Why you should never ask a woman when things are rocky in your relationship if you are still dating or communicate in any way that you are uncertain of where you stand with her, or you risk getting friend zoned or dumped altogether.
If you have to ask a woman if you are still dating, then you’re probably not going to get the answer you were hoping for. Why? The very nature of being unsure of yourself is a feminine energy quality. Act feminine around a woman, and she’s instantly going to pull back and look for you to make a move or gently lead the interaction to where YOU want it to go… as a man should. If you don’t know what to do, or hesitate making a move, she will perceive you as weak and back away losing interest/attraction. The closer you are on a scale of 1 to 10 (super hot dude in her eyes) to a 5 or lower, the closer you are to being dropped forever as you have fallen down the black hole of her interest in, and attraction for you being kaput… done for good!
In this video newsletter I answer an email from a viewer whose girlfriend became cold, distant and unsure of whether or not they were still dating… they were… they weren’t… they maybe were, etc. when he continually pestered her with questions one recent evening that only a woman who is unsure of herself would ask. He wants to know what to do to re-attract her and recover from his crash and burn when she returns from her trip in a few weeks. I tell him how to get her to chase him when she comes back… as long as he has not ruined it completely with her interest having permanently gone down the black hole of dead romantic relationships never to return again.
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