Why changing who you are to please a woman you want will cause her to reject you for being a wussy. Why being your own man and setting your boundaries as to what you are willing to put up with dating-wise, will make you outrageously more attractive to women than trying to be something you are not.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who got dumped by his girlfriend. He begged, cried, pleaded and blew up her phone for two months, but to no avail. Despite his pathetic behavior he writes in asking what he can do to get her back. He changed who he was while they were together in hopes that his approval seeking behavior would be rewarded with love, but she dumped him for being a wuss.
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“Changing yourself to become what you think you need to be in hopes that someone else will love and accept you, only leads to your being miserable and getting rejected anyways. It’s always best to live your truth and be who you really are. Besides, people can only fake who they really are in the first 90 days of a relationship. If you have presented a fraudulent version of yourself initially to get love, you’ll only end up disgusted with yourself and resentful towards the other person because you have repressed your true self.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne