How Women Want To Feel Your Strength & Are Repulsed By Weakness

The importance of your woman feeling your strength instead of weakness.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer of 10 years. He says 3% Man has worked well for him. He asks about what it means when I say that your woman wants to feel your strength and she really likes it when you resist her. He asks for a deeper explanation and how to do this properly.

My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.

Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “How Women Want To Feel Your Strength & Are Repulsed By Weakness”.

So I’ve got an email. It’s actually a really short one. This guy says he’s been following me for about ten years and he’s read 3% Man. He says he’s done really well with it. It works so well as he says he’s currently reading Mastering Yourself, which is obviously my second book.

And if you guys haven’t read either of these, they’re free to read at UnderstandingRelationships.com. Just subscribe to the email newsletter, put your name, your first name, your email address, and just create a password and hit enter. And the book, all actually will open up right in your web browser and you can read them at your leisure.

So this particular guy wants me to kind of expound upon what it means, because he was watching a video where I talk about how women want to feel your strength, and they really like it when you have the strength to resist her. In other words, she wants you to do something, especially if it’s something you don’t want to do.

And she’s trying to get you to cave and you really don’t want to do it, or getting you to change your opinion to match hers because you’re worried about her approval, that kind of thing. Or like when you’re having sex and she wants you to come at the same time. Well, as a man, you’re going to do that when you want to do that.

And if she wants you to do that at the same time with her, you let her think you’re going to and you tell her to keep going and you say, I’m almost there. And then she has an orgasm and she’s like, well, you didn’t have yours. It’s like, don’t stop now. Keep going. And then what happens is, is that you resisted her.

In other words, she wanted you to do it when she asked. And you’re going to do it when you feel like it. So it’s your strength. You’re resisting her desire for you to finish now. And so what happens is because you’re not finishing yet, and you let her think you’re about to.

She keeps going, and then she starts having multiple orgasms because it’s really erotic and really turns her on because you’re doing what you want. That’s the resisting, especially when it comes to resisting her in the bedroom. And then when you’re ready, because again, you have self-control, then you finish. And you do it when you want to.

And I remember the first few times I was doing that with my ex-girlfriend, it’s just, man, it turned her on and she was like, bang, bang, bang. And she had more orgasm she ever had with anybody before because no guy ever did that. Because most of us, we like to finish at the same time as our girl. It’s very erotic, it’s very satisfying.

But making our way and doing it when you feel like it also shows who’s boss. And at the end of the day, you’re supposed to be more masculine than she is. You’re not a dog. You don’t take orders. Remember the Steve McQueen quote? “I live for myself and I answer to nobody.”

Viewer Email:

Hi Corey,

I’ve been watching you on YouTube for like 10 years man. I bought both of your books and right now I’m reading mastering yourself. I absolutely love how to be a 3% man book. It works so well. You described in one of your previous videos that women want to feel your strength. You said that resisting her is the strength you’re talking about and she feels you resisting her.

So I’m assuming that was the part in the book where, in other words, you do what you want to do. And especially if she wants you to compromise on something that’s ridiculous, like an absurd request that, you know is absurd. Sometimes women do these things just to see just something simple like, well, I’m not going to come over. Then I was like, whatever, you’re coming over. You don’t get afraid if she says she’s going to do the opposite.

You know, especially if she’s laughing and joking around like, I had an ex-girlfriend that was an international ex-girlfriend. And we were joking and she’s like, you need to do this. And I was like, I’m not doing that. I don’t want to do that. She’s like, well, I’m not coming to visit. I was like, bullshit. It’s like, I know how much you love it here. And you’ve been telling me for weeks how you can’t wait to see me again. So don’t give me that crap.

And she giggled and laughed. And it was just kind of part of her seeing that I would resist her ridiculous thoughts, but it was a test of my strength. Would I really freak out and get afraid that she really wasn’t going to come see me? I was like, no, I’m indifferent to it. It’s ridiculous. I’m amused by it. I think it’s kind of cute. And so that’s in like that particular instance, it’s me resisting the urge to get upset or feel fearful.

It’s like I’m not in any way, shape or form doubting that she’s going to come see me. It’s kind of absurd, but I understand why she’s doing it because she’s a girl and that’s what they do. They test us. So she’s doing a little ball breaking to see if she can go. I’m not coming then. Not like serious. But it’s kind of half joking, you know, because she can’t keep a straight face when she’s saying it. But the point being is I’m not worried about it.

It’s like, oh, well, like in another instance where it was like when I actually wrote about this in the book, one of my ex-girlfriends, we were in the process of dating before she became a girlfriend. She was like, well, I was like, I’m coming to pick you up. She said, well, I’m not going to be here. I was like, well, I’ll take your mother to dinner. It’s because we had plans and I was supposed to meet there. I think I might have actually been on the way there for I might have been like way out East somewhere or way out west looking at a house.

And so it was like a 30 minutes out or something like that. And she’s like trying to change the plans and get me to meet somewhere or do this or do that. I was like, no, I’m coming to pick you up. And she said, well, I’m not going to be there. Then I was like, well, I’ll take your mom to dinner. And so you just have that attitude that it’s kind of amusing. In other words, you don’t really take it seriously. And she laughed at that.

She thought it was funny. And I was like, I’ll see you in a little bit. Gotta go. Bye. And I just hung up and showed up. And of course she’s there. But it’s like a game. It’s like, you know, I try to get him to do what I want and then he doesn’t. But she doesn’t really want you to go along with doing that. She really wants you to stand up to her and do what you want to do, because that’s what’s right for you. Not go force yourself to eat sushi if you absolutely hate sushi. And she says, are you sure?

I was like, yes, it’s fine. And then you go there and you’re just like, oh, this stuff’s disgusting. So she’ll respect you more if you either don’t go or you have a different entree. But in other words, you’re not going to go and eat something and pretend to like it to please her. Well, if you don’t like it, I don’t like Italian food. I don’t like lasagna. I’m not eating fucking lasagna. I’m not going to that place. Let’s go here instead. Not being a dick about it, but just, you’re going to do what you want to do.

It’s like if you’re in the process of buying a car at the car dealership and you want a blue car, and she’s like, oh, I really think you should get the red one. I really like the red one. It’s like, I don’t care. It’s my car. Red’s a chick car. I want a blue car. I’m getting the blue. But I really think like, doesn’t matter. Then buy your own. Go get the same model and get a red car. I’m getting a blue one. It’s like it’s not happening, sweetheart. I’ll let you ride in it. I’ll let you ride my blue car, but it’s not going to be red.

So it’s that kind of stuff. It’s love is playful and fun, and often women try to, in other words, they bluff to test. They bluff you when they’re not really serious or they don’t really need it, or they’re not worried about it, but they do it just to see how you react, especially when things are going really well. Girls will just kind of mix things up a little bit, or be difficult, or wait to call you back a little bit just to see how you handle it. Just because she wants to see how you show up.

And if you’re never bothered, you’re not perturbed, then the tests are very little. They don’t happen that often, and even when they do, it’s kind of amusing, but it’s just they’re always just making sure your armor has no chinks in it. And if they find a chink, they’re going to exploit it because that’s what they do. They find their weakness. It’s much better for the woman to find her weakness and help us overcome it or point it out. So there you have it.

I was wondering if you could go more in depth of what you mean in a YouTube video and maybe someone letter to add more to the video. Thanks for everything you do.

Bob

So that’s all I’ve got for that. Like I said, it’s a really short email, but like I said, love is playful and fun. You want to resist her. In other words, you don’t want to change your opinions to match hers. And especially when it comes to in the bedroom. Because a lot of women like that, they want to come at the same time and just make her wait. Make her wait and see how that goes. And then, you know, when she has 3 or 4 orgasms or maybe 5 or 6 in a row, then you finish.

And then once she gets off you, she’s going to be sweaty and dead tired, and she’ll probably want a nap and she’ll purr like a kitten and she’ll be really happy. She’ll have that warm and creamy feeling. It’s an old girlfriend’s mother used to say about us having sex. Do you get that warm and creamy feeling after he finishes? She actually said that.

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