Why a man being in his masculine, being the leader in his personal and professional interactions and being focused on his mission and purpose will often cause women to say things like, “I never do this!” and behave in ways that are the opposite of how they are with all other men.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a fifty-three year old viewer who says he is a recovering nice guy, beta male. He says he always used to talk women out of liking him. After he got dumped last year by yet another woman, and did not see it coming, he came across my work while searching for answers. He is now dating two women that are both an eight on a scale of one to ten, as far as attractiveness and success goes. He is perplexed at how women respond to him now, versus how they never responded this way to him before he found my work. They are submissive and often unsure of themselves around him.
The second email is a success story from a guy who just finished reading my book for the first time, and he describes a massive success he just had seducing a woman successfully on their first date. He details what he did and said on their date and describes, how using what I teach caused his date to become very touchy feely, reveal her high attraction and thank him for being so different from most other men. He also shares some things he did and said to her, she later revealed to him and her girlfriends, that made her get wet, turned on and caused her to start floating sexual innuendos during their date. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the bodies of their emails.
First Viewer’s Email:
I am a recovering nice guy, beta male, 53 years old. (You’re never too old to become the person you were meant to be.) I would always be able to meet great beautiful women, but over time, I would talk them right out of liking me. Anyway, I met this one great woman. We talked about marriage, how we were meant for each other, soul mates, etc. She had children, so we would not spend the night together often, but were always on the phone. We were never setting dates, but playing it by ear. (You were not being a leader, but becoming her therapist over the phone. When you you do this, you become ambiguous with your intent.) I was running by her house during the workday, so we could hang out. All of these behaviors got me off my off purpose. I became needy and a pleaser. (You may have initially been in your masculine in the beginning, but over time, in order to be what you thought she wanted, you became a pleaser. Women will resent being the leader. It’s not the essence of feminine energy.) It was ridiculous, looking back.Three months later, she dumped me. I was shocked!! Never saw it coming. You know the drill. That’s when I found your book. I have read it four times. Like you tell the readers, I have found different and deeper meanings in it each time I have read it. (As a coach, I teach fundamentals, and then come back and teach them again from different angles.) Great advice by you to have people read it so many times. (I simplify complicated subjects by connecting the dots. You get the benefit of learning everything I’ve learned and studied my whole life. The book teaches the fundamentals all of my videos are based upon.) I have never heard anyone ever suggest that. Much respect. I am reading it again currently.
It’s been a year later. I have tightened up my mission, where I am heading, values, what’s important to me, and my state of mind, being peaceful with what is – not being needy or attached. I actually put it on paper, so that I can go back and refer to it often. All of these things I could personally control and improve on with work and awareness. (At the end of the day, that’s the most important thing. You only have control over what you do and how you show up. If you take care of your mission and your purpose in life and start focusing on a life and lifestyle that’s full of the kind of activities you really enjoy, meeting a great, like-minded woman will become a side effect of that process. It’s not about memorizing a pickup line or a technique.)So here’s the reason I am writing… the last two women I have been out with, both in the 8–10 range in both beauty and success, are really highly respected and prized women. As I am practicing what you coach, I can tell both women are into me. They are currently at least at a level 8 in interest for me. Here is what is new to me. They both have said that they are really nervous around me. They say that I intimidate them. (It’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. When you have lots of options, you won’t be in a rush. This causes women to be submissive. You will become the opposite of every other dude these women interact with, who profess their feelings for them.) One actually tried to invite me to an NBA game, but was dancing all around it. I said in a sweet, playful way, “Well, you know you are going to have to ask me if you want me to go with you.” Of course she did, and I went. We had a great time. I also get the, “I NEVER do this!” (It’s just so rare for them to be in the presence of a real man, and you’re behaving in a way they aren’t used to.) My response, in a playful James Bond way is, “You do now!” — with a smile.
Days later, when she was mentioning being nervous or intimidated, she brought up asking me to the game. She said she was scared I would say no. Another time with the other woman, we were out with other friends that randomly showed up at the bar. She started to over drink, not her style, and the next day woke up hung over, saying this never happens to her. Anyway, she equated it to her feeling uncertain when she is with me. She also used the word nervous. (When she’s being vulnerable, you can reassure her with a kiss. This confirms you’re into her without having to say it.)My point is, that my ‘new way of being’ has totally created a new way women feel and act around me. Overall, it is a positive reaction, I guess, but just odd that it has never happened to me before, and now it happens all the time. It has actually made my confidence shoot through the roof. (When you’re totally in your masculine, women will respond.) Maybe you can comment on this? Do you see this in your experiences with yourself and other clients? (I talk about this in the book and in countless videos. This is totally normal.)
I appreciate all you do. You have a very impressive insight on how a lot of things work. Thanks for sharing.
Second Viewer’s Email:
Thank you for everything you do. My name is Bob, and I just had a great night with the first girl I met using what you teach. I have only read your book ONCE so far. I promise I will read it until it becomes second nature! You have helped me become aware of my weaknesses so much more! I also look at girls WAYYY differently now, and I’m so thankful!
1) I found out if she was interested — she was.
2) I initiated and scheduled a date and kept the conversation humorous, but to a minimum when SHE TEXTED ME ONLY. (In other words, you used the phone to set dates. You were direct and decisive.)
3) We went to multiple places on our date, starting with shots at her place, and I asked fun, light questions that got her talking about what she liked.
4) We had fun, hung out, and HOOKED UP. (This is right out of my book. A man’s job is to create an opportunity for sex to happen.)
Now, you already know this but… she actually told me how all the other guys fuck up by NOT DOING WHAT YOU SAY TO DO! (Here’s another woman who is confirming what I teach in my book.) They don’t initiate, or they let her wear the pants and make the choices. She said later on our date, yes we were both fairly intoxicated, “It made me so hot and it made my panties wet when I saw through the text, you took control and set and planned the date. I told all of my friends, and they agreed how hot that was.”
Because she is an alpha female, and where she lives/works she has guys all over her, she tried to test me SOOOO MANY TIMES, while almost simultaneously giving me signals, like hand brushing up against mine, sitting closer to me when possible, leaning into the conversation over dinner, while I lay back spread my legs like a king, and talking about how she “uses lots of her tongue.” And she will continue, but I am ready, because I am an alpha male, thanks to you, and if I do fuck it up I will know where and how to not to do that in the future, thanks to your material. Until then, I will keep ‘em chasing me. It’s what they want anyway, right? (It’s true, but a guy only has to pursue for the first 2-3 weeks or the first 2-3 dates. Once the woman starts reaching out, you can back off and wait to hear from them to make the next date.)
Sincerely your student,
P.S. I know you are a busy man, but if there is anything you know I need to work on, please tell me! (Read the book 10-15 times.) I will re-read your book until I have the material mastered, keep watching your videos and learning. I am your Padawan!
P.P.S. I totally got road head for the first time EVER after dinner on the way back home from our date. YESSSSSS, CHA CHING! Then we ended things back at her place.
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“Men who know how to act like real masculine men and who are comfortable in their masculine energy are very rare. This is because most men vacillate back and forth in an unbalanced way between being in their masculine and feminine energy. They are so rare, most women hardly ever encounter them, and when they unexpectedly do, they often become unsure of themselves but love letting the men take control and lead their interactions. When a feminine woman is in the presence of a masculine man, who knows how to lead and be a real man, she will feel safe and comfortable enough to relax, let go and become totally submissive to his lead. Unfortunately, most men will never get to experience this kind of submissiveness, playfulness and sexual polarity with women. A man who wishes to become the type of man all women dream of, should focus on cultivating his own masculinity by focusing on his mission and purpose in life, taking care of his body and being healthy, and creating a great life and lifestyle, full of fun activities and people. This will naturally and effortlessly attract the right kind of women into his life that match and mirror who he becomes when he is at his best personally.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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