I Got Her Back! Now What?

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1. Nick says

   April 11, 2017 at 5:08 pm

   Hey Corey , my name is nick and im 35 yrs old and landscape for a living. I’m a very hard worker and I’m in relatively good shape. I love listening to your infinite wisdom. I read your book once, I know, I know, lol 14 more times lol. I watch your videos every single day. You’ve helped me through alot of hard times and for that I’m very grateful. Keep up your awesomeness.
   I’d really appreciate if you would discuss this on one of your videos. I met this beautiful woman ,33 yrs old over a year ago she’s in the military and has two girls like I do. We met online and had her in my bed on the second date lol. She had to leave a few weeks after we met but we had a mad intimate connection.We talked everyday, had phone sex,skype sex lol. We were madly in lust lol. I flew out and drove out to see her while she was in Ontario on course. We Had passionate sex all day long every day when I was there and when we made love we both had the deepest connection anyone could ever had. Best sex both of us ever had because we were madly in love. Everything was fine she moved in with me but got the news that something terribly horrific had happened to her young daughter while she was away. It devastated her. So from that point on our relationship was put on the back burner for now and she moved out. After that I was needy etc etc all that bad shit and all I focused on was our relationship which I was told was not her main focus but she still loved me and we continued to date as usual. We broke up a few times and kept getting back together over and over. We did everything together. I was pretty much living at her place after awhile and the sex and the affection plummeted. So in the end, like she’s always said to me to fix myself and love myself and do me. To this day she says she still loves me but her children and caring for herself is number one. I understand. So her friend came to visit and we all planned on going out to a bar. Last minute she said she wanted a girls night that’s fine so me and my bro went out. I was at the bar and seen her and her friend walk past me and onto the dance floor. So super pumped I walked out and asked her to dance and she rudely said I’m here with my friend. I was hurt so I said that’s enough of being used and abused because I did and bought everything for this girl all the time. I was a pleaser like you say. So I broke up over text and she’s like “k”. So I went no contact and eventually we started talking again and sleeping over. When we break up and we don’t speak for a bit she always texts me after a bit and tells me how much she loves me but just needs me to be strong for her. I try but I always get my feelings hurt when I don’t feel loved by her. I know know that’s me. She’s been going through alot I know but for awhile we were still having sex and she was affectionate. Now there’s no affection from her except a kiss once in awhile and I asked her why we don’t have sex anymore and she said she could care less about sex anymore. She said she’s healing herself and that we are toxic together but she tells me she still loves and cares for me. But on the other hand she says if I need to fuck someone else go ahead but I don’t want anyone else I only want her. I’m madly in love with her. Ive never felt this way about a woman before. I put her needs in front of mine all the time. I’m trying to fix myself through counseling, mindfulness and reiki. She tells me to heal myself first. She said if she didn’t care about me I wouldn’t be in her life at all. She hates my job too lol. And now she had two court cases with her ex husband and she said she has no time to deal with my bullshit. She says I rely on her happiness for mine. She’s an awesome woman and I love her to death but I’ve pushed her so far she couldn’t get any farther. We used to have amazing sex all the time to now I can’t even touch her and it drives me insane. It hurts to have someone you love so much not want you that way anymore. Like when we were having sex she would give me her all ,and so would I ,being a good lover always taking care of her body first every time, she would always tell me how much she loved me and me being inside her lol. I love her and her kids very much and all I want is a family. I love her and she loves me and she still texts me everyday not like she used to though but I’m trying to give her space and not being so needy and concentrating on myself for once. I really need your advice man. This is the girl for me and I want to get back what we had in the beginning because we were so madly in love she told me all the time what a wonderful man I was even told all her friends. It’s not the courting or sex I had trouble with its how to do things right all the time with her I need help with. I’m a fucking mess without her. This is the last straw with her and I know it so I can’t afford to lose her for good. She is very bitchy and blunt and sometimes violent by the way lol. I help her in anyway I can all the time like kids ,dishes ,chores lunches you name it. Even guys at work and family say walk away and find someone else but I can’t bring myself to do it. I care for her too much. And she’s been so patient with me
   and has said to appreciate the love I do get She even told me once because she always seems to be depressed, to pretend that I love you always even though she doesn’t show it. I want to be the man she needs and I want to fix our relationship because obviously she must still care a little bit because she will still talk to me and still keeps me in her life. I’ll stop now lol but I’d really really appreciate your help man tks

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2. Gerry says

   July 29, 2017 at 11:52 pm

   Hey Nick….My ass you read the book…! holy fuck man,you are so gone over this women that you have reached the point of no return .Stop stop stop seeing this girl,go zero contact .You are not ready for this girl,get some game buddy and grow your life,there is no quick fix here.This chick is not for you or any chick for that matter.I can only imagine the clusterfuck you and her have put those kids through….holy good fuck buddy,get your shit together,gone over a girl!!??Never never never do that,By your words and actions you have chased that girl away and you are even crazier than her..Grow a pair buddy as I have been down the road and it is a disaster and my story is lukewarm compared to the mess your in.Back off now…..Slowly study Corey’s book ,take your time ,lighten up, it’s fun and effortless when you make it that way…….that relationship as you know it is over….. Regards ps. Get out of the false reality you live in…

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