Why you need to take your dates one date at a time, live in the present moment and not become overwhelmed by a woman’s beauty and sex appeal to the point that you lose your masculine center and become weak, needy, too compliant and too nice, or you will get rejected or friend zoned. Why you should treat all women the same, especially the ones you really like, or you will get rejected.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is dating a woman who totally knocks his socks off. However, due to his acting dopey, being too nice (which she explicitly told him not to do with her) and his over-pursuing her, she’s no longer initiating contact with him, is too busy to make dates with him and has not responded to his latest offer for another date.
They’ve had ten dates total, but it has not lead to sex. She stopped coming over to his house and has basically been edging him towards friends zone, instead of growing closer and closer romantically. He writes in asking what he can do to turn things around at this point.
“Human beings have two primary fears: 1) Fear that we don’t have what it takes (enough education, looks, skills, talent, intelligence, resources, etc.) to get what we want and 2) Fear that we won’t be loved and accepted by our friends, family, peer group or lovers. These fears are what prevent most people from ever stretching beyond their comfort zone to go for what they really want in life, or to be able to hold on to what they really want when they have it. Be aware of your self talk and what comes to mind when you think about what you want or take action to get what you want so you are making decisions from a place of peace and certainty, instead of fear and scarcity. Why? Because what you fear… you will attract.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne