I have a straight forward question for you. What do you recommend to help me keep it up until she orgasms? I don’t know if the stress of the trip, (I just got back from Italy), affected me or some hidden worry about pleasuring her. I don’t have a problem holding out, but WTF. I’m too young for Viagra. Help!
Here is my response:
I highly recommend the “Better Sex” Video Series. You can Google it and find their website. Their sex education videos are very informative and will teach you things that will blow your mind in the bedroom. The models are not the most attractive people, but they really know their bodies and know what they are talking about. It’s explicit, but a great training video series, and very well done.
Here is what you do to train yourself to ejaculate and not only remain hard, but be able to have multiple orgasms as well. It involves a little self pleasure and learning about your own body. Yes, that means beating the bishop, choking the chicken, assaulting yourself, and any other colorful term us guys have come up with to describe masturbating, jerking off, or spanking the monkey. Get a good lubricant and a clock. What you will do is masturbate and ALMOST bring yourself to climax at least six times or more during a thirty minute period. When you are about to climax, take your hands off yourself, and then just wait for 30-60 seconds; then start stroking again. Enjoy the sensation. DO NOT try to make anything happen, but focus on the sensation that is happening in the little general and ENJOY the feelings. Then after the thirty minutes, it’s okay to blow your top, make a protein shake, shoot your goo, chuck some yogurt, or some other colorful metaphor. However, once you do keep going, you will be extremely sensitive at this point, especially at the tip of your sword. Focus on the general’s head and keep stroking it. You may want to switch hands. You don’t need to stroke it fast, but you may be able to stay hard at that point. Now, you can focus on trying to have another orgasm and just keep going until your arms get too tired. You may only have one orgasm at first, and may not be able to stay hard after the first time you blow your wad, so to speak. However, take your time with it. It will take as long as it takes. Everybody is different. Don’t stress about it. Just let it happen. That is the way to just let yourself have an orgasm. Be detached from the sensations you feel on your flesh rocket. You’re letting the orgasm happen instead of trying to make it happen. You retrain your body to let sex happen. When you can really close your eyes and hammer away at your girl’s insides, (careful not to jar anything loose, just kidding), or beat her guts out, as my good friend Maverick likes to say, ask her what she likes when you are having sex, and then give it to her that way. She will adore you for that because most men never ask. Women help you when they like you. They will tell you exactly how to be their dream lover in the bedroom, and then you can just go to town on her. You’ll be a fucking stallion in the bedroom and have her dying to see you again, telling all her girlfriends how you are fucking her brains out, and how she can’t get enough of you.
Let’s face it. When you get your girl off, you like all men, are going to take credit for it. The freer you are in the bedroom, the better your sex will be, the more you will enjoy it, and the more you will rock your girl’s world. Nothing feels better than being a stud in the bedroom. The indoor Olympics are the best sport around in my opinion.
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