in public, he’s always got his camera with him because he’s always taking pictures. He sees a pretty girl. He says, “Hey, I’m a photographer. I’d love to take you some pictures and send them to you.” And of course, most pretty girls are like they have pictures of themselves.

So it’s a great way to break the ice and meet women. And so it’s cool. He talks to her. He kind of feels like there’s a connection there. She obviously gives him her Instagram and her phone number and he’s traveling, which is also a nice little wrinkle too. So he’s got a compressed time line, kind of like what I wrote about in 3% Man about when I met Katie, my English ex-girlfriend. I mean, we were in town for a week. I’m not going to get her number and call her the next week. It’s because she’d be back in the UK. So you’ve got to think on your feet and you’ve got to adapt the book to your situation.

Typically, most women are going to take 4 to 5 hours to seduce them on a date from the time you get together, till you’re at like your third place and you’re all over each other. And you’ll see that they had a real hot first date. He came that close to seducing her, but he just couldn’t overcome the last minute resistance. So he ends up, because again, he’s going to leave in a day or two. He’s like, “Well, I’m leaving anyway, so I’d love to see you again.” Makes another date and it’s just completely different.

And he to him, he was like, this is one of the best sexual experiences of his life because she’s really voluptuous, I would have to say. He sent a picture of a very pretty girl, so I can see why he’s like over the moon. And you could sense the enthusiasm. He’s a little cocky as well, a little full of himself. He just feels great. And these are the kind of things that you experience in life that make life worth living. Because at the end of the day, we’re all in a titanic, rearranging deck chairs, and it’s not going to last. Eventually we all go under.

So you might as well have some beautiful fun times and memories like this guy does. And so his career as a photographer, he uses that to meet the ladies. And he can do that in town or he can do it when he’s traveling. Like in this case, he was traveling, so I don’t want to give away all the excitement. We’re going to just go through bit by bit and see what he did. So in his case, because a lot of guys are like, “How do I approach women on the street?”

Well, the best connections you’re going to have is when a woman looks you in the eye and eye fucks you. And what caused us not just so much about looks, but it’s your vibe and the energy that you’re giving off. And you guys will notice you guys that work out. You probably tend to notice that when you’re training, you’re good, you’re fit, you’re in shape, you’re going to the gym regularly, women notice you. Especially younger women notice you.

But like if you stop training for maybe a month or two and you don’t go in the gym anymore, even if you’re still doing some cardio, you’ll notice you’re not getting the looks that you were getting, even though you might not look a lot different. There’s something that happens to your body, something invisible that’s going on. My assumption is that we’re an organism that’s basically expanding in life, because anything that grows in life, like in nature, you know, a tree always grows and expands. But what happens when a tree stops growing? It dies.

So if you’re pushing weights around, you’re doing cardio and you’re taking care of yourself. You’re an organism that is moving through the world with discipline and intention, and you clearly have expectations that things are going to work out in your favor. And so when you push weights around, it’s just, again, there’s something invisible that happens. And again, you guys that work out and then stop for a while and then go back, you know what I’m talking about. And I notice it gets more pronounced as you get older because I’m 56 now, but I can tell if I stop pushing weights around for a few weeks or a month or two being lazy because, you know, sometimes I take time off.

It’s like I almost become I don’t see younger women checking me out. But as soon as I get, I start pushing weights around again within a week or two, I’m getting a lot of looks again and a lot of eye fucking that’s happening, which I just find that interesting. So like I said, first and foremost, you also notice this guy is really happy. He’s really excited. Like when I met my English ex-girlfriend Katie, I was really happy. Things were going great in life. I was enthusiastic and I had positive expectation that I was on the cusp of meeting somebody, because it had been about a year and a half since I’d broken up with my previous girlfriend at the time, and I was ready.

I was single and ready to mingle. I was talking to multiple women. I was even seeing an old ex-girlfriend of mine who we just had a great relationship, you know, and we were both single at the same time. We would get back together and hang out. And as we’ve gotten older, we’ve continued to do that over the years. I haven’t seen her in a bunch of years, but we still talk occasionally. And it’s just nice to know that somebody from a long time ago just still thinks the world of you when you’re both single and available, you can get together and it’s wonderful. But that’s just me. That’s my life.

That’s my thing and how I’ve always enjoyed it. I have good relationships with my exes. I only have a handful of them that I’m not in contact with. And it doesn’t mean we’re all hanging out all the time, but it’s just a handful of times a year. We reach out to each other, let each other know that we’re thinking about each other and wishing our families well. And tell everybody, we say, hi, and I love you. Because that’s what makes life beautiful, is having people that love you and care about you, even if you’re no longer with them romantically. So it’s like it’s a different kind of family that I have from the average person.

But again, it takes women to have good attitudes to do that with if they’re a pain in the ass, obviously you’re not going to want to stay in touch. But again, like I said, when I met my English girlfriend Katie, there was just, I mean, she we were eye fucking each other the first time we locked eyes. So it was on. We were at an event. We were both happy. We were both excited. We had positive expectations about the future. I was taking good care of myself. I was working out. I was really fit. It was one of those times I was in the fittest shape of my life. I wasn’t big and bulky, but I was lean and mean like Steve McQueen, kind of like I am these days.

So she appreciated that. But I was in the right vibe. I was in the right mindset. Now, if I’d have walked in feeling depressed and like my life sucked and it’s over and I was miserable, it would have been all over my face. She probably would have looked at me and then just looked on, but it was just boom. So this is important. You’ve got to get to a happy place first. And so in this case, this guy uses photography, but something that works great for you guys that are dog lovers, it’s having cute little dogs or a dog or dogs that you can take out. Obviously, you guys see my dogs on the podcast and I’ll take them out.

And anywhere I go in public, women just fucking love the puppies. Everybody wants to come up to them and say hello and show them love. And they love people. They love seeing everybody. And you know, again, if you’re a single guy and you want to meet women, get a cute little dog, one that doesn’t shed, like a little shitbox poodle. Make sure you get 2 or 3 of them so when you’re not around or not at home, they can play with each other because it’s cruel to leave a dog at home by itself in a kennel all day. It’s like leaving it in dog jail. But like I said, if you can do it and you can swing it, it’s a mystery, if you ever studied the old pickup community would cause a peacock.

So it’s the thing with having a dog or dogs, cute little dogs. Especially not some big dog that’s got drool running down its face that’s kind of gross. But when you’ve got this cute little dog that doesn’t shed like the poodles that we have, which are just awesome, they’re great dogs. Then women love them and they want to come up. And so if you’re a single dude, even if you don’t know anybody in the city, all you’ve got to do is go out in public and all the girls and women are going to want to come up to you and say hello to your dogs. And it’s just, it’s an easy icebreaker because they’re going to start telling you about their dogs.

And now you’ve got something in common. The women that are dog lovers will come up to you. Women that hate dogs or don’t like kids, they’ll avoid you. They won’t even look at your dogs. They won’t even look at them and go, “Oh, what a cute dog.” They’ll just walk by like it’s invisible. So dogs, what’s interesting, dogs are great at judging people’s character. And when you have a woman that’s warm as family oriented, she’s a dog person. She loves kids. She’s going to have to stop or at least look and tell you how cute your dog is.

But women that don’t like kids, and aren’t really warm, and don’t like pets, you’re going to be invisible and your dog’s going to be invisible to them. And that can really help you to not get involved with women that don’t have the values that you’re looking for. Your dogs can help you prescreen women that have got a shitty attitude and aren’t good with animals and kids. Because especially for you guys that want a baby mama, again, your little puppies can be your wingman and wing women. So things like that. This guy uses photography. If you’ve got some dogs is another thing.

So it’s important to do things that light you up on the inside. And so this guy loves photography. So he’s out looking for stuff to take pictures of because he loves that shit. And then he sees a beautiful woman so he wants to take pictures of her. You love dogs, you’re out. And plus other cute girls with dogs will be out walking their dog. In the area I live there’s a lot of really hot ass women in their yoga clothes and they’re fit and amazing shape and they’ve got dogs and they always want to start, stop and say hello. And it’s like I said, if you’re a single dude, it’s very easy to meet women with a dog with a cute puppy.

Because they go crazy over it. But you’ve got to have something that you can strike up a conversation in commonality. And so if you don’t have a dog or you’re not a photographer, it’s like, what do you do? Well, it’s important to spend your time in situations in social circles where you’re doing something that lights you up on the inside. Like I said, you know, like my story with Katie was like, I’m going to invent, a self-help event. I’m a platinum partner. I was feeling amazing, I was happy, I’m looking everybody in the eye.

And I was beaming from the inside. And she could pick up on that and I could pick up, because she was beaming on the inside as well. So it’s important to get to a happy place first. If you love art, being at an art gallery and just asking the artist about their work, or just talking with other people next to you that are also admiring the same sculpture or the same picture that you are. Maybe, you know, if you’re wealthy, because most of the guys I do phone sessions with tend to be high income, high net worth people, and they want to meet good, quality women.

Private clubs like, yacht clubs, country clubs. I mean, you don’t even have to love golfing. You join a country club, people go there for the food and for the camaraderie and just meeting other like minded people because there’s an expensive fee to get in those places, and you’re not going to be dealing with riffraff. The women you’re going to meet through there, the guys you’re going to meet through there, what you notice about people that have money, they tend to be more gracious, calmer, nicer. They have positive words of encouragement.

If things aren’t going well in your life or whatever, they’re going to tend to have a positive thing to say just because they tend to be serial optimists as well. And again, like attracts like. People that like the same things tend to like each other. So whatever you do in life create a world and a social life that lights you up on the inside. And then when you meet people, whether it’s dudes or women that you’re looking to date guys you can become friends with. You meet him because you already have something in common.

So it makes it easy to break the ice. It makes it easy to have things to talk about because you share similar interests, similar goals, similar values. Country clubs, yacht clubs. A lot of people join those to meet other people. You meet other people who’ve got kids. You want your kids to grow up and make good friends that are going to be a good influence where they’re raised right. Something like a yacht or a country club is perfect for that, especially if you’re well off like a lot of my clients are.

And or you’ve gotten to that level in life, and you don’t want your kids hanging out with a bunch of fucking losers. That was the thing, I came from a blue collar background. The people in my neighborhood were installing things, they worked for the phone company. They worked for the electrical company. They were plumbers, electricians. They were just tradespeople, average kind of neighborhood. And I went to Cardinal Gibbons, which is a Catholic high school. It’s gotten even bigger since I went back there all those decades ago.

But people with money send their kids to a good school because they want to give them a good education, and they don’t want their kids surrounded by fucking douchebags that get them into trouble and derail their life. I mean, at the end of the day, if you’re a parent, you’re trying to get your kids to become good humans that you can be proud of and you are who you associate with. So if you want to associate or become better, it’s like when you play sports, play with people that are better than you.

When you become successful, join clubs and organizations where you’re going to be hanging out with people at your level or even beyond, because you’ll become better just by the nature of the people that you hang out with. You’ll get business deals that’ll come your way. And it’s a great way to kind of pre-screen the talent pool, if you will, before when you join something like that, because there’s not going to be broke ass people in those kinds of places. So you’ve got to think about those things where you fish, and what you do for fun.

So anyways, let’s go through this guy’s email and see how we can help him. I know there’s a nice little long diatribe, but I know I got a lot of new people always coming in. I saw an email the other day, guys like, “What do I do? How do I approach women?” It’s like, get to a happy place most importantly, because then if you feel good about yourself in life, then becomes very easy and you’ll sense this and see this in this guy’s email. He’s like over the moon like I said.

Viewer Email:

Greetings Coach,

I hope this email finds you well as I apologize in advance for the plentitude of this unambitious success story as it relates to, “The Art of Seduction”. My name is Bob and I wrote in a few months ago, your newsletter in response to my email was titled, “I Told Her To Calm Down. Then Our Date Went Sideways”. I’m just settling in from an incredibly exotic “workation”. 

So he’s on vacation. He was working and on vacation.

As I take a moment to reflect on this experience writing this email, I am still feeling in a sense like I’m in an altered state of actuality. Now to get into this splendidly unambitious success story. I ran into a woman that came out of nowhere who in essence upon sight blew my fucking socks off. The picture below does her no justice. She was and is 100% my type and I stopped her to take her picture, as I am a professional street photographer. I take my camera everywhere.

So again, that’s his peacock. To borrow a term from the seduction community.

She stopped immediately with a charming smile upon her face and started posing as I started the photo shoot. By the way this is an incredible way of meeting new women.

I actually had an acquaintance. He was a good friend of another friend of mine. He used to be in the Special Forces in the Air Force. And I remember back in the day, he just loved photography. He was the same way. He always had a camera, and he was kind of nerdy, a little autistic, kind of. But he loved taking pictures and he, man, he had an eye for beauty. And women that were models absolutely loved him taking pictures of them. And eventually he started a magazine and calendars and started getting professional photo shoots and had models coming out of the woodwork because they wanted to have photo shoots with him because he was so good.

And sometimes some of these girls were into him and he was always punching above his weight. He was always dating women that were, quite frankly, way hotter than a guy like that should normally have, you would expect. But he was a very nice, very cool, down to earth dude. And plus he was a fucking dangerous human being. He used to be in Special Forces in the Air Force. So he’s dangerous, fast and lethal. But, you know, he was also he was dangerous, but he was kind. And so women were kind of turned on, even though he was a little kind of little weird, kind of nerdy and autistic. But he was jacked.

He was fit, he was in shape, he was outgoing, and he was really good at taking pictures. And as his business took off, like I said, lots of women came and wanted to work with him, wanted to take pictures. And again, when you work with a lot of beautiful women that love to have their picture taken by somebody that loves taking their pictures, sometimes there’s going to be chemistry and they’re going to come on to you and it makes it really easy. And like I said, that dude always had a hot girl on his arm and it was the kind of girl you’d be like, “What the fuck is she doing with that guy?”

But you had to know him to understand what the appeal was. And because you look at him and go, “Oh, yeah, guy’s not a lady’s man.” But again, his line of work, he was a good listener. Women loved it, you know, especially the models, because they’re insecure about themselves and their bodies, and he’s always building them up. And it just made it real easy. And again, this guy, I can see this same type of deal here. He used his gifts in his career to meet women, because it’s a byproduct, really. A byproduct of meeting women is having a great social life and having a great career, especially if you’re in some kind of a social type of business.

I mean, just something like simple waiting tables, like Chunky while he was living in the mountains, he was working at a restaurant, and he was just doing some bar backing part time in a very affluent area. And pretty much all the customers that came in the restaurant were very wealthy. So it was great for meeting women. It was great for his social life because everybody’s doing well and making good money. And at times he’s making $400 bucks a night just for a handful of hours worth of work, and that’s during the off season.

So it was a great way to get dropped in a new city and go work at a place like that, because your clientele is high end and all the people you work with tend to be a little smarter, a little higher IQ to work in a restaurant like that. And they’re a lot of fun. So if you don’t know anybody, it’s a great kind of part time job that you could get to improve your social life and meet people. Again work at a nice high-end restaurant. Usually the server is going to be more fit, more attractive. The women are going to be fitter and more attractive, something like a Hillstone or a Houston’s type of thing like that, same thing.

And everybody in that business loves to drink and have a good time. So even if you’re brand new, they’re like, “Hey, we’re going this place, we’re going that place, you guys should come with us, have some drinks.” So it’s for you guys that are looking to improve your social life. And you can’t afford to join a club or something like that. You get a part time job at a really nice high-end restaurant, get yourself some extra cash and meet a lot of cool people that you can socialize with. Just an idea there. Because when I was a bartender in college, it was a great way to meet people. Great way to meet women as well. It puts you in a position of authority.

She stopped immediately with a charming smile upon her face and started posing as I started the photo shoot. By the way this is an incredible way of meeting new women. I took a few pictures and she loved them, buying them all.

Holy shit, he even sold them to her. I didn’t even think about that. Huh.

In parting, she gave me an intense look of desire that made my already awesome night even more epic.

So he got paid to take pictures of this girl. And as you’ll see, she was kind of generous.

As my “workation” was coming to an end, I thought to reach out to her. In sending her, her pictures I had her number. So texted her, “hey I am leaving town soon and I’d love to see you again before I leave”.

Pretty direct, pretty decisive.

She responded within an hour with “cool I’ll be down, what do you have in mind?” I responded with “meet me at this location at this time.” She responded with “cool that sounds good.” We met up, had a drink, a beautiful floetic conversation ensued and I invited her up to my hotel room.

You could tell he’s just come up with these words because he’s happy. He’s like, Holy fuck. So again, he went down in flames a few months ago and now totally different experience.

She totally agreed and was excited about it. So we’re in my room continuing to converse fluidly & I ordered a pizza.

“Hey, you want to get some pizza? And fuck. What’s the matter? You don’t like pizza?” That’s a joke. I had friends that used to do that when we were younger, and sometimes the girls would get pissed off. But most of them would laugh. They thought it was funny, especially if they gave him a dirty hit. He never got slapped, but he always joked about it. But it always got a funny, entertaining reaction. But you’ve got to be careful. You’ve got to be careful with those kinds of things. You’ve got to have the swagger and the delivery to the point where the delivery comes off, where you’re just saying it and you’re totally talking out your butt.

It’s just a silly thing to say. Like, if you’re talking to a girl and things are going real well, “Hey, you want to get some pizza and fuck?” And you say in a weird, you know, a voice that communicates you’re being silly. And she laughs or she gives you a dirty look and he’s like, “What’s the matter?” Or dirty look, “What’s the matter? You don’t like pizza? It’s like I’m just fucking with you. I was trying a new pickup line.” Obviously, that didn’t land very well. I mean, you can have fun even if it doesn’t go well. You can make fun of yourself. It shows that you’re just goofing around and you’re not being serious, and you don’t take yourself too seriously.

I have like, one of my good friends is like that. He’ll say shit that’s kind of over the line and inappropriate. And when he reads it on the woman’s face that it didn’t go over well. He’s like, “I’m sorry, I’m just drunk. It’s like I’m an idiot. Don’t listen to me.” And he changes the subject and gets him laughing about something else. So it like, never goes downhill, even when it starts to. He’s always great at turning it around, because sometimes you have a couple cocktails in you. You’re gonna say shit, you’re gonna put your foot in your mouth and you’ve got to be able to recover. So always go with the flow, diffuse it with humor.

We briefly expressed an interest in seeing a specific movie, but never got around to it, keep this in mind. The pizza arrived we ate most of it, having only 2 slices remaining, after about 15 minutes and within the flow of our conversation, I initiated a kiss. One kiss became 2, 3 and we ended up all over each other. As soon as I went for her voluptuous breast.

Which they’re very voluptuous. He said she had a nice low cut top. I assumed that was the picture of her in the streets that he took.

She stopped me. Two steps forward one step back. I chilled and continued making out, eventually finding my way down to the heavenly Chocha. She stopped me again. I chilled for 5 minutes and went back to the Chocha, she was a waterfall and the sexual tension was very high. We’re both almost totally undressed, I’m on 10, she on 10 but guess what Coach. She stopped me again and this time she drew a hardline.

Uh oh. Sorry. Sorry, mommy. I’m a naughty boy. I’m gonna put myself in timeout. I did something inappropriate.

As excited as I was, I ceased all sexual advancement. She had been with me in my hotel room for about 2 hours. 

So women have got to know that you’ll stop and not get upset. But the most important thing is you can’t get fucking butthurt. So whatever he did, he took a little too far. And she’s like, “Hey, no more of that or I’m gonna leave.” Probably something like that. “Sorry, mommy. I’m a bad boy. Put me on your knee and give me a spanking.”

Upon stopping I continued with playful banter, charm & masculine indifference to the idea of sex.

Because women want to know that they can stop you, and you’ve got the self-control to stop and not force yourself upon her. Because pretty much every girl’s been in a situation where a guy has tried to force himself on her, and sometimes successfully. You would be surprised at how often that has happened with a large majority of women. They just never talk about it. But when you move freely in the land of women, you hear everything.

From her body language she made it axiomatically clear that she was extremely impressed with my ability to let go while continuing my interactions with her in high spirits.

So this is really super important. If you get a hard line drawn and you have to go, “Sorry, mommy, I’m a bad boy. I’m gonna put myself in timeout.” You can even say it with a silly voice. Like kids talk. Because it’s fun. Then she’s gonna be like, wow, he’s not even bothered. He’s not butthurt. Obviously, this has happened to him before and he kind of acts like he knows he’s going to get the Chocha anyways. That’s the way James Bond is in the movies when the women are like, you’re not getting in my pants. There’s no way we’re fucking tonight. And he just smirks and he fucks them later anyways.

A delay is not a denial, but obviously she drew a hard line. But he didn’t elaborate. But he got put in his place. He went a little too far. But the important thing is he did not let it diminish him. Because if a woman sees your diminished by it, then it shows you’re used to not getting what you want and you’re used to being rejected. But if you understand, it’s just part of the process and it’s all in playful fun because you’re going to take it too far. This is why I say don’t joke with women and text that you just met, or you’re trying to meet. Because they’re not going to get your sense of humor yet and shit’s going to land wrong.

But when you’re in person or you’re FaceTiming, you can see their body, and body language and their reaction, and you can back up and be silly and, you know, make the Cookie Monster voice or Kermit the Frog or something like that. And because if you had a bratty little sister growing up, it’s, you know, when you go a little too far, you apologize. Tell her you love her, and then you resume teasing her mercilessly a few minutes later. So it’s important if you’re used to getting what you want with women you’re amused at the hard line in the sand. But you know, eventually it’s going to happen. It’s inevitable.

As we got dressed, I kept making her laugh. I handed her the box of pizza with last 2 slices. That pizza was the bomb by the way.

Well, everybody loves a good pie.

I walked her to her car and on the way we spoke on the likelihood of linking up for my last day in town. I got her to her car and we kissed three times with me stopping her for the fourth, saying in a charming James Bond like voice, “Third times the charm”.

So he’s kind of like lightly rejecting her. She wanted another kiss and he’s like, “Nah, three’s enough. Three’s enough for you. I don’t want you to get carried away like you were earlier, which I loved. But that will be for another time, my lady.”

She smiled got into her car and I shut her door like the gentleman that I am. The next day. Here’s where the roses hit the fan Coach. I checked out of the original hotel & into one that was a step up for my last half day.

Well, you might as well splurge every now and then.

The other hotel wouldn’t have a room available for a few hours, so they said. However they checked my luggage and I’ve got an idea.

Well, usually you can’t check in until the afternoon anyways. And you’ve got to check out in the morning because you’ve got to give the cleaning ladies time to make the room up. Clean the previous tenant’s pecker tracks off the sheets and everything else.

Ordinarily, I would let the woman be the first to reach out, but seeing as though it was my last day and I had to wait for a room to be made available, I called her.

This is totally okay. Again if you’re in a situation here, like the way things worked at the date with Destiny event that I was with Katie at. We saw each other, but we didn’t meet the first night. The second night I met her and we made a date. I didn’t even get her number that night because she’s from the UK. And so I was like, “I’m not gonna text her from the UK” because back then it was like still flip phones. And so I don’t think I would have been able to text her anyways with what I had. I would have had to call her when I got her number.

I think we Skyped when I got back home. But anyways, we have our first date, which was the third night after I had seen her. And then that whole week, we just kept seeing each other at the event and we would just hang out. We would sit together, she would look for me, I’d look for her, and we just we’re always together. We were inseparable. She always wanted to be with me. There were times where I didn’t see her and she’d be in a different part, but during the breaks or lunch or whatever, we would say, “Hey, I’ll meet you at the back.”

And we would always find each other and end up hanging out. And I had her information. So we were just kind of always together because we had to be there. We weren’t like doing other things. So in this case, again, you’re leaving you shoot your shot. If you’re in town, you’re going to spread it out a little bit. You’re going to wait till the next week and maybe she reaches out to you. But again, this is, because he’s leaving, he’s got to think on his feet. So he calls her to see if she’s down.

She didn’t answer, but I left her a brief voicemail saying, “Hey I have a few hours to wait for a room and if you’re free we can go see that movie!” After leaving that message, I got on YouTube and in my news feed was a Video Newsletter of yours Coach, that was titled, “How To Seduce Her When You’re Only in Town For A Few Days”.

Which is another good Video to watch. I think that guy was in a bar, if I’m not mistaken. I could be wrong. Because I’ve done over thousands of videos in over 15 years that I’ve been making YouTube Videos. It’s like, I’ve made a lot of them.

I said to myself damn the timing. For as many videos as I’ve viewed, I’d never seen this one.

Well, the universe has a way of knowing what you need. The coach is always there for you.

I watched and commented on this video. Soon after she texted me that she’d love that and she’d be on her way soon. After all, my hotel room was made available sooner than I’d expected, granting me the ability to get my luggage, go into my room and iron some my clothes in preparation for our next encounter. Had to be sharp Coach, as I am every day.

So he was all dressed and looked good. I mean she was dressed, looked like in a nice dress or a nice blouse. So, she was a little dressy. Usually you’re not going to see a photographer that’s all dressed up and looking good. You look like a professional.

She drove to my hotel, we met in the lobby, we kissed upon sight.

Well, of course she’s your girl. Why wouldn’t you? You’d had your face in the cunnilingus, I think. Or you almost got there.

And strolled around a beautiful tourist location before getting a drink and heading off to see the movie. In the theater, when I went to pay, she stopped me and paid for not just the movie but a couple glasses of red wine and food.

Damn, she’s a giver. That’s a good sign. I might have to go back and visit her, or maybe fly her in to see you. Or actually, she’ll probably pay her own way. If she’s a professional, she’ll help or be like, “I want you to come see me.” Like Katie, in her case, she bought her own ticket and flew to see me. So it’s nice when a woman is willing to invest. Plus, she loves Florida anyway. She loves the warm weather.

Coach, I think my mind was blown momentarily, though I didn’t show it. My composure was on point. We were in the movie making out like no tomorrow. Making out with this woman, I think I hit a new make out record. Including the previous night. When we got back to my hotel room, it was on like Donkey Kong! She tried to put a bit of last-minute resistance.

Well, two steps forward, one step back from the book.

But even with that she knew she was being silly and just gave in. Sex has to be the man’s fault, at least in the beginning. It turned out to be one the most magnificent sexual experiences I’ve ever had, an apex sexual experience if you will. And the most magnificent experience she’d ever had.

Damn you dog.

She showed and she said it as well. I knew it would be from the previous night (recon wink wink). It was like dropping a tactical sexual nuk lol or a M.O.P. Massive Ordinance Penetrator.

Which we dropped a few of those on Iran and their little underground bunkers which got all blown up.

She came multiple times “like a waterfall”. (German accent lol Coach).

She comes like a waterfall Corey.

We spend about an hour and a half in the sheets and she volunteered to take me to the airport. We got to the airport.

I like this girl. I mean, she’s driving to the airport. She’s your chauffeur, your tour guide.

Made out more and she asked me to let her know that I made it home safely. Walking into the airport, I was on cloud 9 onto infinity.

To infinity and beyond.

You should have seen how people were looking at me, especially the women. It was like something out of a movie.

It’s like your vibe, dude. You’re filling the room with your presence. This is what I was talking about in the beginning of the video, about how it’s really important to get to a happy place first. And if you’re not in a happy place, just be sincerely interested in other people. You might even want to impose a pussy embargo on yourself. Whereas what that means is, even if the conversation goes really well and you’re sure she’d go out with you, you don’t ask her for the number. You say, “Hey, it was nice meeting you.”

Because you’re forcing yourself not to pursue. Now, why would you do that? Well, if you have a hard time approaching women, it takes all the anxiety out because you’re just trying to engage in conversation. If the conversation starts to die, you can say, “Hey, well, it’s nice chatting with you, I’ve got to run. Have a great day.” That’s all you’ve got to do. And then it takes the pressure off of you guys that kind of have approach anxiety.

And you can just get in the habit of just talking to women because if you had enough women in your life already, you’re going to be nice, you’re going to be friendly to everybody and you’re going to be non hungry. And women are going to pick up on that and are going to be like, “Why is he not asking me out?” And so if you’re you’ve self-imposed a pussy embargo where you’re not allowing yourself for 30 days to ask women out, even if it looks like they’re super interested.

Now, if they ask you for your number, you can give it out. And then when they text, you obviously make a date. That makes it easy. So for you guys that are really freaked out about approaching women, just take a sincere, authentic interest in the people you encounter. If you’re in the grocery store line, “Hey, what are you going to make with that? That’s a great.” I use that all the time, even though I’m not looking to pick up old ladies or anybody in the grocery line, I still do. I was like, “Hey, what are you going to make with that?”

Because I always wonder. It’s something to be curious about. And somebody that loves to cook will go talk your ear off. So it’s simple things like that where you use your surroundings to get people to talk about themselves. “Oh hey, it was great. Thanks for the recipe idea. Have a great night and enjoy your dinner with your man or your husband or your significant other or your date or yourself and your cat”, whatever happens to be.

In closing, this unambitious success story is a testament to. Your work, which of course is greatly appreciated, my continued development and emotional self-control. We as men most have emotional self-control and placing ourselves in position to cultivate indifference in the right moments in time.

Thank you Coach!

Sincerely,

Bob

Well, thanks for sharing that.

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