In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email success story from a viewer who originally found my work after getting dumped by the woman of his dreams over a year ago. He thought everything was going great, but then he came home one night to a “Dear John” type of letter dumping him. He contacted her once and told her what he wanted as I discuss in my video, “The Best Strategy To Get An Ex Back.” He then went back to dating other women and walked away.
A few months later, she contacted him out of the blue. They have been together ever since. She is head over heals in love with him. They are going to be moving in together soon so they can start their new life together. He shares what he did and said to get her back, and how he permanently changed his beta male mindset into an alpha male mindset that continues to pay dividends. My comments are in (bold parenthesis like this below) in the body of his email.
First and foremost, I’d like to say thank you. You’ve changed my life. Before I bought your book and watched hundreds of YouTube videos, I was one of those guys that had no problem getting dates and closing the deal, but it never lasted for over a month, because I’d be on to the next one. I’d either blow them off, or they’d blow me off. I met a girl last year that blew my socks off. She was beautiful, and we had a pretty deep connection from the start. Then, one day I came home to a note basically saying I’m breaking up with you. (That’s a classless way to go about it.) I was devastated. I tried calling and texting, but no response. (I think that’s what people call “ghosting” now. Somebody breaks up with you, and you never get them on the phone again. They never tell you why.) This is when I came across your work and immediately ordered your book off Amazon.
I employed your strategy to get an ex back by leaving one last message saying, “I’m done. Give me a call if you change your mind,” and I walked away. Not only did I walk away, I went back to what I knew and started dating and sleeping with other women. I’m not sure if she crept into my Facebook and saw me with all these other good-looking women or not, (I’d say there was a really good chance she did, based on statistics of published studies. If you post positive, uplifting things in your life on your Facebook page, it will show you didn’t miss a beat), but out of the blue, I received a text from her wanting to get together. We successfully hung out, had fun and hooked up. By this time, I’d read your book, I can’t even remember how may times, and dissected your YouTube videos. (The idea is, the book is the coaching manual, and the videos are meant to help you fine tune and tweak your approach by using real world examples from men and women all over the world who are having the same issues you’re having. The videos demonstrate how to take the fundamentals and principles in the book and apply them to your specific situations.) I realized I had some weak, needy behavior and was a bit of a nice guy. (You were communicating you were weak and needy, which communicates you aren’t worthy and don’t deserve her.) I changed those things, let her contact me ALL of the time, and then I’d set the next date. (Like I discuss in my article and video, “7 Principles To Get An Ex Back,” when you have gotten pushed away, that person needs to be the one who earns another chance with you. That’s why they must do all of the calling, texting and pursuing.) She fell head over heals in love with me as this alpha male I had become. I took control of every situation, and she finally submitted to me. That was a big surprise, (It’s totally predictable when you follow what I teach), because she was, and still is, a very strong, confident woman. Anyway, our relationship is going on two years, we just found a place and are going to start a life together.
It’s all thanks to you bro, and a hell of a lot of effort on my part, to change my beta ways. Another success story for Coach Wayne! Bob… 3% man. Those numbers are going to start changing. Your next book’s going to be called, “The 5% man.” Lol! (It’s just a matter of helping one person at a time. Not only am I able to help that one person, but that person has the ability to change the lives of everybody they interact with after that. Someday, I’d like to see what I teach become common knowledge.)
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“The average guy who fails with women does not fail due to a lack of physical attractiveness or undesirability, but because he does and says things that make him look weak, insecure, inept, clueless, undesirable and unattractive. The man who is unsuccessful in his intimate relationships literally talks women right out of liking him without him ever realizing that he is doing it. The more time he spends with a woman, the more he likes her, but the less she likes him. Men in general need to ask themselves before saying anything to a woman, “Is this going to make me look more confident, sexy, desirable, happy, secure, stable and valuable, or the exact opposite?” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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