What you should focus on and do, so you can turn your life around completely with a better job, career or business and a great personal life with the kind of woman who makes things easy, effortless and drama-free in under a year.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an update from a viewer who shares a second email success story after the last email success story I discussed in the article and video I did about six months ago titled, “Letting Go Of The Past.” In his latest email success story, he talks about how he met, seduced and swept his current girlfriend off her feet. They are completely head over heels in love with each other. It’s the best relationship and most balanced love he’s ever had. She apparently follows my work too and agrees that everything happened just like I said it would. An effortless love story unfolds when you know how to allow and facilitate its manifestation.
He says he was amazed at how everything she did was often predictable, just like I talked about in my book. He’s in the best shape of his life now, his career is skyrocketing and his new business venture is thriving. In the past year, he overcame a bad breakup, had major wins in his purpose and mission in life and met the woman of his dreams. Hopefully his story inspires you to create more greatness in your own life. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
In my last letter, “Letting Go Of The Past,” I told you about how I managed to get back on track after a breakup and a bad employment situation, and I thanked you since your work played a major part in my recovery. In this one, I’d like to further express my gratitude. As I’m writing this, that breakup has happened exactly one year ago, and one year later, I have turned my life around completely. I am in the best shape I have ever been, I am in a new and mind-blowing relationship, and the business my boss wanted to start with me, the one I told you about in my last letter, is where I am working now full-time. The icing on the cake is that since this is a venture capital start-up, I have the opportunity to support innovative entrepreneurs and help them with their dreams. (Make sure you get stock options in their companies, and get that shit in writing. Make sure you have a good attorney looking out for you.)
However, I came to realize that not my job, but being the best I can be and constantly improving myself is clearly my mission in life, and that attitude brought me the best thing ever and the reason I am writing this — said new relationship. (When you focus on the fundamentals and mastering the principles in my book, it’s simply a matter of time before you will see great results.) Shortly after my last letter, I met this amazing and absolutely beautiful woman, and in the course of getting to know her, I used many of the things I learned from you, and the success speaks for itself. I have to tell you, I actually smiled more than once when I noticed some situation playing out exactly like you described it.
From the get-go, our dates were easy and effortless, just like they should be. I kissed her at the end of our first date, (I discussed this in my recent article and video, “The Kiss Test.” When you date a girl with a great attitude, she won’t be trying to hold back), she showed up to our second date without any call-to-confirm bullshit, and it has been that easy and uncomplicated ever since. (That’s only possible because you became a high-quality man and attracted a high-quality woman. You attract how you act.) After our third date, she was absent for three weeks due to holidays, which scared me at first, (Remember, if I woman is always chasing you, she’s not blowing you off. If you understand that women are like cats and they come and go as they please, that’s how you can get through a situation like his), but I kept calm and when she came back, we picked right up where we left things before. (That’s why it’s so important to read the book 10-15 times, so you won’t have to think about it. It will be instinctual, and you’ll know what to do.)
We completely and head over heels fell in love with each other. In earlier relationships, I would have tried to force things from that point on, but I kept it fun and playful and went with the flow. A few weeks in, around the 7-week mark, and before my departure on a 3-week trip to California, another dream of mine I made true this year, we had the relationship talk and made it official. (If you follow what my book teaches, and you date a woman in the progression I talk about, usually it’s right at week 7 when they’re in love and they bring up the relationship talk.)
I always think about what you say about getting in a relationship to give, and this could not be truer. It feels great to do something good for someone purely out of the desire to make them happy. (That’s what love is. It’s about giving.) It is rewarding to provide romantic gestures and create fun-filled dates without any neediness and expectations to get something back. The irony is, when I employed that mindset, I got everything back. I got this beautiful and 100% my type, amazing, incredibly confident woman, who is a great communicator, humorous and way above creating unnecessary drama. It is also funny that I described all of her qualities last year before I even knew her, where I characterized the woman of my dreams during an exercise in order to forget my ex. (Women who have a good relationship with their family will be the easiest women to be with, because they tend to have a healthy self esteem.)
I have been in love before, but what’s happening here is another league, (If they don’t blow your socks off, you won’t go out of your way to get to know them and care about them in the way they deserve), so much so that any earlier relationship looks completely ridiculous in comparison. You’re absolutely right when you say that things are easy, effortless and high quality with the right person. Granted, I honestly believe that you have to be at peace and content with yourself before you can successfully date such a great woman. (Absolutely. You must become the kind of person you want to attract, and you did that.) She explicitly told me she loves my confidence, positive attitude and humor, and moreover, she went through a similar experience and also managed to drastically improve her life, so I think it is not a coincidence that our relationship is such a great fit. (Like attracts like.) When it comes down to it, I think that being confident, being happy on your own and not expecting your partner to complete you, but being two people at 100% who share their completeness, is the key to a great relationship. It’s just like you said in the last video, “When you’re in that place where you’re just enjoying your life, you’re enjoying being single, you’re enjoying dating, you’re enjoying meeting new people, you’re enjoying having new adventures, you’re enjoying your career – that’s when it happens. That’s when somebody amazing just kind of drops in your lap effortlessly. (You create a space for them, and that’s why they effortless manifest.) They’re ready for you, you’re ready for them and it’s just beautiful.” Spot on. When I showed my girlfriend your work, she immediately pointed out that this was exactly what happened to us. We were ready for each other, and that’s why I’m writing you this. She also encouraged me to tell you our success story, so here’s one more for your steadily growing stream of people who went out of their way to make their lives great. Cheers to all of them.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart once more, Corey. You’re doing a great job. (Thanks for the awesome success story. Thanks for making your life awesome and making her happy. Now the two of you can change your part of the world and impact the lives of everybody you encounter in a positive way.)
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“Relationships and once very stable life circumstances dissolve for only one reason: to help you become more, grow and create something even grander. Life is change. Life is always naturally and innately seeking a higher, more balanced, freer, peaceful and more loving expression of itself. Anything that stops growing in nature, dies and is then eliminated. Anything that grows and adds value, expands, is enhanced, entrenched and enforced. By becoming aligned with your heart’s highest values, desires, dreams and taking action, you ensure that you will also expand, grow, contribute in meaningful ways, be loved and be valued.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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